J1630 has a point. In your anger and bitterness, you do broad brush and condemn all women and don’t pass up opportunities to do so even on threads that have nothing to do with marriage. FR is not your personal platform for you to lash out and hurt all women to get back at the one who hurt you.
It’s true that the courts are beyond unjust towards men and that there are many women who work the system to screw men over. But it’s not ALL women.
Many women have put up with much abuse before their divorce, and have to put up with men who simply refuse to follow the courts ordered child support and alimony.
It goes both ways and men are not exempt from being guilty of wronging women either. And there are many men and women both who put up with bad marriages and work to make them better. Many have far more integrity that you seem to think they have.
So, let go of your anger and bitterness against women as a whole because of the woman who wronged you. I am not responsible for what happened between the two of you and should not be held accountable for the actions of someone I never met. By taking your anger out on women like you do, that is what you are doing, expecting us to answer for someone else’s actions.
i didn’t say all women. please stop lying about what i said.
but its ENOUGH women, when combined with the courts, and combined with divorce statistics, to make it an extreme risk for a man, which outweighs any benefits it may offer for a guy. Plus then consider many women already have backup men already picked out in case they want to leave their current man. i refer to this article here discussing a womens survey:
All of this should give any man great concern about getting married.
If the finances and courts and divorce stats were reversed, how many of you women would sign the marriage contract? If you had the same deal men have now, you would be running away so fast your heels would turn into flats.
and no one has yet even mentioned any benefit for men today in marriage. likemyou the response is to attack the speaker. and you also make a straw man to attack, as you assume a whole bunch of things you have no evidence to support.
Marriage is a horrible deal for men today. I don’t recommend it. Everything I see in statistics about it, and the law and how men are treated, its just not a good deal for men. Instead of just trying ad hoc tearing me down/insults, why not present a real case for marriage for men?