Posted on 03/23/2018 6:36:41 AM PDT by C19fan
A relationship expert who describes herself as the 'Get the Ring Coach' has revealed why women looking for marriage should refuse to date men on an exclusive basis - until they propose.
Love and Relationship Coach Sami Wunder, who is based between the UK and Germany, used the same trick herself when she first met Chris, now her husband, by refusing to stop dating other people until he popped the question.
Nine months later he did and now they have been happily married for five years and have a son, while Sami has been responsible for 95 proposals in two years of business - with one taking just three months.
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5 years, huh?
Let’s see how they’re doing in 10....
Feminazis today say don’t quit dating other people even after you marry.
#SmashMonogamy
#SmashThePatriarchy
Uh huh. Women like that don’t tend to stop “dating” period.
After all, who doesn’t like sloppy seconds ir thirds?
I can say, without hesitation, Laz..... would not hit it!
Poor men. They need to get more militant. Give her a cigar paper ring. Then tell her she ain’t ever going to get the real ring or the real thing. Bye Now!
Then watch her smartazz face.
How pathetic is that guy, who was so down on himself that he was forced to propose to a woman who wouldn’t stop doing other guys ?
Talk about a cuck. I thought Germans were supposed to be tough.
Yes, because a lack of commitment, petulant immaturity, and emotional blackmail are such great foundations for a long term relationship.
Because demonstrating fidelity during the courtship could NEVER be a requirement to get the man to commit...
Sounds more like a recipe to stay slutty and single.
Well, I do believe that all people should approach relationships with a a “poop or get off the pot” mentality.... IE.. is this the one? or not... and if not, end it, and if it is then get married. This is for both people... Not just men, but women too...
Don’t let yourself be strung along until “he is ready”... if you are ready and he isn’t, then he’s not the one.
However, I don’t think I agree with, stay away from exclusivity unless he proposes... can’t say its the WORST idea I’ve ever heard.. but I don’t think triggering the jealousy response to get a proposal is likely going to lead the best relationship.
Refusing to be exclusive, may force a man to really think about the relationship, when otherwise he would not... so I get the angle she’s playing here... just not sure its a sure fired winner.
In 19th Century literature, it was apparently common for women to have multiple suitors, until she accepted a marriage proposal from one. Then again, it was also the case that she was supposed to remain chaste before marriage.
In today’s world sex is cheap for guys - a dumb movie or two, a couple of dinners, and you’re “in”, so to speak.
Stats: In the USA, 72% of African-American births are out of wedlock, 53% American Indians, 42% Hispanics, 25% white.
83% of single parents are mothers, 45% of them are divorced or separated.
34% of single mothers never have been married.
Play Stupid Games, Win Stupid Prizes.
From the mid 70’s the term dating took on a completely different meaning. If it hadn’t, the title of this piece would make sense. It was the basic advice to women.
Since cultural acceptance of birth control, designed for men, men have continued to rule in their perpetual 17 year old boy dream life
Women don’t know what to do any better now than they did when this all started. They’ll be the last to figure that out
Guys need to try more Asian women. I’ll leave it at that...
It was easier remaining a virgin until marriage when you were married by 15.
The guy is probably dating other women. Why shouldn’t the woman?
Refusing to be exclusive, may force a man to really think about the relationship, when otherwise he would not... so I get the angle she’s playing here... just not sure its a sure fired winner.
Depends on the nature of the relationship. If it’s early in the dating process, either party should continue to date others.
If things have made it into the bedroom, both parties need to be exclusive. Not just physically, but dating-wise also.
There’s a word for a person who has concurrent physical relationships with more than one partner.
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