Maybe you should tell us what actually happened to you, since you assert that your posted opinions are based on reason and facts.
I suspect that in any divorce or ensuing litigation, there is very rarely only one ‘guilty’ party.
I base it on divorce statistics
I base it on secondhand experiences told to me by friends and family
I base it on others stories of their divorces they have shared with the world one way or another
I base it on the legal inequalities of current us law that are heavily, heavily weighed in favor of women at the expense of men
I base it on the legal statisics that show even when men may in rare cases, get payments by a woman, for example, he is far more likely not to be paid, as the system almost never goes after women who do not make their payments, and the stats show of the very few women who ever are ruled to make payments, a higher percentage of these women do not make payments at all, or fail to make the proper amount payments.
I base it on documentaries such as Divorce Corp, where people share their stories, divorce attorney explain wht goes on in Family Court, and Family Court judges explain what go on in Family Court. It is an abomination of gross injustice.