Posted on 12/02/2019 5:20:56 PM PST by Morgana
FULL TITLE: Military women are expected to be ‘good soldiers’ and have abortions. Pete Buttigieg’s plan would make it worse for them.
On November 11, presidential hopeful Pete Buttigieg revealed his plan to help veterans, including by eliminating what he calls “barriers to women’s success in the armed forces.” According to his campaign, the plan states that as president, Buttigieg would “ensure women’s health needs, including reproductive care, are accessible while they serve.”
Abortion advocates have long been pushing for easier access to abortion for women in the military, claiming that women facing unplanned pregnancies need access to abortion in order to succeed. Buttigieg’s comments prove that this thought process is alive and well. But is it true?
The rate of unplanned pregnancy in the military is actually higher — much higher — than the rate of unplanned pregnancy among civilians. According to the pro-abortion group Ibis Reproductive Health, there are about 72 unplanned pregnancies per 1,000 women of reproductive age in the military vs. 45 unplanned pregnancies per 1,000 civilian women.
“Although both planned and unplanned pregnancy can be compatible with a successful military career, each has the potential to lead to a host of negative career impacts including a woman’s voluntary separation from military service or involuntary separation,” said Ibis. “[…] Unintended pregnancy may compromise a woman’s career trajectory in a number of other ways [… and] may also force a woman to leave her military tour early, making career advancement more difficult.”
Basically, the pro-abortion argument is that military women need abortion so that they can advance their careers. Once again, abortion and society pit women against their own children. The abortion industry forces women to choose between their career and their child and call it “freedom.”
Bethany Saros became pregnant while she was stationed in Iraq. Her relationship with the baby’s father did not last, and she knew she would have to choose — her career or her baby — with no support.
“One of the stigmas attached to a female getting pregnant on a deployment is the assumption that she did it on purpose,” Saros wrote in an essay for Salon. “It’s whispered about any time the word ‘pregnancy’ comes up right before or during a combat tour. The unspoken code is that a good soldier will have an abortion, continue the mission, and get some sympathy because she chose duty over motherhood. But for the woman who chooses motherhood over duty, well, she must have been trying to get out of deployment.”
When her military boyfriend broke up with her the day she told him she was pregnant, she said, “I can’t do an abortion. I just can’t.” So she didn’t. With the blessing of her command sergeant major, she left the Army, despite all of the gossip that surrounded her decision. After all of her efforts to succeed in the military were undone because of a lack of support for single mothers, not because of a lack of abortion access.
But what about the other women — the ones who feel they have to be “good soldiers” and have abortions? According to Jody Duffy, RN, a former Army officer and military spouse of 35 years, there are no concrete numbers of how many abortions occur among military women. A large number of them visit the military medical facility to verify they are pregnant, she explained, but they never go back. Instead, they likely visit a local abortion facility, or wait until they are on leave to have an abortion near home, making it impossible to determine how many abortions are occurring among military women. That decision to abort in order to protect their careers can lead to unforeseen problems down the road.
Duffy added:
The pain and grief of abortion only adds more stress and conflict to their lives. Whether it is the female soldier not wanting to sacrifice her military career or feeling pressured to fulfill her duty, or the male soldier feeling fatherhood may stand in the way of his mission, sacrificing our unborn children to abortion is an unfortunate and frequent reality of military life. Abortion decisions often involve varying degrees of pressure and conflict. This predisposes them to have more intense post abortion reactions and even trauma.
It is a tragedy that the women (and men) who serve the United States feel pressured to abort their own children in order to continue that mission. Duffy notes that the grief and regret women can feel from an unwanted abortion may follow them throughout their lives. As they return to civilian life at some point, those feelings won’t fade and may contribute to the rising rate of suicide among young veterans, she explains.
So what has abortion solved for these women? Nothing. It has simply replaced their original so-called “problem” — a baby — with a new one. And that’s what Buttigieg’s plan supports, thereby further signaling to women that they aren’t “good soldiers” if they choose life, that they aren’t strong enough to be mothers and soldiers, and that the government isn’t interested in helping them to have their babies — only to have abortions.
What pregnant and parenting women in the military actually need is the same thing that pregnant and parenting civilian women need: support. Their careers should be protected while they take maternity leave. Resources should be available such as access to quality health care and baby gear. No woman who has dedicated her life to serving her country, and has already sacrificed so much in order to do so, should be expected to also sacrifice the life of her child.
>>eliminating what he calls “barriers to women’s success in the armed forces.”
They don’t meet the readiness physical challenges yet they are fast tracked for promotion in numbers greater than their composition of the military in total.
What barrier is there to success when they are given special promotions?
make it real easy for everyone, all women get norplant on enlistment. no abortions ever needed while in service.
Killing the enemy .. bad. Killing your baby.. good. What a plan
And an easy out for avoiding deployment. Get knocked up....
In the late 1970s, Lieutenant General Julius Becton, the Army’s 7th Corps Commander in Germany told female soldiers to have abortions or get out of the Army. He was promptly relieved and sent home. How times have changed.
Not sure what goes on now. Up thorough the ‘90s pregnancy would allow one to resign ones commission or stay in being non deployable as another choice.
The assumption was that children and families needed the care of a wife and mother.
Now I see children at thanksgiving last week with no siblings, and their grandmothers as their primary caregivers while their mothers don’t interact with them. Some sitting on the sofa all day drinking nothing to talk about. Their jobs are everything - except they’re meaningless.
However, Reading this Is impossible. it is illogical to the core
What is an unplanned pregnancy? In the logical world, I mean
Women had better get their act together our society is falling apart
Never in my dreams/nightmare in a lifelong career in which I took off 20 years to take care of raising a family did I ever feel pressure to have an abortion. Is this the progress women want?
I’m not surprised, I could see it coming. But I never bought into it.
With that mindset, I’d expect him to REQUIRE any military female that gets pregnant on a deployment to get an abortion, whether or not she was married. This guy may have served as an officer in the Navy but I wonder what he got out of it, other than a few closeted sex partners.
More recently than that, women who got pregnant were given honorable discharges if they didn’t complain. Obviously if this plan is enacted, sexual harassment in the armed forces will not decrease!
Becton was a general worth following into combat.
I’ve always said if they ever try to draft women we will see a baby boom bigger than that after WWII. We will also see the pro life movement grow to levels never seen before.
“ make it real easy for everyone, all women get norplant on enlistment. no abortions ever needed while in service”
Yeah. That will take the pressure off women to pursue a normal life
Omgosh! What is wrong with people.
Good soldiers have self discipline and know where the base clinic is.
Keep your legs together or get birth control.
No excuses or whining in the military.
Huh! Combine that with a policy of demotion by two grades for seeing a baby to term and you’d really have something.
Buttigieg is really coming up from behind. He’ll be pulling a head in no time.
“ And an easy out for avoiding deployment. Get knocked up....“
Of course some women get pregnant to avoid deployment. Men shoot themselves in the foot.
No difference. Unless one looks at it throgh a misogynist mindset.
Ahh, Poofter Pete. I can just imagine that you and you spouse are awaiting the birth of your first child.
better than demanding they have abortions.
also will stop women from ‘accidentally’ getting pregnant to avoid deployment.
“ I cannot think of a better way to quickly debase a woman’s morals.“
After many years in the military my morals were not once ever debased. My friends who are now lifelong are the finest most loyal, family women who raised their kids tho be educated members of society.
So. No.
Sick.
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