Posted on 11/20/2012 1:10:36 PM PST by albie
My 89 year old Mother in law (a conservative) is spending Thanksgiving with me and my family. My wife has requested that her looney left wing grandchildren be allowed to visit with "Granny" on Saturday. They voted Obama and are in their 20's and are actually very nice people. However, I've made it clear that I can not tolerate Obama voters in my house. Nice or not, family or otherwise. I'm still on the fence because I do love my Mother in law. What do you think? Also, are there others with similar problems?
Maybe you can gently educate them what conservatism is. There was a caller last night on Steve Maltzberg fill-in show. She was a former ditzy liberal but her boyfriend helped her see the light and now she’s happy to be an enlightened conservative in learning. Chances are those kids dont really know why they are liberals. Drop them a few seeds and see what goes.
They are family. Talk about family and other things. Do not talk politics. My in-laws are Obama suporters I go there all the time, I do not talk politics.
Have them over but wear a sidearm to the table and while saying grace thank God that you haven’t had to shoot a mouthy socialist YET today.
I have elderly neighbors who I always bring food to from my garden.
They put out an Obama sign this year and I will never bring them food again.
And tell them to enjoy it, because the low to medium price restaurant is preciesly the kind of business that Obama Care will destroy.
It’s your house, you make the rules.
I see no reason why even a divided family can’t get along if they avoid political subjects.
My boss believes all conservatives are either ignorant, stupid or evil. I have put a real crimp into his world view because he can’t really pin any of the three on me.
So he’s pretty much given up talking about politics around me. Though I must admit I pull my punches a lot because I don’t like to humiliate him. He’s really a very kind and well-intentioned person. Just misled.
You will notice that I am much more charitable in my views of his beliefs than he is of mine.
We say we treasure familiy values as partly an expression of love of God.
One day, Obama will be long gone, and we’ll all still have our families.
Let the bitter — and transient — go, and welcome them with all hospitality and grace, and let Time decide the issue. As others have said, demonstrate Class and basic human love and acceptance of the sinner himself — ignoring his sin.
Has not the Lord promised us as much to each of us on the wider scale? To forget the sin, while retaining the sinner.
“Obama and his voters are my mortal enemy”.
I agree with yours the most. It’s the fact that the woman is 89 that makes me want to give in.
“Not in my house, period.”
I’m with you! My sister-in-law and her jackass Columbia grad, elitist, NYC liberal, douchebag husband are no longer welcome. They are the enemy! F them!! Go to Obama’s house for Thanksgiving!
The problem is we Conservatives do have class, unfortunately, when your are fighting an enemy who has neither class nor morals, class loses every time.
Sad, but true.
Solution = “Thanksgiving in the backyard?”
I agree. Dogmatic types only repelled me when I was that age. A person with a gentle smile who could calmly disagree with me always left a lasting impression.
Your house, your rules.
“Humor them and yourself with this.”
...LOL!!
Set up two tables with with assigned seating. You make the seating assignments at the dinner tables. Use name cards. Have two TV’s with different games on in different rooms. Grandma should be the center of attention. Ask her to tell stories about the good old days. The Reagan family managed to get through family Thanksgiving dinners, so can you.
BS, evil feeds on and consumes weakness.
Wake up.
Oh, heck yeah. I've got the same sort of issues in my own family. In my case, I'm the sole conservative Republican in the family, so I'm pretty much radioactive at family gatherings.
Doesn't bother me, though, as I'm in Texas and the rest of my extended family are in California. I've only gotten back there to see them once in the last seven years. Oddly enough, things stayed peaceful for the most part. Maybe they missed me enough to back off on the usual gang bang political attacks. Dunno.
Tell you what, though, the country is more divided now than at any time since the Civil War. My G-G-G grandfather served with the Confederacy, while his brother served with the Union. It nearly broke their father's heart.
I see families splitting just as badly today, and the divisions seem to be deepening. I don't know what the next four years holds for us, but I wouldn't be the least bit surprised to see several states secede.
It's fun to bring on that puzzled stare, isn't it? LOL...
Well of course it’s easy for me to “make my decision” for you - not knowing the people involved. I have no way to know the nuances of your relationship with the 89 year old. There is something to honoring the family matriarch or patriarch, but there is also something to recognizing the seriousness of the battle we are in too.
I am glad you started the thread, and no condemnation from me on what you do. I am in a position to hold the line on this, and I will. We will be attending the 99th birthday of my wifes grandmother in Florida in a couple weeks. Most of the folks there are anti-Obama, but not all. Everyone will know where I stand and why. Then again, I’m not the host.
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