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He Asked Permission to Touch, but Not to Ghost
NY Times ^ | September 7, 2018 | Courtney Sender

Posted on 09/08/2018 5:45:28 AM PDT by C19fan

For our first date, he took an Uber to my apartment through a winter storm. As the snow fell outside, we sat close on my couch while he talked touchingly about poetry. Two hours in, I was hoping he would kiss me, and he did. He was a sweet kisser. For an hour we sat with his hand cupped behind my ear, kissing and talking. We had met on Tinder. I was nearly 30 and he was 24, but our age gap somehow seemed a lot larger than five years. Not because he acted especially young. It was more that when it came to sex and foreplay, he acted so differently from guys my age, asking for my consent about nearly everything.

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And from the flagship of liberal news comes a article right out of the pages of Cosmo magazine.

It is hard to believe the NYT isn’t owned by Hearst Publications. They are famous for putting out this tripe.


41 posted on 09/08/2018 7:14:54 AM PDT by Clutch Martin (The trouble ain't that there is too many fools, but that the lightning ain't distributed right.)
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To: C19fan

Eff the nyt


42 posted on 09/08/2018 7:15:43 AM PDT by onedoug
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A key that can unlock many locks is called a master key.
A lock that can be opened by many keys is called worthless.


43 posted on 09/08/2018 7:19:26 AM PDT by Clutch Martin (The trouble ain't that there is too many fools, but that the lightning ain't distributed right.)
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To: C19fan

“but because my partners so often disappear afterward”

I thought that was the point with Tinder.


44 posted on 09/08/2018 7:20:02 AM PDT by bk1000 (I stand with Trump)
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To: Bryanw92

They create the weather and then complain its raining


45 posted on 09/08/2018 7:24:04 AM PDT by Keyhopper (Indians had bad immigration laws)
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To: C19fan
That is some seriously effed up stuff. Seriously! 😨
46 posted on 09/08/2018 7:27:21 AM PDT by Georgia Girl 2 (The only purpose of a pistol is to fight your way back to the rifle you should never have dropped)
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To: Bryanw92
A culture of consent, one woman argues, should be less about self-protection and more about genuine care for the other person.

So once again, doing what the woman wants is not enough... it has to be done for the right reasons, or else he is still wrong.

(And then, of course, when he does all the right things, and they are all done for the right reasons... then she decides she wants something different, disposes of him, and finds another to use and criticize while doing it.)

47 posted on 09/08/2018 7:28:35 AM PDT by Teacher317 (We have now sunk to a depth at which restatement of the obvious is the first duty of intelligent men)
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To: Eagles6
When it comes to dating, I always follow WWFZD

(What would Frank Zappa do)

48 posted on 09/08/2018 7:28:55 AM PDT by sailor76 ( TRUMP, is still my hero.)
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To: C19fan

Well, cruising past UNR yesterday, we notice on the electronic sign near the b-ball arena that the ‘founder’ of “#metoo” group would be appearing sometime soon at the student union or someplace on campus. Sign was all in pink and frilly. Guess they can’t “Just say NO!” or some guys don’t know their boundaries. Didn’t see if pink pussy hats were optional to attend. And yes, the hot bed of liberal think is thriving here in Reno. And, yes, it is where colon krapernick graduated from. How embarrassing. He’s sacrificed soooooooo much. Ungrateful POS. These assclowns have ZERO clue about oppression.


49 posted on 09/08/2018 7:31:13 AM PDT by rktman (Enlisted in the Navy in '67 to protect folks rights to strip my rights. WTH?)
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To: Berlin_Freeper

“For our first date, he took an Uber to my apartment through a winter storm. As the snow fell outside, we sat close on my couch while he talked touchingly about poetry”

Sir, what is your name? And to talk two hours about poetry with a rager that could cut diamonds? Give me a break.


50 posted on 09/08/2018 7:32:27 AM PDT by Bonemaker (invictus maneoI forgot how much I disliked his lectures. Gag.)
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To: Vendome

51 posted on 09/08/2018 7:32:46 AM PDT by BenLurkin (The above is not a statement of fact. It is either satire or opinion. Or both.)
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To: Vendome

Ohhhhhh, lots and lots of Crazy in those eyes.


52 posted on 09/08/2018 7:33:12 AM PDT by Teacher317 (We have now sunk to a depth at which restatement of the obvious is the first duty of intelligent men)
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To: Balding_Eagle

That is actually a GREAT point, and one that I thought about after I pressed post.

She got played! Heh!


53 posted on 09/08/2018 7:38:21 AM PDT by Mermaid Girl
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To: C19fan

“Sexual training” Is this a thing? Honestly it reads like a recounting of the longest most boring game of strip poker ever. With a touch of bodice ripping romance novel plot thrown in.

O.k. The sex thing I get. I happens. Instant attraction, a few shots, buttons easy to unfasten. But licking!?! I mean yuck. Let a person you have known for less time than it takes to reheat pizza lick you. Just no. Big no.

So sex makes her feel vulnerable “because my partners so often disappear afterward.” I do believe Oscar Wilde had a bon mot for just such an occasion. Your problem is not that they leave. It’s that they forget to leave something in the tip jar. The obvious answer to this would be “So stop having sex just cause someone came to your apartment.” Better yet go someplace else where you have to keep all of your clothes on.

Oh and women like her is what made such encounters legalistic. You have demanded not love but sexual servicing with all the contractual terms laid out by you. You can’t blame them for not opting for the “caretaking” rider.


54 posted on 09/08/2018 7:39:07 AM PDT by lastchance (Credo.)
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To: Vendome

She’s beautiful but completely and totally crazy. No, thank you.


55 posted on 09/08/2018 7:42:41 AM PDT by Pollster1 ("Governments derive their just powers from the consent of the governed")
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To: MeneMeneTekelUpharsin

They want a world where no rules bind them, but where they can set rules for men, even after the fact.

It doesn’t occur to them that their desired world needs men who will obey, and other men who will enforce obedience. And what happens when men have had enough?


56 posted on 09/08/2018 7:46:38 AM PDT by SauronOfMordor (Socialists want YOUR wealth redistributed, never THEIRS!)
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To: C19fan

“Tinder” and “commitment” just don’t seem to go together.


57 posted on 09/08/2018 7:47:00 AM PDT by robel
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To: Bitman

You should be banned from FR for posting that without a BARF alert.

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What are you? a Snowflake?


58 posted on 09/08/2018 7:53:24 AM PDT by Chickensoup ( Leftists fascists today plan to commence to commit genocide against conservatives soon)
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To: Vendome

He asked permission to everything. He’s a pussy. Not calling him a pussy because he ghosted, calling him a pussy because even with a clear and wide open landing pad he didn’t have the stones to be a man even during sex... pussy


59 posted on 09/08/2018 7:58:04 AM PDT by HamiltonJay
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To: C19fan

Dummy democrat Tinder whore. He’s asking if it’s “ok” because he doesn’t want you to take his money via a court judgment. You think he cares about you? Why would he? He doesn’t even know you. You’re just a masturbatory thing laying there like an inflatable sex toy - with the power to make you a registered sex offender and rapist


60 posted on 09/08/2018 8:10:46 AM PDT by atc23 (M*NKEY - there, I said it!)
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