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Empty nest? Sending student off to college can be a sad time
Country Today ^ | 6-1-09 | Jackie Dittrich-Blahnik

Posted on 06/01/2009 6:16:29 PM PDT by SJackson

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1 posted on 06/01/2009 6:16:29 PM PDT by SJackson
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Okay, now I have to find a tissue....


2 posted on 06/01/2009 6:20:02 PM PDT by netmilsmom (Psalm 109:8 - Let his days be few; and let another take his office)
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3 posted on 06/01/2009 6:21:14 PM PDT by JoeProBono (A closed mouth gathers no feet)
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To: SJackson

O COME ON!

Kids grow up — that is how Life works.

Melodrama helps them not at all.


4 posted on 06/01/2009 6:21:48 PM PDT by freedumb2003 (Communism comes to America: 1/20/2009. Keep your powder dry, folks. Sic semper tyrannis)
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To: SJackson

Didn’t seem to bother my parents when I left.


5 posted on 06/01/2009 6:25:25 PM PDT by Abigail Adams
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Mine as well. I think they threw a party when I went to university.


6 posted on 06/01/2009 6:27:56 PM PDT by max americana
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To: freedumb2003; Abigail Adams

It’s written by the kids dog. ;>)


7 posted on 06/01/2009 6:28:05 PM PDT by SJackson (in the fight against terrorism, no middle ground, half-measures leave you half-exposed, D. Cheney)
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To: Abigail Adams

I am counting the days......

We love ya’ll, but, remember, we chose each other first. We sacrificed, gave up our privacy, time, and money to take care of each of you. Now get on with your productive, full, wonderful lives, and let us run around the living room NAKED! WOO HOOOOOOOO!


8 posted on 06/01/2009 6:28:55 PM PDT by wombtotomb
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They turned my brother's room into a study and my room into a sewing and crafts room about a week after we moved out.
9 posted on 06/01/2009 6:29:14 PM PDT by Harmless Teddy Bear (When you're spinning round, things come undone. Welcome to Earth 3rd rock from the Sun!)
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To: SJackson

OK, the article had me going. I was about to offer the advice that the mom should use this time to finally pursue her interests. I’m finding this time wonderful!

But it is about the young man’s dog. They don’t understand. It is confusing for them. I recommend, get another dog. Dogs are pack animals. When the pack dissolves the dog is going to grieve.

Get a second dog.


10 posted on 06/01/2009 6:30:10 PM PDT by Jemian (PAM of JT ~~ Caligula, just like his Kenyan ancestors, is selling his countrymen into slavery.)
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I remember my neighbor in IN had twins and when they went to college she was in a real depression.......then came the first Christmas home .....she could hardly wait till they went back to school....depression overrrrrrr !!!!!!

As parents this is our job, raise them will they leave the nest.....it is a good thing.

11 posted on 06/01/2009 6:30:46 PM PDT by Kimmers (Be the kind of person when your feet hit the floor each morning the devil says, Oh crap, she's awake)
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12 posted on 06/01/2009 6:31:06 PM PDT by Richard Kimball (We're all criminals. They just haven't figured out what some of us have done yet.)
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To: freedumb2003

i feel her pain but this mother should get down on her knees and Thank God her son is off at college instead of having to work a McJob and that the family is able to afford him to be away and develop some independence as he should be doing at this age.


13 posted on 06/01/2009 6:31:41 PM PDT by MissDairyGoodnessVT (Mac Conchradha - "Skeagh mac en chroe"- Skaghvicencrowe)
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Dear Dawg,
ask your owner/mother/father to find you a pal and get over it! roflmao


14 posted on 06/01/2009 6:35:25 PM PDT by MissDairyGoodnessVT (Mac Conchradha - "Skeagh mac en chroe"- Skaghvicencrowe)
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To: SJackson

Unlike some of the commenters on this thread, I have been thru it & agree it can be tough. Yeah, that is what life is about but it sure can be hard to watch ‘em go.

When my second boy left, tho my husband and I had 2 cars empty, ready to pack up and help him move, however, he managed to fit everything in his car & he drove himself out west

—his departing words were “Mom, Did you ever feel like something was out there waiting for you, calling for you? I know there is for me, it’s my future waiting for me at Iowa State.” With that he walked out the door and drove off to his first year of college.

I was sniffly for at least 2 days. I know it is going to hit me really hard when when my youngest & only daughter leaves this August.


15 posted on 06/01/2009 6:37:07 PM PDT by Freedom56v2 (If you think health care is expensive now, just wait till it is free PJ Orourke)
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To: wombtotomb

Oh, yeah! And please, kids, come to visit. Just call first, ok?

Empty nest? Not a problem at our house!


16 posted on 06/01/2009 6:38:06 PM PDT by trimom
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I’m counting the minutes until I can get my kids out of the house. Then we completely re-do it, something we’ve put aside the last 22 years as we’ve been raising them.


17 posted on 06/01/2009 6:38:32 PM PDT by kaehurowing
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Yikes!


18 posted on 06/01/2009 6:45:57 PM PDT by freedumb2003 (Communism comes to America: 1/20/2009. Keep your powder dry, folks. Sic semper tyrannis)
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Aw, that’s touching. My dogs are hysterical with joy when my daughter comes home from college, and they know very well when she’s getting ready to leave again. They’ll have a terrible time when the youngest leaves.

That said, this puppy needs lots more exercise and attention from Mom and Dad, more ball-throwing, hikes in the woods, and dead rabbits! Nothing gladdens a dog’s heart like a dead rabbit unless it’s a dead squirrel.


19 posted on 06/01/2009 6:46:31 PM PDT by ottbmare (Ein Reich, ein Volk, ein Obama! (If you're old enough, you'll understand the reference))
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To: trimom

My kids will NEVER come over unannounced. We made sure they knew our plans when they left. As it is they knock before they come in the house if we are both home, just in case LOL.


20 posted on 06/01/2009 6:46:40 PM PDT by wombtotomb
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