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"Every conservative I have met has been a bully. Who are some nice conservatives you have met?"
Quora.com ^ | March 14, 2018 | Matt Salter

Posted on 09/29/2018 5:11:42 AM PDT by daniel1212

I’m a hardcore lefty. I also live in Texas and have spent most of my career working for nonprofits. That means a lot of red-state right winging. Not the nice, necktie, Laffer-curve, “fiscal conservative, social liberal” guys either. Nice conservatives don’t run charities. They’re comfy where they are. You want to do good in Texas, you need full-on deplorables. You need the churches, the phone trees, the mailing lists. They’re the boots, or at least the sensible shoes, on the ground, knocking on doors and passing out leaflets and stacking donations til 4 in the morning.

Let’s be clear. Philosophically, these people were opposed to my… everything. Hellbound from the haircut down. Tabletop gaming! I had friends at one workplace who loved and collected board games. Me too! Chat went swimmingly until I showed them the dice my beloved sister gave me for Christmas and they told me D&D is a tool of Devil worship. Chilled the conversation somewhat.

But I’m a dope-ass grantwriter, so they put up with me. That by itself is a shot in the gut to “conservatives are bullies.” I spent years in evangelical conservative settings and was never treated poorly, beyond the usual office nonsense. It’s tempting to say “well, you were making them money,” but I wasn’t. They didn’t get to keep the money I made. The money I made went to strangers in desperate straits, people of different faiths, backgrounds, colors than the evangelicals I worked with. Those evangelicals a) put in 80 hour weeks to help them; b) put up with a walking billboard for every value they didn’t have because he could contribute.

Then I lost my job unexpectedly. That comes up in nonprofit work, alas. Budget’s always a shoestring. Still, it sucked. Last day, I was packing up and the woman next to me asked if I was leaving. I said yes. She asked if she could pray for me. I said sure. Do what you like on your own time, right?

Then she took hold of my hands.

Friends, I was not expecting that. I came up Catholic. I am now a Christian pantheist. Laying on of hands? Not a thing in any of that. At all.

And she prayed. No smug. No pity. Not a word of condemnation. Tears in her eyes, because she was worried about me. Praying, because that’s what she could do in that situation. She believed, so she stood with me and tried her best to help.

I’ve never forgotten that. Don’t think I ever will. My beliefs weren’t hers. My faith certainly isn’t hers. There is every reason to suspect I will live out my span and die without ever experiencing another laying on of hands. But this person used the most powerful tool available to her to be profoundly kind to me, at a time when I really, really needed it.

That’s not the act of a bully.

So there’s that.


TOPICS: Chit/Chat; Education; Miscellaneous; Religion
KEYWORDS: deplorables; flyover; liberals; quora
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To: TADSLOS

21 posted on 09/29/2018 6:02:29 AM PDT by Sgt_Schultze (When your business model depends on slave labor, you're always going to need more slaves.)
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To: daniel1212

Anthony Bourdain’s episode with Ted Nugent ended with Bourdain saying something about how liberals are uptight and conservatives are fun. I forget the exact words but he referenced how his liberal friends would never understand. Liberals are intolerant people. They generally suffer from self-loathing.


22 posted on 09/29/2018 6:03:06 AM PDT by ConservativeStatement
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To: daniel1212

Grant Writers. Ran into one up here in Amherst, NH. I was able to arrange for the elementary school my son was then attending to get used computers donated by my company along with printers and software. My young son and I installed the wiring for the network. I started setting up the computers when this grant writer stuck his nose into the project and brought in a bunch of high school students to “help”. All they did was eat pizza and screw around. After it was all done, I had to fix each and every computer they “repaired”.

And the grant writer tried to take full credit for the project.

Grant Writers...worthless parasites.


23 posted on 09/29/2018 6:06:44 AM PDT by Redleg Duke (Disarming Liberals...Real Common Sense Gun Control!)
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In your face spitting foul diatribes at conservatives will often elicit tactics called agressive defense mechanisms. You want smashmouth political discourse? No problem.


24 posted on 09/29/2018 6:07:27 AM PDT by Clutch Martin (The trouble ain't that there is too many fools, but that the lightning ain't distributed right.)
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To: Fido969

They are the fat slobs getting out of their Prious and loading up on free food and goodies at food pantries.


25 posted on 09/29/2018 6:08:19 AM PDT by KeyLargo
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To: daniel1212

The author has psychological issues. If I carried a card for a good psychologist I’d off one and wish him a nice day.


26 posted on 09/29/2018 6:08:54 AM PDT by Moonman62 (Give a man a fish and he'll be a Democrat. Teach a man to fish and he'll be a responsible citizen.)
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Make sure you read the post and understand where it comes from.

