Paul, like me you need to lose a few pounds. Mainly though it is truly not about how you look. A woman wants a man who is not thinking of himself all of the time (in the positive or the negative). She wants (I want) a man who is too busy thinking I am keen to feel self conscious or self hating. She wants (I want) someone who understands just what she is thinking and she can tell the same thing. Find a nice shy girl that had not been noticed and let her know she is being noticed and then look out!
gRIN.
You said you wnated the truth.
Yes I did want the truth and I am glad you stated it. I have been losing pounds. I lost 50 this year, for the sole purpose of trying to get a girl attractd to me. I am not judgemental on looks, but sadly many people are. How would I even find a shy girl? Being shy myself, most people who are shy tend to keep themselves "invisible."
You still with us?