If someone is getting married because it’s a “deal” for them, just to personally gain from it, they are only using the other person for their own selfish goals and that marriage is doomed.
And yes, you do broad brush all women. I’ve read enough of your posts over the years.
You don’t have to ”say” is it in so many words to say it. So, no, I am not lying and I am not the only one who sees it.
No you are a liar. I did not say what you claim, those words are nowhere in my posts. Liar.
you know exactly what i mean when i used that phrase with “deal”. you are feigning ignorance. The context is marriage is a bad deal for men in relation ot it being a good deal for women, you know exactly what I’ve been talking about. Only one person benefits from marriage today and it’s not the guy. And you are fine with it because you,know women are the ones that almost always benefit.
i said it more than one way and every way i have said it, no one has ever put forth an answer just attacks and insults.
explain why marriage is a good thing for men.
tell me all the positives. unless you are of the opinion men should do things that are not good for them just because its expected of them, or its their duty to do things that aren’t beneficial to them.
Why shouldn’t marriage be beneficial for men? It is for women. If it wasn’t women wouldn’t be from childhood on dreaming about their wedding day and being married. If marriage doesn’t have to be beneficial for men then what’s the point of getting married for men, then? What kind of marriage is it if only the woman gets benefits? Not a fair or happy one for the man, that’s for sure.