You truly think you understand the motivations of the young female mind?
I divorced in my late 30s, and believe me, I didn’t go trolling for college girls, but I can tell you, I was indeed NOT invisible to them. Some sure, all, not a chance in hell. I am no bronzed adonis, by any stretch, and not the smoothest talker either, however, the idea that girls that age, are instantly in creepy old man mode or sugar daddy mode.
Obviously if you want and are willing to be a sugar daddy, can find a young lady for company without trouble... But you don’t even remotely need to be to be able to date younger women in your 30s. Yes, many if not most you may be invisible to, but hardly are you going to be invisible to all, if you find that you are, its probably a lack of confidence that you have already decided you are invisible, so you will indeed be.
Whether you believe you can, or believe you can’t... you’re right.
Well, I got married at the age of 30 to 27 yo lady and she has not gotten rid of me yet... I have no way of disproving your statements; my comments are based upon my own observation of others.