The very few amicable divorces dont counter the massive general patrern of antagonistic divorces, which are the norm. The structure of family court encourages women to be antagonistic to gain the maximum amount of money from the man.
I see you ignored most of what I said, especially my simple statement about selling me on all the bene fits marriage brings a man today.
Maybe its you who are really projecting here, because you certainly have no idea about my life.
I will continue to post my opinions based on reason and facts, and if you dont like them, I truly do not care at all. Truths are often not pleasant. Do you think I am happy about the current situation for men and marriage? I have never ever said that. Its exremely depressing. BUT ITS THE TRUTH. Why you dont like hearing it or acknowledging it could be a whole number of reasons.
Maybe you should tell us what actually happened to you, since you assert that your posted opinions are based on reason and facts.
I suspect that in any divorce or ensuing litigation, there is very rarely only one ‘guilty’ party.
J1630 has a point. In your anger and bitterness, you do broad brush and condemn all women and don’t pass up opportunities to do so even on threads that have nothing to do with marriage. FR is not your personal platform for you to lash out and hurt all women to get back at the one who hurt you.
It’s true that the courts are beyond unjust towards men and that there are many women who work the system to screw men over. But it’s not ALL women.
Many women have put up with much abuse before their divorce, and have to put up with men who simply refuse to follow the courts ordered child support and alimony.
It goes both ways and men are not exempt from being guilty of wronging women either. And there are many men and women both who put up with bad marriages and work to make them better. Many have far more integrity that you seem to think they have.
So, let go of your anger and bitterness against women as a whole because of the woman who wronged you. I am not responsible for what happened between the two of you and should not be held accountable for the actions of someone I never met. By taking your anger out on women like you do, that is what you are doing, expecting us to answer for someone else’s actions.