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Study: Teenagers Who Don't Date Have Better Social Skills, Less Depressed
CBN News ^ | 09/10/2019 | Steve Warren

Posted on 09/10/2019 8:07:11 PM PDT by huldah1776

With all of the social and personal turmoil that develops during the teenage years, a new study finds teens who hold off on dating have better social skills, are happier, and are less depressed.

This finding goes against American culture in terms of every movie or television show that portrays teenagers in high school.

Some believe that dating is just a part of being a teenager. Forming a romantic relationship for the first time can help in a teenager's own self-esteem.

Researchers at the University of Georgia say that's true, but they've also found that not dating could be even more beneficial for teenagers.

In their study published online in The Journal of School Health, the research team found that teens who had not dated during middle or high school displayed good social skills, low levels of depression, and were generally on the same par with their classmates who were dating.

"The majority of teens have had some type of romantic experience by 15 to 17 years of age, or middle adolescence," explains doctoral student and the study's lead author Brooke Douglas in a press release. "This high frequency has led some researchers to suggest that dating during the teenage years is normative behavior. That is, adolescents who have a romantic relationship are therefore considered 'on time' in their psychological development."

If dating was considered normal and essential for a teen's individual development and well-being, Douglas began to wonder what this suggested about adolescents who chose not to date.

"Does this mean that teens that don't date are maladjusted in some way? That they are social misfits? Few studies had examined the characteristics of youth who do not date during the teenage years, and we decided we wanted to learn more," she said.

During the research period of seven years, the team noted non-dating 10th grade students had similar or better interpersonal skills than their more frequently dating peers. While the scores of self-reported positive relationships with friends, at home, and at school did not differ between dating and non-dating peers, teachers rated the non-dating students significantly higher for social skills and leadership skills than their dating peers.

Students who didn't date were also less likely to be depressed. Teachers' scores on the depression scale were significantly lower for the group that reported no dating. Additionally, the proportion of students who self-reported being sad or hopeless was significantly lower within this group as well.

"In summary, we found that non-dating students are doing well and are simply following a different and healthy developmental trajectory than their dating peers," said study co-author Pamela Orpinas, a GU professor of health promotion and behavior.

"While the study refutes the notion of non-daters as social misfits, it also calls for health promotion interventions at schools and elsewhere to include non-dating as an option for normal, healthy development," said Douglas.

"As public health professionals, we can do a better job of affirming that adolescents do have the individual freedom to choose whether they want to date or not and that either option is acceptable and healthy," she said.


TOPICS: Chit/Chat; Education; Health/Medicine; Science
KEYWORDS: dating; depression; socialskills; teenagers
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To: Nothingburger

“I think it was that straight-A student thing. Chicks hate intelligence — that’s why they gladly give themselves to losers who mistreat them.”

Every women I have ever met said intelligence is in the top 5 criteria for dating.

Intelligence = ambition for the most part another top 5


41 posted on 09/11/2019 10:37:10 AM PDT by setter
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To: Nothingburger

Her loss. :) I suggest you ask the Lord to take you to her. Like when Rebecca was found. I do not believe in coincidences. Follow His lead and acknowledge Him in all things. He is our point man.


42 posted on 09/11/2019 11:29:52 AM PDT by huldah1776 ( Vote Pro-life! Allow God to bless America before He avenges the death of the innocent.)
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To: huldah1776

Incorrigible!!! :)

Honest, it’s not the dating, it’s the sex and all of the powerful emotions that come with it that kids today are NOT ready for and the results can be devastating mentally, spiritually and physically and last a lifetime.

Besides the sin part.

Hope you are well :)


43 posted on 09/11/2019 11:57:17 AM PDT by dp0622 (Bad, bad company Till the day I die.)
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To: Nothingburger

BTW. I have an uncanny ability to say things at the WRONG time...LOL


44 posted on 09/11/2019 12:53:06 PM PDT by huldah1776 ( Vote Pro-life! Allow God to bless America before He avenges the death of the innocent.)
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