Bye, bcommerce ."He's dead, Jim!"
Posted on 04/04/2005 8:07:34 PM PDT by Long Cut
Well, that time has come for me. I’m leaving FR. However, I do not consider this an “opus”, as I am NOT going to use it to rehash old slights or arguments, or to give my personal opinion of what “should be done around here”. As has been so often pointed out, this is Jim Robinson’s site, and he runs it as he sees fit. Rather, all I’m going to do here is give a general reason for my departure, and say a hearty-but-sad “GOODBYE!” to all the folks here who have enriched my life in the past four years.
I am a small-government, national-security and military supporting, pro-gun, economic conservative who also likes to enjoy the life I have to its fullest. I believe that the government does its best work when it restricts itself to the things it is supposed to do vis a vis the Constitution. That is, it should restrict itself at this time to shooting terrorists and delivering the mail, as well as doing its level best to ensure that the rights of one citizen are left untrampled by another. I hold that the government should stay as far as possible from any entanglements with religion, organized or not, save to ensure that ALL are treated fairly by the law. I also hold that the government should NOT be in the business of making laws regarding the personal, private behavior of its free citizens, so long as such behavior harms no other.
In these past months, it has become plain to me that this position is NOT that of a majority of FReepers, nor of the management itself. So, rather than “tilt at windmills”, I shall simply go my own way. I have no comments about this circumstance or its origins; it is simply the way I see things.
Also, I have grown as a person on FR. When I first joined, I’d be right in there flaming with the best of ‘em. As the years have past, I have come to realize the value of simple, civil discourse, for it is in that sort of discourse that a man may actually learn things, both about the topic at hand, and about himself and what being a true gentleman means.
As before, in the past months, the majority seems to prefer it to be otherwise. Again, no comments, just stating what I see.
Before I leave, however, I wish to do two things.
First and foremost, I wish to thank Mr. Robinson for providing this site…despite the necessity of leaving now, I have truly learned a great deal here, too much for words. I was able to “vent my spleen” on issues that mattered to me, talk about mutual interests with like-minded people, and get to know some absolutely terrific folks. Mr. Robinson, you did a good job. Sorry indeed am I that I must part ways. Nonetheless, as one old Sailor to another, “Fair Winds And Following Seas, Shipmate!”
Second, I wish to thank, and bid farewell to, some of the most outstanding people it has ever been my pleasure and honor to know.
- The folks over at the FReeper Canteen, shepherded by 68-69tonkingulfyachtclub. I was drawn to the Canteen almost on my first day here, as there exists there an outpouring of support and affection for this nation’s military (of which I am a part) the likes of which have seldom seen equal. From the first, they took me in as if I were one of their own families, and the regular posters there were with me with prayers and support, as well as joy and salutes, through many dark days indeed, and many bright ones.
I am an agnostic, religiously, but that did not matter to my Canteen Friends…they were there with prayers and, well, love when my wife and I lost our first baby. They shared in the joy we had when we finally had a healthy son. They prayed again, selflessly, for me when I went on deployment. Then, they welcomed me home again with open arms, and more prayers, as I came home to bury my dear mother. In doing this for someone they knew was not religious himself, and in doing it without any hesitation, they showed a non-believer the BEST side of Christianity one could possibly ask for. To the Canteen, including Ms. Behavin, Ms. Poohbear, La diva loca, trussel, Tonk, Spotsy, Bentfeather, KathyinAlaska, and all the rest too numerous to name, I say without any sense of irony at all, “BLESS YOU”.
- The many unbelievably intelligent scientists and science-lovers over on the Crevo and science threads, ably pinged by PatrickHenry. From you ladies and gentlemen of BOTH sides, I have expanded my scientific knowledge and thinking by an order of magnitude. Ichneumon, Vade, Junior, Radio Astronomer, Right wing Professor, Betty Boop, Alamo-Girl, and all the rest of the maniacs over there made it an edifying experience that could never have been acquired in a school.
- The HTT list. I thoroughly enjoyed the times we spent “raisin Hell”. Gabz, Formermilitarychick, exnavychick, and the rest shared many a laugh with this old Heathen.
- Archy, Squantos, Travis McGee, Glock Rocks, Joe Brower, criminall number 18f, and all of the guys and gals on the gun or “Bang List threads. I learned a ton of good gouge from you guys over the years. I’m gonna miss you, but with your advice I shan’t miss much else with a pistol!
