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Men are crying on TV like never before
Washington Compost ^ | March 30, 2018 | Elahe Izadi

Posted on 03/30/2018 9:36:56 AM PDT by EdnaMode

We’re having a moment for male tears — no, not the kind that the popular feminist mug metaphorically collects in pursuit of bringing down the patriarchy. We’re talking literal tears that men shed in moments of televised vulnerability.

Take the Netflix reboot of “Queer Eye,” just renewed for a second season. Yes, it’s a makeover show with bubbly experts instructing schleppy men on the wonders of slim-cut jeans, five-minute grooming routines, Ikea and avocados. But it’s also a show about men who are stuck and held in place by fear, insecurity, past trauma or rigid norms of what it means to be a man.

Just like the old series, a group of openly gay men deemed “experts” in areas such as food and culture enter a stranger’s life and try to improve it. “The original show was fighting for tolerance,” says one member of the new Fab Five at the top of the 2018 series. “We’re fighting for acceptance.”

In the process, Netflix’s “Queer Eye” subtly dings toxic masculinity. Giving these strangers haircuts and time to spend a few minutes taking care of themselves also gives them a chance — or, a push — to open up a bit about what’s bubbling below the surface. Sometimes these guys cry, surprising even themselves.

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TOPICS: Arts/Photography; Chit/Chat; Society; TV/Movies
KEYWORDS: crybabies; crying; feminism; hollywood; jimmykimmel; kimmel; soyboys; television; toxicmasculinity
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To: EdnaMode

The writer is confusing the term male for the word man


21 posted on 03/30/2018 10:04:08 AM PDT by 48th SPS Crusader (I am an American. Not a Republican or a Democrat)
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To: EdnaMode

Queers aren’t real men.

Real men like women.


22 posted on 03/30/2018 10:04:23 AM PDT by Lurkinanloomin (Natural Born Citizen Means Born Here of Citizen Parents__Know Islam, No Peace-No Islam, Know Peace)
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To: Luircin

The feminization of American society is appalling. And this has nothing to do with women. It is the demonization of men, often by feminists, but also by self-hating men.

I hate and despise it at all levels and in all of its iterations.

Of which there are a lot.


23 posted on 03/30/2018 10:04:37 AM PDT by rlmorel (Leftists: They believe in the "Invisible Hand" only when it is guided by government.)
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To: dfwgator
The only time a man is allowed to cry is when watching the end of “Old Yeller”.

24 posted on 03/30/2018 10:09:54 AM PDT by Bratch ("The only thing necessary for the triumph of evil is for good men to do nothing." - Edmund Burke)
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To: EdnaMode

Those are not men!


25 posted on 03/30/2018 10:10:17 AM PDT by SoConPubbie (Mitt and Obama: They're the same poison, just a different potency)
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To: miss marmelstein

“Queen for a Day”..............I used to watch that every day after school in the 60s..................


26 posted on 03/30/2018 10:13:16 AM PDT by Red Badger (The people who call Trump a tyrant are the same people who want the president to confiscate weapons.)
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To: EdnaMode

Who watches this junk?


27 posted on 03/30/2018 10:13:51 AM PDT by Bigg Red (Francis is a Nincompope.)
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To: EdnaMode

The U.S. is getting ripe for invasion.


28 posted on 03/30/2018 10:14:15 AM PDT by fruser1
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To: EdnaMode

No,they aren’t fighting for acceptance. They’ve already achieved tolerance and acceptance. Now they are demanding approval. Good luck with that.


29 posted on 03/30/2018 10:15:11 AM PDT by Crooked Constituent
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To: EdnaMode

I cried when Wolverine and X-23 destroyed all of the villains in the movie Logan.

It was a really sweet father-daughter moment.


30 posted on 03/30/2018 10:18:27 AM PDT by Architect of Avalon
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To: dfwgator
Al Martino was a singer, not an actor -- he couldn't bring up the ocular waterworks on command.

IIRC, Brando totally surprised him with that outburst. If he wasn't soaking the hanky before it, he probably thought about it afterwards.

(The one time I had a male relation come to me crying with almost these exact words, I *so* wanted to re-enact this scene, but wasn't sure enough of Brando's lines to pull it off. Probably just as well, he managed to pull himself together ultimately, heh.)

31 posted on 03/30/2018 10:24:35 AM PDT by thulldud ("What makes it news is its dissemination, not its concrete reality." -- Ellul)
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To: EdnaMode

32 posted on 03/30/2018 10:53:01 AM PDT by Vendome (I've Gotta Be Me https://youtu.be/wH-pk2vZG2M)
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To: EdnaMode

They use Queer Eye for an example? I doubt anyone is surprised. I find that a ridiculous example and does not show a big change in men crying on TV because on show about gay men has crying. I guess a reporter was running late for a story and just threw up this nonsense.


33 posted on 03/30/2018 10:57:41 AM PDT by napscoordinator (Trump/Hunter, jr for President/Vice President 2016)
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To: EdnaMode

Maybe a little off topic, but there’s a Tide commercial with some pathetic new age “dad” who chases his 5 year old kid around to wash her princess dress, because she lives in it. He has to get her out of it once a week because he’s got to do the laundry.

Honestly, it makes me so angry. He looks like such a flipping idiot and is an embarrassment. He’s all dressed up in costume running around playing like a fruitcake. Just disgusting. I hope he never has to fight to save the kid - he’d break down crying.


34 posted on 03/30/2018 11:00:41 AM PDT by JudyinCanada
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To: EdnaMode

Beta males are in, feminized males are in. Real men are out until someone needs something only a real man can do.


35 posted on 03/30/2018 11:35:00 AM PDT by Midwesterner53
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To: EdnaMode
...toxic masculinity...

Is there such a thing as toxic gayness?

36 posted on 03/30/2018 11:38:12 AM PDT by Libloather (Trivial Pursuit question - name the first female to lose TWO presidential elections!)
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To: miss marmelstein

So many on Chopped are gay or lesbian. Can’t stand all the chefs of fluid genders. Who wants to eat what they prepare as they nibble on the food, handle it with their nasty hands with no sink in sight and drip sweating to the food. It looks like STDs on parade.


37 posted on 03/30/2018 11:43:54 AM PDT by bgill (CDC site, "We don't know how people are infected with Ebola.")
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To: EdnaMode

Can’t that ruin the TV set? I don’t think they’re supposed to get wet.


38 posted on 03/30/2018 11:44:21 AM PDT by WayneS (An appeaser is one who feeds a crocodile, hoping it will eat him last. - Winston Churchill.)
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To: Abathar

Pocket pool.


39 posted on 03/30/2018 11:46:24 AM PDT by bgill (CDC site, "We don't know how people are infected with Ebola.")
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To: Luircin

...or because he has been hit in the balls...


40 posted on 03/30/2018 11:47:49 AM PDT by WayneS (An appeaser is one who feeds a crocodile, hoping it will eat him last. - Winston Churchill.)
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