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Grellis throws down the gauntlet
me | August 18, 2004 | grellis

Posted on 08/18/2004 7:33:07 AM PDT by grellis

There are enough packs of cigarettes in the freezer to get AshfieldK and I through Friday, then we are quitting cold turkey. Since I do most of my smoking while sitting in front of the computer, FReeping or playing solitaire, the computer is going to be off from this Friday night until the morning of September 3, 2004. This means that I'll need a volunteer to post the Family Table thread on 8-27, moms--I'll let you work that out, just let me know who gets the ping list. After this coming Friday's back-to-school thread, Grellis will be silent for two weeks.

Now, that's not going to affect most of you--I'm just another screenname, after all. Its a lot to me, though. Since I'm at home with the kids all day, you FReepers are my adult companionship. Its going to be as difficult staying off of this forum as kicking the habit will be.

As for quitting smoking, well, I have a certain FReeper to thank for that. The other day I realized that I have tried every method of quitting except one--cold turkey. I've never really given it the old college try. If any of you have quit cold turkey, let me know how you did it. Let me know what I can expect. If you know of any ex-smoking FReepers who have quit cold turkey, please ping them for me. I need all the help I can get. I hate smoking. I have to stop. Please help me stop. Consider it your mitzvah for August.

I will be checking my regular email once a day, so if there are any mom-emergencies (we have two births coming up!) please drop me a line. FReepmail me if you would like my regular email.

For the record: Cheese. Moose. Hugh sale.

All my smokes are belong to...someone else!


TOPICS: Chit/Chat; Health/Medicine
KEYWORDS: cigarettes; coldturkey; habit; smoking
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To: grellis

LOL!!
I was summarily banned from making the coffee while out in the field.
(FDC had a power inverter and used a 'Mr. Coffee' in the FDC vehicle. Our Cap liked his coffee to be scared water. He took a good healthy slug of my stuff, and I was banned from making the coffee.)
*sigh*

It was great stuff.
(Just don't use creamora or you'll pay for it.. Ask SAMWolf and snippy_about_it about my coffee with creamora in it..)

You like the tagline?
Thanks!


21 posted on 08/18/2004 8:42:14 AM PDT by Darksheare (If a tree fell on a mime in the forest, would he still taste like chicken?)
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To: backinthefold

Kearen, 24 pounds of attitude.
Wouldn't trade her for the world.
22 posted on 08/18/2004 8:56:57 AM PDT by Darksheare (If a tree fell on a mime in the forest, would he still taste like chicken?)
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To: Darksheare

I love my fat cat, her name is Sydney, but now she is just fat cat. I wouldnt trade her for the world either, just sometimes when I wake in the middle of the night, not able to breath, and she is asleep on me :)

I love the way fat cat waddles, she too fat to walk

Kearen is a beautiful kitty


23 posted on 08/18/2004 9:02:26 AM PDT by backinthefold (Is it my imagination, or do buffalo wings taste like chicken?)
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To: Darksheare

I have you both beat!

Although I don't have a picture...my Peaches cat weighs in at 27 pounds. All my others are as thin as rails but she is huge. Should you be able to hear a cat walk? Lol!


24 posted on 08/18/2004 9:03:01 AM PDT by DUDLEY
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To: Darksheare

I have you both beat!

Although I don't have a picture...my Peaches cat weighs in at 27 pounds. All my others are as thin as rails but she is huge. Should you be able to hear a cat walk? Lol!


25 posted on 08/18/2004 9:03:11 AM PDT by DUDLEY
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To: backinthefold

Thanks.
Kearen 'thumps' when she walks.
Didn't know a cat could stomp it's feet, but she does.
(If you've seen the movie "American Psycho" and seen the part where he's running down the hallway in boxer shorts, you've seen how my cat runs. 'thump-thump-thump-thump!')
She somewhat bobs and trots..

Kearen is good about not sleeping on my chest, she merely immobilises my legs.


26 posted on 08/18/2004 9:08:19 AM PDT by Darksheare (If a tree fell on a mime in the forest, would he still taste like chicken?)
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To: DUDLEY

LOL!
Cats shouldn't be able to stomp whne they're angry, but Kearen does.
(I'm assuming Peaches has alot of attitude as well?)

But she's a luv, Kearen trills insted of meowing.


27 posted on 08/18/2004 9:09:25 AM PDT by Darksheare (If a tree fell on a mime in the forest, would he still taste like chicken?)
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To: grellis

Go for it! You have nothing to lose but that awful smell! (Nothing personal, but I can smell a smoker when he walks past on the sidewalk outside my windows ... even if he's not smoking!)

I'll fast from something for you every day ... maybe even Freeping, once or twice :-).


28 posted on 08/18/2004 9:11:03 AM PDT by Tax-chick ("Fear not, for those who are with us are more than those who are with them." (2 Kings 6:16-17)
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To: Darksheare

Yes, she really does have attitude.

She is a blue cream that I adopted at the shelter and she can be suffocating with her affection. I wish she could lose weight but I don't know what to do. Maybe she should take up smoking for Grellis!


29 posted on 08/18/2004 9:17:49 AM PDT by DUDLEY
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To: DUDLEY
 I wish she could lose weight but I don't know what to do. Maybe she should take up smoking for Grellis!
 
dammit, mountain dew all over the keyboard and monitor....

