First thing I wondered about was why an attractive 21 yo girl would have anything to do with a 37 yo man that was NOT a sugar daddy...
In the world I live in, guys over 30 are essentially invisible to any healthy girl / young lady 15-25. And a guy in his mid-30’s fishing in the kiddie pool SHOULD register a 10 point OHH! on the ole creep-o-meter for the barely legal nymphs in that pool...
He was fly. Sheeee
Who knows what she was thinking?
I don’t want to. I’ll throw up.
But you’re right. That is creepy
I was going to post something similar, but you saved me the trouble. I've known exactly ONE exception to that rule and they were both pretty exceptional people to begin with. She was early 20's, had completed her degree and was working as an elementary school teacher. He was mid to late 30's with a few more years to completing a 20 year retirement from the military as a senior NCO.
Body worshipers.
You truly think you understand the motivations of the young female mind?
I divorced in my late 30s, and believe me, I didn’t go trolling for college girls, but I can tell you, I was indeed NOT invisible to them. Some sure, all, not a chance in hell. I am no bronzed adonis, by any stretch, and not the smoothest talker either, however, the idea that girls that age, are instantly in creepy old man mode or sugar daddy mode.
Obviously if you want and are willing to be a sugar daddy, can find a young lady for company without trouble... But you don’t even remotely need to be to be able to date younger women in your 30s. Yes, many if not most you may be invisible to, but hardly are you going to be invisible to all, if you find that you are, its probably a lack of confidence that you have already decided you are invisible, so you will indeed be.
Whether you believe you can, or believe you can’t... you’re right.
“First thing I wondered about was why an attractive 21 yo girl would have anything to do with a 37 yo man that was NOT a sugar daddy...”
He was a big bad club bouncer (though he took the “easy” way out when the cops were on his tail). And i believe he lied about his age.