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To: metmom; All

i didn’t say all women. please stop lying about what i said.

but its ENOUGH women, when combined with the courts, and combined with divorce statistics, to make it an extreme risk for a man, which outweighs any benefits it may offer for a guy. Plus then consider many women already have backup men already picked out in case they want to leave their current man. i refer to this article here discussing a womens survey:

https://stories.swns.com/news/half-of-women-have-a-man-on-standby-in-case-their-relationships-ends-63045/

All of this should give any man great concern about getting married.

If the finances and courts and divorce stats were reversed, how many of you women would sign the marriage contract? If you had the same deal men have now, you would be running away so fast your heels would turn into flats.

and no one has yet even mentioned any benefit for men today in marriage. likemyou the response is to attack the speaker. and you also make a straw man to attack, as you assume a whole bunch of things you have no evidence to support.

Marriage is a horrible deal for men today. I don’t recommend it. Everything I see in statistics about it, and the law and how men are treated, its just not a good deal for men. Instead of just trying ad hoc tearing me down/insults, why not present a real case for marriage for men?


109 posted on 06/29/2021 10:45:26 PM PDT by Secret Agent Man (Gone Galt; Not Averse to Going Bronson.)
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To: Secret Agent Man

If someone is getting married because it’s a “deal” for them, just to personally gain from it, they are only using the other person for their own selfish goals and that marriage is doomed.

And yes, you do broad brush all women. I’ve read enough of your posts over the years.

You don’t have to ”say” is it in so many words to say it. So, no, I am not lying and I am not the only one who sees it.


110 posted on 06/29/2021 10:54:09 PM PDT by metmom (...fixing our eyes on Jesus, the Author and Perfecter of our faith……)
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To: Secret Agent Man; All
i found the graphic that went with the survey story
111 posted on 06/29/2021 10:59:05 PM PDT by Secret Agent Man (Gone Galt; Not Averse to Going Bronson.)
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