Posted on 01/18/2006 8:45:41 AM PST by Millee
Three quarters of people think it is fine to sleep with someone on a first date, according to a new survey. Really? We conducted our own study ... Jodie Marsh Celebrity Big Brother contestant
I always used to think it was bad to have sex on the first date because lots of men are still in that old-fashioned frame of mind where they think that if you're too easy, you must be a slag, and therefore they will have no respect for you and won't want to see you again. But then sometimes you meet someone you're so attracted to, and it feels like love at first sight, and you know that even if you sleep with them that first night, it will make no difference because there's such strong chemistry and you're so obviously into each other. I generally think it's better in the long term to wait a while, though. On the flipside, if a man is obviously trying to get in my knickers as soon as possible, and doesn't care about what I'm like as a person, then I'm not going to want to have anything to do with him. Clearly, they're just after a shag.
Denis Rodman is trying to sleep with everyone in the Big Brother house. On that basis, I wouldn't sleep with him if he was the last man on earth. Whereas if he only liked me, and waited to get to know me, then perhaps I would give him the time of day.
James Brown former editor of Loaded magazine
I think sex on a first date is fine as long as you get a receipt.
(Excerpt) Read more at lifeandhealth.guardian.co.uk ...
They've done such a great job so far in the world of today. Just take a look at all the crime, greed, sex trade, perverts, child molestation; boy the list is a long one...
Police warn all male clubbers, party-goers and unsuspecting pub regulars to be more alert and cautious when getting a drink offer from a girl. There is a date rape drug going around called "beer" and it is generally in liquid form. The drug is now being used by female sexual predators at parties to convince their male victims to have sex with them. The shocking statistic is that "beer" is available virtually anywhere!
All girls have to do is persuade a guy to consume a few units of "beer" and simply ask the guy home for no-strings-attached sex. Men are literally rendered helpless against such attacks. After several "beers" men will often succumb to desires to perform sex acts on horrific looking women who they would never normally be attracted to. Men often awaken after being given "beer" with only hazy memories of exactly what has happened to them the night before, just a vague feeling that something bad occurred. At other times these unfortunate men might be stung for their life's worth in a familiar scam know as "a relationship" - apparently men are easier victims for this scam after the "beer" has been administered and have already been sexually attacked.
Please! Forward this to every male you know. However, if you fall victim to this insidious drug and the predatory women administering it, there are male support groups with venues in every town where you can discuss the details of your shocking encounter in an open and frank manner with a bunch of similarly-affected like-minded guys. For the nearest support group near you just look up 'Public House' in the yellow pages.
It certainly saves a person from going on a second.
I think it was Jeff Foxworthy who said that from age 15 until whenever the dirt's poured over him, a man only thinks about two things: a beer and seeing somethin "nekkid". Sadly, the beer sometimes makes us less discriminating about exactly what we're willing to see "nekkid".
Good Willie Nelson quote: "Know how much condoms costs in the 70's? Neither do I."
I dunno, I'm used to there never being a first date as I always got shot down in flames, or ended up dating the truly psychotic like Miss Staplegun 1993.
Time to activate the list.
I'm at Catholic University now, so there's no sex until marriage. In fact, there's no such thing as sex until marriage - it's just SIN.
Guess I'll have to be more careful on what I ping your way. Snifff....sniff...
No, of course not. (Looks innocent).
There is a commercial on TV where the lady won't let her date drive her car on the first date, but then invites him in to get laid.
baseball dating terminology... LMAO
Well, there is the "three date rule."
Was that sax with violins?
My Wife and I had sex on the first, second, third........of course, We were in our 30's and it wasn't our first RODEO!!
Hell no, there weren't any candles either! That is why I gave up on the sax, and went to the tuba-a tuba will get chicks quicker than a bass drum, you know!
I guess not! ;o) No barrel racing for you two, just straight to the bareback bronc riding. :oD
I THOUGHT someone was watching us!
Hard to say which has more "yuck" factor - the article or most of the comments on the thread.
Be back later...
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