Posted on 05/11/2017 10:20:40 AM PDT by Red Badger
Pair dies less than 1 hour 30 minutes apart
LAKE JACKSON, Texas - After nearly 62 years of marriage, Lake Jackson couple Tom and Delma Ledbetter left this world about two weeks ago.
“Mama was from Nebraska, and daddy was from Arkansas,” said Donetta Nichols.
Nichols is one of the Ledbetters' daughters. She tells us the couple first met in their early 20s through mutual friends.
“He was stationed in Florida and my mother and her girlfriend had moved to Florida,” she said.
Their first date of sorts happened when Tom had to “just move his car.”
“They drove around two, three different blocks or whatever and they came back and they parked and he said he reached over and he grabbed her hand and he said, 'I don't know what made me do it.' He said, 'I just reached over and gave her a kiss on the cheek,'” Nichols said.
Three weeks later, they were married. Two daughters soon followed, then grandchildren and then great-grandchildren. It was a life filled with love and laughter. Then, in April of this year, Delma fell ill and did not recover.
“They couldn't get a pulse. They couldn't get a blood pressure. They couldn't get anything. Yet mama was just hanging on to something,” said Donetta.
A few days later, Tom too fell ill.
“We got him over to the nursing home with Mama. They had pushed their little beds together and Mama was laying right there, facing him. She was asleep and Daddy goes and he reached over there and he grabbed ahold of her hand and he just laid there with her, and it was so sweet,” Nichols said.
Not long after, Tom died. Delma followed, not even an hour and a half later. Their lives ended the same way their relationship began – holding hands.
“I mean, it was exactly how they wanted to go. It couldn't have been any better,” Nichols said.
From hospice to funeral home to final resting place, Tom and Delma didn't leave each other's side. Now, at Restwood Memorial Park, they'll never have to.
Best way to go...With your love....
That’s the kind of love that you won’t see in pop music, culture, movies, etc.
God bless them both. What a great example they were for friends and family.
Contrast with...
[Millennials are still not getting married]
http://www.freerepublic.com/focus/f-chat/3551497/posts
...Generation FAIL.
Blurry screen. What a beautiful life and family they had.
For couples married to each other a long time, this is a fairly common occurrence.
I wish my parents went that way.
The kind of marriage one strives for.
>>>Contrast with...
[Millennials are still not getting married]
http://www.freerepublic.com/focus/f-chat/3551497/posts
...Generation FAIL.<<<
To be fair to the young men, the jobs that allowed their parents and grandparents to care for a family nearly straight out of high school are almost all gone. And from what I have seen of several college graduates, their income potential straight out of college is barely able to afford a starter house and a stay at home mom raising a kid.
So it’s one part choice not to settle down and another part circumstances.
Who says it’s necessary to get married?
I wouldn’t if I had the choice to make again.
Decisions have consequences.
Deal with it.
And excuses are like _________?
Hint: Everybody has one and they all stink.
Pretty sure enlisting straight out of high school is still an option.
Sometimes there are periods of up and downs in any marriage. God bless.
Enlisting is not a good pathway to marriage. And besides, if you get married while still in, there are a LOT of cheating military wives. I know this for a fact.
I’m simply saying that young people aren’t marrying in part due to lack of ability (good income) to do so. Also factors beyond a man’s ability to change is the inherent risk of getting married that didn’t exist 50 years ago.
Helen Smith wrote a book called Men on Strike. Here is an interview about it with her. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3yzUECFwU3U
Basically her summary is that men are acting in a logical fashion by choosing not to get married. The risk vs. reward thing has trended to make it so. Risks are up and the rewards of marriage are down.
Now sure, many young men just want free milk and to lead a hedonistic life style. But even if that mindset wasn’t there, marriage rates would still be down as marriage isn’t the good deal for men it once was. Telling men to suck it up and accept terms as currently offered simply won’t work.
Such a wonderful couple, and such a loving life.
RIP
The self-worshiping culture is what the self-worshiping culture creates.
Mark 10:6-12 6 10
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Yup. You are awesome with your “more excuses” stuff.
Because I love getting sloppy seconds from a cheating ho that I stupidly married.
If there really was an Adam and an Eve, I’d like to build a time machine, travel back in time with my S&W 357 magnum and introduce Eve to something called “hollow point”.
>>I wouldn’t if I had the choice to make again.
Uhuh.
The children you had and/or adopted happy to hear that, are they?
Excuses are like __________.
You are your Bible are just excuses for Gynocentrism and screwing men over.
Screw marriage. It is like playing Russian Roulette with 3 rounds in the revolver.
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