Posted on 11/01/2005 9:23:42 AM PST by Millee
I'm 40, the cute girl from upstairs is 23. When she stopped by to commiserate about loud neighbors, we had a beer, went dancing, and then had sex. Afterward, she seemed weird and left abruptly. I wrote her a note, "Sorry if I made you uncomfortable, but I love you and look forward to seeing you again." She hasn't looked at me since. Where did I go wrong? -- Mr. Neighbor
Grateful as you may be to a girl for having sex with you, it's never a good idea to let on. You could've had a future with her -- the kind 40-year-old guys without handfuls of bling typically have with 23-year-old girls: jump-starting their cars, lugging their couches up four flights of stairs, and maybe catching a little action when there are no hot young guys to be found. You blew it, though, with "I'm a lonely sack of emptiness!" -- which is how "I love you" translates after one beer, one dance, and one roll in the sack. (You say "I love you"; she says "It seemed like a good idea at the time.")
Little stuff like what? speaking grammatically correct?
PS: I don't work for a living. I don't have to.
Nonsense. I know when to quit - sometimes the result isn't worth the energy. Sometimes a person can rationally come to the conclusion that the effort isn't worth the benefit.
Winners know when to quit, that's my point.
Best move I ever did was quit my last job.
I don't suggest quitting too soon, or for trivial reasons. I do suggest that clarity with a situation can often lead to the rational, wise, and winning conclusion of backing off and quitting.
Not a difficult concept.
Depends on what I ate the night before.
you're right, Maximus. But I'm just having fun. My feathers aren't ruffled, my panties aren't in a wad. I'm cool.
The only thing I date is myself when I am around younger women (say, age 35 or so).
That's not what they taught me in public school.
No psycho babble. My choices are fair and valid, as is my reasoning.
You may disagree with it, but it's no less effective.
Exactly. We're all happy and satisfied with our lives. To each their own.
when does she poke him in the belly, PaulaB?
My head started to bob just reading those lyrics!
LOL!!!
DD
I assumed that.
If it was good - she'd have cum back for more.
A dozen or so tremblin soak the sheets toe bending orgasms might a helped too.
article sez she got weird before she left....she would likely have been all a cuddly if she had just had her bell rung right
casual semi stranger sex is always awkward in the morning....which is why most men...and apparently girls these days leave early.
but...back in my day....if I thought there was good relationship chance happening then morning was great....time for more fun.
I sure don't miss all that goofiness though......
last advice to 40 year old love lorn...."hey homeo, if a girl half year age puts the mojo on you for a beer.....be grateful and quit whining!"
damn ....so many meterosexuals ...so little time to cure them.
I should start a 12 step program for the emasculated.
Can we just shoot him then?
any minute...... ;) or a pat
on the head...both are effective!!
I suppose it's possible you might have an accent. ;-)
SD
out of his misery - and ours.
No, don't! Guys, leave him alone. I'm having soooo much fun.
Uh, you wanna spell check that next time?
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