[pissant]

Here's the skinny for all the single freepers who can't get a date except with their aunt Millie. Good luck

[rintense]

This is good stuff.

[Do not dub me shapka broham]

Hey!

For your information, my aunt's name is Kathleen.

:(

-good times, G.J.P.(Jr.)

[Dallas59]

What happens when you say,"I Do"?

[shekkian]

I've been watching "The Bachelorette" on TV this season, and it's pretty comical seeing some of the stupid things guys will do to get the girl's attention.

[r9etb]

I can now approach just about any woman and get her number almost instantly. I've dated models, I've dated actresses, and I've dated nice, normal, regular girls as well. It has been a very rewarding experience. I no longer feel that sick, insecure feeling... like I don't know how to meet women... and I might wind up alone. I know that anytime, anywhere, I can go out and meet attractive women.

[SouthernFreebird]

Cowboy hat and tight jeans....works everytime. Yuuuuuuum

[Mr. Jeeves]

David DeAngelo (the guy who runs the site at the link) is great. He should get the Nobel Prize for Sociological research. ;) Single men should buy his materials - they are worth their weight in gold. Tough advice to take, sometimes, but it works.

[My Favorite Headache]

Knew each and every single one of these rules...and I still am single...but enjoy it most of the time.

[cyborg]

I've seen guys making pitiful fools out of themselves just because the woman is attractive. It's sad to watch.

[Cold Heat]

OK.......

"Treat a whore like a lady, and a lady like whore".

Flame suit on!

[Little Ray]

My wife says she decided she wanted me when I carefully arranged decorated cookies on plate (rather than just dumping 'em) for a New Years Party and helped her prepare and cook the bruschetta. When she realized I wasn't gay she had to have me...
The fact that I like guns, conservative politics, cooking, and science fiction, and she believe in chivalry sealed it. We were marred within 8 months.
I've never been happier in my life.

[Ignatius J Reilly]

So what's a nice guy supposed to do, act like a jerk? Sorry not willing to give up who I am just because it will help get me a girl. I'm a nice guy and if a woman can't appreciate that she can date all the jerks she wants I'm not interested

[trisham]

MISTAKE #1: Being Too Much Of A "Nice Guy"

****************

My husband is the nicest person I've ever known. He's also an excellent cook, does all his own ironing and sews well enough to do minor repairs on his clothing.

And he's adorably cute. So much for the author's advice.

[KC_for_Freedom]

These ideas come across in Feynmans autobiographys as well.
And men don't want a wussy woman either.

[jennyjenny]

And go easy on the cologne. In fact, just go with after shave, or nothing at all.

[k2blader]

Sounds like this guy is an obsessed idiot.

[HitmanLV]

MISTAKE #5: Sharing "How You Feel" Too Early In The Relationship With Her

Some of us guys avoid that entirely by not really feeling much of anything. :-)

[MD_Willington_1976]

Geez, If I wasn't a nice guy and hold the door open etc...my Grandmother would whack me upside the head...(Old school Irish Catholic grandmother)..LOL

[JFK_Lib]

There is no mystery to dating.

If you are looking for a woman with values like your own, then go where they are more likely to be and make friends there.

Be courteous, a gentleman, and see which respond to you.

Just having the nerve to start a conversation with a woman sets you apart from alot of men.

But in the final analysis, it all depends on what you want. If you want the kind of girl that spends more time on how she looks instead of how she thinks and what she believes then you have to meet her at her level, but I wouldnt waste my time with that type of woman.

If the woman shares my values, sees that in me, and finds me attractive enough then things might hit off. If not so be it.

God's Will be done in any case.

[Sloth]

Essentially, this boils down to "women are stupid when it comes to relationships." And that's frequently true.