Posted on 03/23/2018 6:36:41 AM PDT by C19fan
A relationship expert who describes herself as the 'Get the Ring Coach' has revealed why women looking for marriage should refuse to date men on an exclusive basis - until they propose.
Love and Relationship Coach Sami Wunder, who is based between the UK and Germany, used the same trick herself when she first met Chris, now her husband, by refusing to stop dating other people until he popped the question.
Nine months later he did and now they have been happily married for five years and have a son, while Sami has been responsible for 95 proposals in two years of business - with one taking just three months.
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That’s what I did. Worked like a charm.
I'm not saying women should deliberately date a bunch of other guys just to prove a point. But if the relationship doesn't seem to be going anywhere after 6-9 months, and some interesting dude asks them out, I don't see anything wrong with her going out. At the least, that might trigger a sit-down, and an honest "where the hell is this thing going" conversation.
Honestly, I think women who really want to get married to a guy is a pretty good thing, and if some guys aren't ready for that, then they should find one who is.
Did Chris stop seeing other women before he popped the question? Just curious.
The article specifically said that dating other guys should be non-sexual if she’s having sex with her boyfriend.
“After all, who doesn’t like sloppy seconds or thirds?”
And THEN he’s supposed to ask her to marry him.
Just so long as women realize that it works both ways...and that a guy will generally go for the easiest target. You want a man to commit? Good, then do so yourself.
Just sayin’.
Try being a single dad... unless the mom literally disappears willingly, its next to impossible to be the primary post divorce as a male.... Courts and Judges are beyond biased against the dad, even though EVERY study ever done on the subject shows children raised in single parent homes do far better when raised by single fathers than single mothers...
Won’t hear that in any feminist handbook.
With apps like Tinder, you can frequently just grab a single beer or head straight over. Who needs a couple date nights first these days?
“Depends on the nature of the relationship. If it’s early in the dating process, either party should continue to date others.”
In modern parlance, “dating” means sleeping with. “Going out with” or “hanging out with” means what dating meant in our day.
Dating multiple people when you are single does not make you are slutty. Every woman doesn’t have sex with casual dates. Most women don’t. You watch too much porn hub.
And so the Bachelorette Nation begins...I’ve wondered how long it would take for the “harem dating” technique to go from TV amusement to earnest reality.
Brain dead stupid. I would never propose to a woman unless she had proven to me it was me-only
“The article specifically said that dating other guys should be non-sexual if she’s having sex with her boyfriend.”
Wow, so she’s supposed to go on DATES (but absolutely no sex) with other men while only doing one OTHER guy?
Is she supposed to TELL the other guys, or let them think they have a shot with her?
Come to think of it, the 42nd US president redefined what sex “is” for us.....
For this guy, anyway, exclusivity is a required exhibition of commitment before a marriage proposal would be made.
On the two occasions when I considered marriage, before making the proposal for marriage, I did not date anybody else, and neither did my intended.
I see at least as many women unwilling to commit as guys; I don't know the answer. Women always think they can do better and won't settle, guys are afraid to lose all they've worked for in the courts.
She’s an idiot.
I married for the first time at 57.
I wouldn’t even think about proposing to someone who was still fishing.
“Guys need to try more Asian women.”
How many should they try?
I think I see a problem lying in wait for you down the road, there, Chris. Why didn't she just do the old tried and true "I'm pregnant?" Oh, that's right, people don't get married because of that anymore. Poor Chris married a skank, I'm sad to say.
Should say “Deny your boyfriend sex until he proposes AND actually marries you...”
He will likely immediately reject you and proceed with the woman who willingly beds him with no commitment.......
Boy are some women dumb........
Flame away ladies......
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