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Why Male Pansies Can’t Attract a Good Woman
Girls Just Wanna Have Guns ^ | May 2013 | Regis Giles

Posted on 05/19/2013 7:39:13 AM PDT by Tolerance Sucks Rocks

A while back I received several e-mails from guys requesting my advice on how to attract a female like me. You see, they seem to have a hard time attracting women that are into shooting and the outdoors… and I understand this.

Being that we humans aren’t whitetail deer and you can’t rub your scent on a tree to find yourself a mate, it makes things harder for guys.

I’ve decided to throw these guys a bone, and any others who need help, on how to attract such a lady. Here are essential points to follow in attracting the Katniss Everdeen for your life:

1. Confidence is key:

Now, I know I said we weren’t whitetail, but since you did mention you wanted a woman of the outdoors, I will use an analogy that caters to this community.

Women want the stud buck, bear or lion in their life. They want the alpha male, the one who walks out into the field and you know… he’s the man. However, don’t confuse this with arrogance; that is one thing women can’t stand.

2. Class not swag:

The woman who is into shooting and the outdoors is usually someone who is confident in herself. Knowing that, she will never choose a man who carries himself with “swag” and treats women as objects. A hundred times over …and over, they will choose a man who has “class” and treats them with the respect they deserve.

3. Be a man of virtue:

Living a life of virtue is much harder than living a life of vice. Showing that you are virtuous in your actions will tell a woman that you live to a moral code, you have discipline and you aren’t easily influenced by weak and petty people.

4. Don’t look, or be, desperate:

Never need someone. Always be content with the thought of being alone, that way you won’t fall for the wrong woman. Also, if you do appear desperate, that’s usually when women run for the hills… and I think it’s true for men too. However, when you do find the apple-of-your-eye, don’t ignore her.

5. My final note is, look sharp.

ZZ Top knows this and so should you; every girl goes crazy for a sharp dressed man. Guys, please put an effort into your appearance. We females aren’t shallow because we overlook the guys in sweat pants or who do the tube-sock/flip-flop combo… you look like a slob, that’s why we overlook you. If you want to attract a woman, be attractive.

Now, keep in mind this is strictly my opinion and the games of love are never set in stone. Nevertheless, these generally seem to be traits the majority of these Katniss Everdeen-like women are attracted to.

Also, take note of my use of the term “man”. The type of woman you want to attract isn’t going to be into a 30-year-old mama’s boy, who still lives at home and wets his bed. She is looking for a leader, the stud of the herd; she is looking for a “man”, not a “boy”.

Hope this helped.

Happy hunting,

-Regis Giles


TOPICS: Chit/Chat; Miscellaneous; Reference; Society
KEYWORDS: alphamales; attraction; confidence; genderwars; hunting; katnisseverdeen; men; psychology; regisgiles; singles; values; women
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To: Chickensoup
That sounds like a great idea. We all know that there are no conservative women here in this country.

You might want to suggest that he move overseas as well.

101 posted on 05/19/2013 3:31:50 PM PDT by trisham (Zen is not easy. It takes effort to attain nothingness. And then what do you have? Bupkis.)
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To: trisham

That sounds like a great idea. We all know that there are no conservative women here in this country.
You might want to suggest that he move overseas as well.
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I dont see a where.


102 posted on 05/19/2013 3:41:29 PM PDT by Chickensoup (200 million unarmed " people killed in the 20th century by Leftist Totalitarian Fascists)
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To: Chickensoup

Anywhere. His options are almost limitless.


103 posted on 05/19/2013 3:44:36 PM PDT by trisham (Zen is not easy. It takes effort to attain nothingness. And then what do you have? Bupkis.)
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To: trisham

Not really. One cannot just emigrate to most countries.


104 posted on 05/19/2013 3:45:32 PM PDT by Chickensoup (200 million unarmed " people killed in the 20th century by Leftist Totalitarian Fascists)
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To: trisham; Anoreth
A man might look good in a doublet and tights ... but skinny jeans lack that je ne sais quoi. I think it's because jeans are supposed to be work clothes, not extremes of silly fashion.
105 posted on 05/19/2013 3:46:18 PM PDT by Tax-chick (Sarah is right.)
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To: Tax-chick

There are very few men that look good in a doublet and tights.


106 posted on 05/19/2013 3:48:53 PM PDT by Anoreth (It is not moth eaten. It is superb.)
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To: Chickensoup

Best of luck to him, then. I’m sure that if he tries he’ll find a place where he can be happier than he is here.


