She has character (virtue) in #3, and #2 sort of includes kindness.
Intelligence might not be that important to some girls, as long as the guy can hunt ...
I remember trying to interest Anoreth in a nice boy at church, until she said, “He doesn’t read.”
These days I pretty much decide who to date based on whether or not I like their car. This allows me to determine if they have any taste or are likely to be interesting for more than an hour.
Plus if someone has a decent car that I like then they probably also have a job.
If they don’t have a car then I’m not interested at all as that seems to mean they have no life.
Reading is a key thing for me. Mr. T reads history. I read fiction. The important thing for me is that he reads. He also loves animals. That matters, too.