In a word NO
I would assume many coeds get on with it and say never again. But a number are so mortified they cry rape. Not to excuse the slugs who got them liquored up, but unless the females were walked over to the frat house at gunpoint and forced to throw down copious quantities of alcohol, it's not rape.
Stanford frat boy here, we’ve had countless parties and not one rape so no. 3 in my same class are even married to our sorority sisters from the same batch.
The UVA rape hoax was so obvious.
I don't care what people think about frat boys, but no real "man" would stand by and allow a girl to be gang-raped on a glass coffee table.
ANY halfway decent man would have been absolutely OUTRAGED by his "brothers" doing anything like that.
And fists would fly over it. Guaranteed.
No.
There is a lot of unwanted sex at frat parties. My cousin was new to college and drinking, and had a bit too much, and was alone somewhere in the frat basement and someone had his way with her -— she was coerced but not forced, but it was definitely not wanted. She was naive and barely 18. Girls like that feel sickened and also guilty. They do take responsibility — they shouldn’t have been there, shouldn’t have been drinking. They don’t report it. But it’s still unwanted sex and might happen 100 times a semester.
The fraternity system has been under attack since I was in school (1969) University administrations do not like secret societies who choose their own members absent their input and control
Are guys safe from women in a fraternity?!? Seems to me women just threw themselves at you. I just had slow reflexes...
That was decades ago. I hear they are way more aggressive now.
As long as they don’t go alone, without a wingman, and don’t drink themselves into a stupor.
There was a decent-looking, 5’6” frat boy I knew in college who developed a “theorem” which he named after himself (omitted because I think he lurks here). His (blank)-Theorem stated that at any given frat party at his frat (he lived upstairs), he could ask 20 women very directly if they wanted to go upstairs and have sex, one would say “yes” and he would get laid that night. He always asked in kind of a goofy, funny way, such that he could laugh off their negative responses and move on. When he found a taker, as he escorted her upstairs, he would whisper the number of women he had to ask to get to a “yes” to a frat brother who was in on the “theorem”.
It never got as high as 20.
“One big reason why there isn’t serial rape at such frats is that believe it or not there is a gentlemanly code of behavior (call it chivalry) that absolutely wouldn’t tolerate rape.”
I’m still laughing. “gentlemanly code of behavior” now there’s a good one. Apparently you have never been to a frat party at FSU. LOL! I don’t know of any rapes but its pretty much “ladies watch your six” at the very least. I got sick of it by sophomore year.