107 posted on 05/19/2013 3:49:44 PM PDT by trisham (Zen is not easy. It takes effort to attain nothingness. And then what do you have? Bupkis.)
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To: Anoreth
If more of them tried it, you might be surprised ;-).

On the other hand, a gentleman's, or even an artisan's, outfit of the mid-18th century was very flattering and reasonably practical. And they had long hair!

108 posted on 05/19/2013 3:52:29 PM PDT by Tax-chick (Sarah is right.)
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To: Tax-chick; Anoreth
A man might look good in a doublet and tights ... but skinny jeans lack that je ne sais quoi. I think it's because jeans are supposed to be work clothes, not extremes of silly fashion.

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I like jeans, even dressy jeans, but skinny jeans are extreme fashion, not for men or women (!) over the age of about fifteen or with almost any body fat.

109 posted on 05/19/2013 3:53:37 PM PDT by trisham (Zen is not easy. It takes effort to attain nothingness. And then what do you have? Bupkis.)
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To: Tax-chick

Mr. T would look nice in that.


110 posted on 05/19/2013 3:54:44 PM PDT by trisham (Zen is not easy. It takes effort to attain nothingness. And then what do you have? Bupkis.)
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To: Tax-chick

I can think of two people that might pull it off.


111 posted on 05/19/2013 3:54:46 PM PDT by Anoreth (It is not moth eaten. It is superb.)
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To: trisham; Anoreth

She has character (virtue) in #3, and #2 sort of includes kindness.

Intelligence might not be that important to some girls, as long as the guy can hunt ...

I remember trying to interest Anoreth in a nice boy at church, until she said, “He doesn’t read.”


112 posted on 05/19/2013 3:55:21 PM PDT by Tax-chick (Sarah is right.)
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To: trisham; Anoreth

So would my husband. He wears a frontiersman outfit for Scouts sometimes.

I have a deep hostility toward jeans, because they take forever in the dryer.


113 posted on 05/19/2013 3:57:00 PM PDT by Tax-chick (Sarah is right.)
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To: Tax-chick

These days I pretty much decide who to date based on whether or not I like their car. This allows me to determine if they have any taste or are likely to be interesting for more than an hour.
Plus if someone has a decent car that I like then they probably also have a job.

If they don’t have a car then I’m not interested at all as that seems to mean they have no life.


114 posted on 05/19/2013 4:00:34 PM PDT by Anoreth (It is not moth eaten. It is superb.)
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To: Anoreth

One could start out with worse criteria.

Also, you could ask Piper.


115 posted on 05/19/2013 4:02:15 PM PDT by Tax-chick (Sarah is right.)
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To: Tax-chick

If they have the same car as everyone else then they are probably boring, and if I don’t like their car I can divine if they are gay or just can’t tell that a Nissan Juke is horrendous.

Piper doesn’t like any men.


116 posted on 05/19/2013 4:04:48 PM PDT by Anoreth (It is not moth eaten. It is superb.)
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To: Anoreth

That’s reasonable.


117 posted on 05/19/2013 4:06:08 PM PDT by Tax-chick (Sarah is right.)
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To: Tax-chick; Anoreth
Imho, hunting requires intelligence. Learning about the habits of game, which gun to use, what kind of ammunition is best, wind speed, calculating distance, keeping out of sight and scent all require intelligence.

Reading is a key thing for me. Mr. T reads history. I read fiction. The important thing for me is that he reads. He also loves animals. That matters, too.

118 posted on 05/19/2013 4:20:50 PM PDT by trisham (Zen is not easy. It takes effort to attain nothingness. And then what do you have? Bupkis.)
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To: Tax-chick; Anoreth

Mr T is of Scottish descent. I confess that I am partial to kilts.


119 posted on 05/19/2013 4:22:16 PM PDT by trisham (Zen is not easy. It takes effort to attain nothingness. And then what do you have? Bupkis.)
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To: Tax-chick
If a guy wants to attract a hot-showers-and-air-conditioning girl, he should probably shave.

LOL!!

In one of the episodes, Phil's wife Miz Kay said he had to take a shower if he wanted to have any fun with her that night. He showed up on screen a few minutes later drying his neck with a towel. As they played boom-boom music in the background, she threw off her apron -- a very funny bit, as they are both, I think, 72 years old. They are a stitch. I do hope the family quits having cameras in their faces before celebrity messes things up, tho.

120 posted on 05/19/2013 4:22:24 PM PDT by Albion Wilde ("There can be no dialogue with the prince of this world." -- Francis)
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