11. Women have rated men higher who take heroic and sometimes primal risks. These include saving people's lives, hunting for food, and playing with fire.
1. Looks.
2. Money.
3. That he believes their lies.
4. All the rest are lies.
Sources:
Evolutionary Psychology, Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, Personal Relationships
Above 6 foot and you are half way there with most women. Add a thick wallet and you are home free.
>>>10. Women around the world perceived men as more attractive when they wore red, according to one study<<<
Okay guys, grab your MAGA Hat and get to it.
Biggest turn-off: Being a liberal
Money. All else is fungible ...
If nonjudgmental is really a successful reproductive strategy, society is DOOMED.
Eleven qualities in men that women find attractive.
Well that explains a lot. Fine bring on the flings, but I'm going to keep trying to make them last.
2. A sense of humor is important to women. Scientists have found it makes men seem more intelligent.
See #1. And it should be obvious that I'm intelligent and have good humor.
3. For long relationships, women tend to prefer altruistic men who are kind and do good deeds.
I bailed out my dad's caregiver and picked her up from jail twice. Does that count? We're not talking golddiggers are we?
4. In studies, women choose men posing in front of expensive cars or apartments, versus ordinary ones, possibly because they make the men appear rich.
So we are talking golddiggers. Rats.
5. Women may like older men because they've had time to accumulate more resources.
Nailed it! So to speak.
6. Facial hair has been an attraction and a repellent in studies, so that feature is likely based on preference. Do what you want with your face; you'll attract the right mate.
So if I vary between beard in winter and shaved in summer I'm repelling half the women every year and the other half 6 months later?
7. Older research concluded that people liked when other people liked them, but recent studies have found that "playing hard to get" could be an effective tactic. When men are unavailable, that might make women want them more.
But how do they sense that I met someone I like through the internet when I haven't posted it. It's feast or famine.
8. Small studies have indicated that men with dogs do better with the ladies.
Sorry, I'm not getting a pooch just to leave it at home when I'm out with a woman. That's cruel, not doint it.
9. In one speed-dating experiment, women were more attracted to men who were mindful — present, attentive, and nonjudgmental.
Well I'm trying not to judge all that metal stuck in your face and that "$" tattoo on your chest. But dang...
I have a friend who has always been able to date the hottest women in the world and I mean that literally.
I have no idea exactly what gives him that talent but he is fairly handsome with curly blond hair. He is extremely intelligent, in fact president of a large Mensa area.
He does have a good sense of humor and is fairly wealthy.
He married a model when he was 65. Before that he dated a series of beauties. I am a little bit surprised that they are still married.
I could really tell the stories of his ability to approach a girl and end up with a date. He did it time after time when I was with him.
Well #8 is surely true. When I take my terrier to the dog park I get into a lot of chats with lots of women. I’m not sure if they like me or the dog though.
3. For long relationships, women tend to prefer altruistic men who are kind and do good deeds.
This is not true. From the time they develop an interest in boys, the majority of teenage girls tend to go for the “bad boy” type, and usually stick with that for years.
I’ve been in relationships with women who had been involved in a couple of abusive relationships, every time they will dump a “nice guy” who would never hurt a woman, for the first idiot that comes along and treats them like dirt.
This has also been proven in clinical studies of abusive relationships. Both men and women involved in abusive relationships follow predictable patterns. Long term verbal abuse is followed by long term physical abuse, and by the time the physical abuse starts, the woman has been brainwashed or indoctrinated (by verbal abuse) to believe she deserves no better, and brought it on herself. It’s a distinct pattern, and predictable.
If you ever hear someone berating his wife or girlfriend, “you’re just so stupid”, “you can’t do anything right” etc, that’s part of a distinct pattern. The women follow a similar pattern and will actually look for someone else who is just the same, after finally getting out of an abusive relationship. And they don’t realize they are doing it. They are usually the type who try their very best to please the man they are with, and there is no pleasing him. They can’t understand why nothing works, they try their best and he still just blows up every time.
I’ve seen this several times, been dumped with no warning by several women and didn’t know why, that’s why I started to research it. Each had been through abusive relationships before I came along. Everything going well, a close friend telling me she loves me, suddenly one day she won’t answer the phone or the door. When I finally find out, she met some doofus who treated her like dirt, let him move in 3 days later, less than 2 months and he beat the crap out of her and put her in the hospital. (True story) My friend’s wife had been telling me just be patient, she loved me and was scared as I was, she had told her she loved me. Saw her one day, everything fine, 2 days later she wouldn’t answer the phone...
The couple who were close friends told her do not ever bring him to their house again. She bumped the coffee table getting up, spilled his beer and ran to the kitchen to get a towel. He threw a screaming fit, called her things I won’t include here, demanded she go get him another effing beer, before she could clean up the mess. After he put her in the hospital her father told him if he ever came within a hundred yards of her he’d look him up with a shotgun. I lost track of them, never found out what happened after that. When she met me she had just divorced another idiot who beat the crap out of her a dozen times. That’s why she was scared to start anything with me.
This is the story every time, it’s a proven and predictable pattern. I’ve been through the exact same scenario at least 5 times with different women. Those who do prefer a nice guy always will, those who look for and are screwed around by the bad boy type, always will. Unless after 20 years or so they finally come to their senses...that’s uncommon though.
As a general rule though, #3 is bull...
Looks and physicality is for mating and breeding
It’s astonishing how women who cheat often subconsciously do so with more brawny physical manly looking men and do it when they are ovulating I think without realizing it
So all you weenie looking anesthesiologists making 600,000 a year better make sure where hot wyfe is hanging days 8-15
Just saying
I actually knew a very nice but nerdy neurologist with a beautiful wife
I often pondered this admiring her from afar at Christmas parties..but I was happily married...still...I wondered
God love him...
She even made the commune to my wife sure he’s nerdy but he’s a good earner
My wife about fell over
I didn’t see plucking chin hair with tweezers. Does this mean I don’t stand a chance?
“A sense of humor”
I ask every woman I meet to pull my finger.
“Women may like older men...”
In what country is that?