- The Republican Party Reptiles. The Big B and company showed quite well that not ALL conservatives are stick in the muds. Many of us actually LIKE looking at pretty women in few clothes. B, I hope the party lasts a bit longer fer y’all.
- The WPPFF. Y’all know who you are, and why. All I can say is, we tried. And we tried long past what any normal person would have, to our credit.
- My individual Friends…DaughterOfAnIwoJimaVet, Veronica, peach, the incomparable PukinDog, Wild Turkey, and about a hundred others I could take a couple of days naming. I’ll miss y’all sumpin’ turible.
Anyhoo, this has gotten longer than I ever thought it would. Anyone with me on their ping lists can go ahead and remove my name, if you wish. Those whose wish it is to gloat, say “good riddance”, and other such juvenile nonsense are welcome to begin, thus confirming my reasoning.
‘Bye, all. Godspeed.
Yadda, yadda, yadda. Please spare us.
I remember my first 45 player..I thought I had it all!
Bye, bcommerce ."He's dead, Jim!"
Well, they say the memory is the first thing to go, and I'm 34..... Ugh! :)
Someone else raised the case that two "better" newbies would replace any and all now leaving/left posters. This is not the case and you are a prime example. I did not then, nor am I stating, ipso facto, now, that your main intent of joining FR was to "replace" the now departing/departed from FR long time members.
This isn't about you, no matter how valiantly you try to say it is, whilst assuaging you inferred damaged feelings/ego/whatever. GOT IT NOW?
Evidently you are much more interested in your own verbosity, than in much of anything else.Pity that.
CCPing a laundry list of Chads' previous posts, was sadly, nothing more than an exercise in HTML, cherry picked as they were, and was no refutation,nor balm with which to salve your bruised ego. They only show that you are 1)skilled at CCPing 2)have far too much spare time on your hands ( hint...scouting down someone else's old posts is time consuming and in this instance, did not validate your chortling,smarmy, sneering posts about another FREEPER) 3) were unnecessarily provocative.
Unfortunately for you, attempting to bait me hasn't worked.
Do go off to bed, by all means; you've wasted far too much of your own time, bandwidth, and otherwise valuable space.
I still have mine!
LOL.
Pack rat.
Great link; thanks! :-)
THIRTY FOUR!
Quit bragging.
You know I hate that.
Don't go :(
Stellar!
LOL.... That song was 12 years before my time. LMAO!
Wrong.
Me either. -)
You should have traded it! LOL
I ain't braggin! LOL! I developed "horseshoe" baldness at 24!! LMAO!
Granted, you have not tried to tell management how to run this site.
The comments of yours that brought you to the place of the following ...... it has become plain to me that this position is NOT that of a majority of FReepers, nor of the management itself. So, rather than “tilt at windmills”, I shall simply go my own way. I have no comments about this circumstance or its origins; it is simply the way I see things... is a gross broad-brush misinterpretation of FR and the members' beliefs. Even though you have no "comments" on your take of the situation, your not tilting at the windmill is tilting at the windmill. Very clever.
Also, I have grown as a person on FR. When I first joined, I’d be right in there flaming with the best of ‘em.
Now there was your first mistake. The "best" of 'em didn't get into flaming, they were too busy having reasoned discourse. You seemed to have found your niche, though.
As the years have past, I have come to realize the value of simple, civil discourse, for it is in that sort of discourse that a man may actually learn things, both about the topic at hand, and about himself and what being a true gentleman means.
Now that is positive, good job. Even though it took years, it's still quite an accomplishment. You did grow.
As before, in the past months, the majority seems to prefer it to be otherwise. Again, no comments, just stating what I see.
Again, comments while saying "no comments." What is with this "majority" thingie, I would imagine the majority of the plus or minus 200,000 signed up here and the millions of lurkers would dispute your speaking for them.
...made it an edifying experience that could never have been acquired in a school.
Ain't this place GRATE?
Those whose wish it is to gloat, say “good riddance”, and other such juvenile nonsense are welcome to begin, thus confirming my reasoning.
Dern, a perfectly swell opus, and you just had to end it by baiting...:>)
Confirming your reasoning??? You mean you are leaving because of a few juvenile gloating nonsensers who might say good riddance? Sheeze, I had people try to push me out the door with that kind of stuff, one of them one of your "good friends" DOAIJV...
Good night you first three,'
and "good bye LC" ... I can't
lie: I am going to miss you.
Your humor, wit and intelligence.
Damn, what a colossal loss you are to FR.
That's wrong! Long term memory is usually still very good when short term memory goes.
Thanks. :-)
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