“Obama and his voters are my mortal enemy”.
I agree with yours the most. It’s the fact that the woman is 89 that makes me want to give in.
Well of course it’s easy for me to “make my decision” for you - not knowing the people involved. I have no way to know the nuances of your relationship with the 89 year old. There is something to honoring the family matriarch or patriarch, but there is also something to recognizing the seriousness of the battle we are in too.
I am glad you started the thread, and no condemnation from me on what you do. I am in a position to hold the line on this, and I will. We will be attending the 99th birthday of my wifes grandmother in Florida in a couple weeks. Most of the folks there are anti-Obama, but not all. Everyone will know where I stand and why. Then again, I’m not the host.
You could always invite them over to visit while making crystal clear to them (not her) that you are only doing it as a concession to your regard for her. I see lots of talk about family, but I don’t think “family” votes to use the state to steal your wealth and liberty.