30 posted on 08/18/2004 9:23:27 AM PDT by backinthefold (Is it my imagination, or do buffalo wings taste like chicken?)
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To: DUDLEY

Been trying to get Kearen's weight down as well, but she seems to gain density rather than gain or lose mass.

Not sure of Kearen's lineage, she was put in a burlap bag and tossed over the 8 foot tall fence behind the Goshen NY humane society when she was a kitten.
(She doesn't like being picked up, probably due to her flight over the fence.)


31 posted on 08/18/2004 9:29:01 AM PDT by Darksheare (If a tree fell on a mime in the forest, would he still taste like chicken?)
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To: grellis

Good luck. I am sure it will be very difficult.

I think you are very brave for going cold turkey.


32 posted on 08/18/2004 9:57:31 AM PDT by luckystarmom
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To: netmilsmom
We are now spending $194 a month on cigarettes. Enough!!!

I tried the rubber band trick, with no luck at all. Ditto the patch, the gum, and acupuncture. Zyban worked. I quit smoking when I took Zyban. I also quit eating and sleeping. Psychotropic drugs as a means of smoking cessation is not something I recommend.

I have been scaling back on smoking the past few days in preparation for Friday. I find that if I play solitaire in the dining room (we only smoke in the one room of the house in which the kids are not allowed) I don't smoke. I don't even think about smoking. Fortunately, I am a solitaire fiend and know a dozen variations of the game, so I won't be easily bored. I also have the feeling that I am going to be cleaning--a lot.

33 posted on 08/18/2004 9:58:18 AM PDT by grellis (A! Elbereth Gilthoniel!)
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To: Tax-chick

That's what drives me crazy--I hate everything about smoking. I hate the smell. I hate the taste. I really hate that the kids see me smoke (not much, just when we're outside). I hate the shortness of breath and the coughing. I hate the expense. I hate the inconvenience. I am down to pure addiction. Its not going to be easy. I've been smoking since I was fifteen, a pack a day since I was sixteen (although I have been smoking less than that the past few years). When I add up how much money I have spent on smoking over the years, and realize that what I've sp0ent on tobacco I could have spent on real estate, I want to vomit.


34 posted on 08/18/2004 10:02:30 AM PDT by grellis (A! Elbereth Gilthoniel!)
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To: grellis
I'd love to. However, Mr. Okie smokes like a chimney. He's got cigs salted all over the house and as soon as he wakes up in the morning he rolls over and slaps his pack of Viceroys.

I usually don't smoke until noon. It's not a discipline thing, I just get light-headed (more than usual!) if I smoke in the morning.

If he would try to quit with me, I would do it. He has tried to quit before and never made it past 4 days. The mega-b*stard factor alone that kicks in on him precludes my asking him to quit!
35 posted on 08/18/2004 10:09:07 AM PDT by annyokie (Now with 20% More Infidel!)
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To: grellis

I understand how you feel about the money ... we spend too much on wine!

My mom quit when she turned 40, after smoking more than 25 years. It was hard; probably would have been easier before *I* was a teenager! I'm impressed with you for continuing to try.


36 posted on 08/18/2004 10:09:23 AM PDT by Tax-chick ("Fear not, for those who are with us are more than those who are with them." (2 Kings 6:16-17)
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To: grellis
Good luck and good for you! I have never smoked, luckily, because I can't give up my bad habits (I can't even stop cracking my knuckles) and so it would be really hard for me to muster up the willpower to stop. From the ex-smokers I've known, there are only a couple things I'd pass on... one is the use of cigarettes to mark time, routine in your day. I've been told it helps to vary your routine if you can, to break up the reminder pattern. The second thing is if you do have a drag or a cigarette in a weak moment... don't give up. My mom has said that one of the biggest failings when she first tried to quit is if she succumbed in a moment of weakness, she would think, oh, well, that's it, and buy a pack... and that she had to get out of that mindset. Just get back on the wagon and keep going! The third tidbit I've been told is that Fudgesicles are really good! I know it is a very difficult habit to break. Hang in there and good luck!!!
37 posted on 08/18/2004 10:10:18 AM PDT by GraceCoolidge
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To: grellis
I've quit cold-turkey one summer when I wanted to work out alot (although I wanted to start after the summer - it was just temporary). I carried around roughly a pound of Big Red gum with me, and chewed incessantly. A large part of cigarette addiction (IMHO) comes from oral obsession. You get used to something in your mouth to focus attention on. I found that a spicy gum like BR satisfied my needs and eased the desire for a smoke. Good luck.
38 posted on 08/18/2004 10:13:27 AM PDT by Shryke (Never retreat. Never explain. Get it done and let them howl.)
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To: grellis; Tax-chick

Watch that old movie "Cold Turkey" starring Dick Van Dyke. It is hilarious!


39 posted on 08/18/2004 10:16:50 AM PDT by annyokie (Now with 20% More Infidel!)
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To: grellis

You CAN do this!!!!

My father did after smoking 50 years.

It took a heart attack acaring him into making the decision to quit. I'm glad you are not waiting for that. You don't always get the chance to quit after a heart attack. Many times you just die.

How did he do it? He was in ICU 10 days. No cigarettes there! Then hospitalized another week. By then the worst of the physical withdrawl was over.

He still fights the cravings 13 years later. It's always worse after a meal. He channels the energy by getting up from the table quickly after eating and washing the dishes. By the time he is done the craving is gone.

We'll 'see' you when your self-imposed exile is over. Best wishes!


40 posted on 08/18/2004 10:23:12 AM PDT by freemama
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