Quora is a site where people can ask questions and then people post answers. The title of THIS post is the question. The answer is the text.

While if you did not read the post you might be tempted to write a snarky response, this post is actually nice.


27 posted on 09/29/2018 6:15:42 AM PDT by Vermont Lt
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To: daniel1212

To a liberal, a bully is someone that doesn’t agree with them.

Liberals are the littlest snowflakes and the most insane, intolerant, bigoted, stingiest, polluting, angry, unfriendly, greedy, fascist, hate-filled, mean-spirited, envious, resentful, vicious, close-minded, violent, murdering, child-abusing, amoral, stupid, censoring, horse-punching, book-burning, ignorant, uneducated, unskilled, childish, prejudiced, racist, women-hating, man-hating, perverted, thieving, destructive, American-hating, Christian-hating, muslim-loving, Jew-hating, Israel-hating, communist, vote-rigging, vulgar, dirty, smelly, election-rejecting, regressive, restrictive, prohibitive, bed-wetting, poo-flinging, cop-killing, war-mongering, conservative black hating, and scared little lying thumb-sucking idiots God has ever created.


28 posted on 09/29/2018 6:16:56 AM PDT by CodeToad ( Hating on Trump is hating on me and America!)
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To: daniel1212

A lot of very good comments at that Quora link!


29 posted on 09/29/2018 6:23:43 AM PDT by moovova
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To: Sgt_Schultze

I have saved that photo for their display.


30 posted on 09/29/2018 6:24:15 AM PDT by moovova
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To: Sgt_Schultze

their= future


31 posted on 09/29/2018 6:24:50 AM PDT by moovova
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To: daniel1212

Every liberal I’ve met is a liar.


32 posted on 09/29/2018 6:28:26 AM PDT by lowbridge
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To: Moonman62

Just hand them The Gospel of John or a New Testament to read and then discuss. You’ll probably never hear from them!

I may report later on experiences with liberals today!


33 posted on 09/29/2018 6:30:58 AM PDT by YouGoTexasGirl
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To: daniel1212

Refusing to acquiesce to blithering idiocy and malignant whining is now defined as “bullying”.


34 posted on 09/29/2018 6:34:39 AM PDT by Lonesome in Massachussets (Schumer delenda est.)
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To: daniel1212

Making a “career” working for “non-profit” organizations is a bit hypocritical in my mind. Often these people make 6 figure salaries. I remember one of the Kennedy making over $300K a year by heading a non-profit to provide heating to low income people.

This guy sounds very noble but many non-profits are a sham run by liberals to bilk taypayers out of money.


35 posted on 09/29/2018 6:40:16 AM PDT by HarleyD
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To: daniel1212

Most true hard core conservatives are rough people. People who have served OUR nation with sweat and blood. I no longer consider the Leftist vermin to even be called Americans any longer. The people I associate with are all former military and LE. These guys and gals are the most generous, caring and decent people I have ever been associated with. The Leftist scum who wrote that article hasn’t been out of mammas basement in quite some time obviously. Infuriates me.


36 posted on 09/29/2018 6:46:09 AM PDT by MGunny
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To: HarleyD
Making a “career” working for “non-profit” organizations is a bit hypocritical in my mind. Often these people make 6 figure salaries. I remember one of the Kennedy making over $300K a year by heading a non-profit to provide heating to low income people. This guy sounds very noble but many non-profits are a sham run by liberals to bilk taypayers out of money.

"Non-profit" only means there are no shareholders getting profits. People who work for "Non-profits" often do very well indeed.

A friend figured out how to make his business a non-profit. Works absolutely wonderfully for him.

37 posted on 09/29/2018 6:46:15 AM PDT by marktwain (President Trump and his supporters are the Resistance. His opponents are the Reactionaries.)
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To: daniel1212
"bully"

Anyone acquainted with the facts, inconvenient to liberal ideology.

38 posted on 09/29/2018 6:46:59 AM PDT by G Larry (There is no great virtue in bargaining with the Devil)
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To: 2banana

Just as there are no moderate Muslims, there are no moderate Liberals. One cannot reason, rationalize or ever have civility with any of these people.


39 posted on 09/29/2018 6:50:48 AM PDT by shanover (...To disarm the people is the best and most effectual way to enslave them.-S.Adams)
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To: marktwain
You're right, it doesn't just apply to government handouts. But it's a way to avoid paying taxes.

I'm not necessarily criticizing the process. Just those who, like this guy, sounds so sanctimonious about working for a nonprofit while criticizing conservatives for not working for a nonprofit.

40 posted on 09/29/2018 6:55:56 AM PDT by HarleyD
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