Posted on 11/13/2013 9:34:38 AM PST by Responsibility2nd
A lot of people around the world have ideas of what America is like, possibly thanks to Hollywood, or their local news channels, and maybe from what theyve heard from families and friends. But then, they came here, to the grand old United States and their minds exploded. Taken from Quora.
I am originally from Bangladesh and here are a few things that I find hard to explain to peeps back home.
- Fruits and vegetables are way more expensive than meat and poultry.
- That, generally speaking, the poor is more obese than the rich.
- A lot of couples adopt children, sometimes in spite of having their own, and treat them exactly like their own. (To me, this alone is a marker of a great people)
- By and large, people do not carry cash.
- That you address your boss (and some of your professors) by some abbreviated variation of their first name. And that applies to pretty much everyone, regardless of how much older they are than you.
- Parents can get arrested for physically punishing their children.
- Severe poverty, homelessness, etc, no matter how limited, actually exist. Even in America.
- A name as common and as easy to pronounce as mine is almost invariably incomprehensible to most Americans.
- America is literally HUGE. My home country is roughly the size of Florida, one of the fifty states.
- In spite of the society being openly hedonistic and liberal, the social norms and standards still have very strong conservative religious influences.
- People don’t really care about the FIFA World Cup even though USA qualifies.
- The importance of credit rating/ credit score.
- Return policy.
- The history behind Thanksgiving.
- Black Friday and the frenzy associated with it.
- Amazingly friendly, hospitable and helpful people. Yet, a very conveniently private lifestyle.
- That, American foreign policy is a very inaccurate reflector of public consensus.
- Grinding. The dance form.
- That you cannot purchase alcohol unless you are 21 but can purchase a gun if you are 18.
bkmk
I’ve been in a lot of major UScities and it is remarkable how similar many of the major business districts and suburbs are. Pretty much complete freedom to travel and mostly universal automobile ownership have produced that. I’m almost 71 and have lived in Chicago, IL, Champaign, IL, Detroit, MI, Milwaukee, WI, and Knoxville, TN. My travels have also covered much of the US.
A handful of contractors and developers will control a region. Then there are the "planned housing developments".
Heck even our "bidding process" on the major sports stadiums in America was a stacked deck, as I understand it, the architects had to meet with league approval (not just in their designs, but come from an approved list of persons).
I’m from San Antonio. And it used to be known as one of America’s 4 unique cities. I have no idea what the other 3 were.
Now? All cities are cookie-cutter replicas complete with glass and steel buildings, Walmarts, subdivisions and a Starbucks on every corner.
I’m not really sure being president is a stage of adulthood since the vast majority of us are never going to even want to be president much less actually be president. To be part of adulthood it needs to be fairly universal. And you can draw on your life saving any time you want, the only limit is if you structure them in a certain way to reduce/ delay taxes, then you get penalized for violating a contract.
These days with the popularity of medical marijuana probably a higher percentage of the over 60 crowd smokes it than the under 18 crowd.
You can rent a car if you have a credit card and a license, so that’s at 18. People probably don’t until later in life, but they are legally able to.
Maybe a lot of those observations about the USA are not at all uncommon.
bfl
When the government violates a contract (including raising the retirement age, SS eligibility, etc.) there is no penalty.
Why wouldn't we find it very odd that some people use different words instead of the American terms. Are we supposed to learn the popular and/or slang terms for everything, everywhere? Heck, I find it extremely odd that Triya thinks that Coriander and Cilantro are the same things but I guess that could be blamed how Indians call it "Dhania" but generally use that term to refer to the leaves. Cilantro is the Spanish name for the leaves and stalks of the Coriandrum sativum plant. The British call this Corriander. In America, Corriander refers to the seeds from the plant (typcially ground). They taste completely different from the leaves. The Thai call it pak chee but by that they usually mean the roots (which have a different flavor from both the leaves and seeds).
I always find it a bit amusing when someone from another culture comments on what they find odd about America and it revolves around their own ignorance.
The big tourist shopping mall in New Orleans and Baltimore are by the same people. I think even Boston’s was by them.
Similarity isn’t always by chance. Sometimes it is by design.
Welcome to the short end of the stick.
I make the bigness point every time I tangle with one of these snobbish Europeans: "You Americans aren't multilingual (and are therefore not as sophisticated) as we are."
I tell 'em, "Do you know what 'Balkanized' means? I can drive 1,200 miles from San Diego to Seattle and speak one language all the way. I can drive 2,800 miles from Los Angeles to New York and speak the same language all the way. In Europe, if I drive 1,000 miles from Brussels to Rome, I have to know at least three different languages. You people HAD to be multilingual because you are so fragmented, we don't because we are united."
Then they get huffy.
I have told my grandchildren that they live in a semi-free country, not the country I grew up in.
“Then they get huffy.”
I used to tell them: if it weren’t for us, you also would have been monolingual; GERMAN, that is!
The older I get, the less I like waitstaff trying to clean the table while I’m still at the table. I consider that rude. I don’t like having food or silverware dropped on me or someone reaching across the table to grab a dish while I’m talking to a guest. I’ve seen this grow worse over the past 30 years or so.
You could also tell them that back during the Pax Romana, you could freely travel from southern Scotland to the upper reaches of the Nile, or from Gibraltar to eastern Syria. You can’t do that today.
I’m just the opposite, when done I hate sitting a table full of dirty dishes and whatnot. Please get it out of my face as soon as possible.
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