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Swiping and Dating Preferences: Gender divides in sex and relationships
Substack ^ | July 23, 2023 | Rob Henderson

Posted on 07/23/2023 4:06:03 AM PDT by karpov

Earlier this year, the American Perspectives Survey collected data from a representative sample of more than 5,000 U.S. adults aged 18 and older. Here I’ll go through and share the results and some thoughts. Some of the findings are predictable. Other results are surprising.

The survey found that women care a lot more about height than men do.

56% of women say they would be less likely to date someone who is “much shorter” than they are, while only 32% of men say they would be less likely to date someone who is taller.

In other words, men are generally okay with dating someone who is taller than themselves but women really don’t want to date a guy who is shorter than them.

The report notes that “No change has altered the fabric of American life so profoundly as the decline of marriage.”

One reason for this is the rise of cohabitation. The number of Americans cohabitating with their romantic partner has more than doubled over the past three decades.

Interestingly, a recent survey found that men in cohabiting relationships are just as satisfied in their relationships as married men, but women in cohabiting relationships are much less satisfied than married women. Much of social progress was supposedly intended to benefit women and instead ended up benefiting men.

Perhaps this is one contributing factor to the paradox of declining female happiness.

Women used to report having higher well-being than men. Over the past several decades, though, this has reversed. Women’s self-reported happiness has plummeted. Today men report higher well-being than women.

(Excerpt) Read more at robkhenderson.com ...


TOPICS: Chit/Chat
KEYWORDS: dating; manosphere; marriage; men; mgtow; pua; redpill; women
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Rob Henderson is a psychology PhD and U.S. Air Force veteran who coined the term luxury beliefs.
1 posted on 07/23/2023 4:06:03 AM PDT by karpov
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To: karpov

Summary: Men like the current casual dating and sex scene more than women.


2 posted on 07/23/2023 4:23:18 AM PDT by Fido969 (45 is Superman! )
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To: karpov

Women don’t want to date someone their own height if a taller man is available. I spent my entire life being ignored by women.


3 posted on 07/23/2023 4:24:21 AM PDT by GingisK
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To: karpov

“One reason for this is the rise of cohabitation. The number of Americans cohabitating with their romantic partner has more than doubled over the past three decades.”

Get rid of the discrimatory divorce laws against men.


4 posted on 07/23/2023 4:26:12 AM PDT by WeaslesRippedMyFlesh (Wake me up when somebody tells the truth.)
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To: karpov

“Women used to report having higher well-being than men. Over the past several decades, though, this has reversed. Women’s self-reported happiness has plummeted.”

I am not surprised about this. While casually browsing through online dating profiles, I’ve seen all sorts of them who profess their left leaning beliefs and that they do not want to meet or date conservatives or Trump supporters (here in the Great White North, I find that odd to make mention of Trump in that manner). Women nowadays consume far more news media than men and, again, not surprising that they fill themselves with the news media created and generated world that I basically tune out. And I know that doing that plus working at my job and enjoying things like hikes or snowshoes or the annual travel to a location for museums and historic sights and such other things in life probably has me that more content with things than probably a lot of women about my age.


5 posted on 07/23/2023 4:27:32 AM PDT by OttawaFreeper ("The Gardens was founded by men-sportsmen-who fought for their country" Conn Smythe, 1966 )
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To: karpov

Being a slut doesn’t make women happier.
Being childless while sitting in a cubicle doesn’t make women happier.

It was amazing to me, raising your children and being married was slavery, but 50+ hours a week in an office is freedom.

Women, not all, went full retard.


6 posted on 07/23/2023 4:35:57 AM PDT by EEGator
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To: karpov

As Yoda might say, “if milk free, cow purchase not.”


7 posted on 07/23/2023 4:36:05 AM PDT by HombreSecreto (The life of a repo man is always intense)
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To: karpov
32% of men say they would be less likely to date someone who is taller.

1. Interesting that the author uses the word someone instead of woman.

2. For the men who are willing to date women who are taller than them, does the willingness vary with the woman's bra size, or height completely independent of all other factors?

8 posted on 07/23/2023 4:37:20 AM PDT by Bernard ("No matter where you go, there you are." (Buckaroo Banzai))
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To: GingisK

I’m 6’2”, so I guess that manly chick from Game of Thrones is out…


9 posted on 07/23/2023 4:37:38 AM PDT by EEGator
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To: karpov

The author is comparing “taller” to “much shorter”


10 posted on 07/23/2023 4:42:00 AM PDT by heartwood (Someone has to play devil's advocate.)
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To: EEGator

“Being childless while sitting in a cubicle doesn’t make women happier.”

There is no more vicious and unscrupulous creature in the workplace than the childless career minded woman.

Man haters and liars.


11 posted on 07/23/2023 4:44:21 AM PDT by WeaslesRippedMyFlesh (Wake me up when somebody tells the truth.)
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To: WeaslesRippedMyFlesh

Yep. That’s why my current group of coworkers are 100% white males, almost all Veterans, and all right wing people.


12 posted on 07/23/2023 4:47:55 AM PDT by EEGator
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To: Fido969
Interestingly, a recent survey found that men in cohabiting relationships are just as satisfied in their relationships as married men . . .

Why wouldn't they be? They get milk and cream without the costs and risks of owning a cow who might take more than half of everything they own plus their future income stream if the relationship goes south.

Thank feminism for promoting that kind of irresponsible attitude. I spent more than 38 years married to a kind, wonderful woman who rejected feminism and nurtured me and our children as I protected and provided for them. God, how I miss her!

13 posted on 07/23/2023 4:51:47 AM PDT by Vigilanteman (The politicized state destroys aspects of civil society, human kindness and private charity.)
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To: EEGator

She is too tall to notice me anyway, but thanks for the offer. ;-D


14 posted on 07/23/2023 5:15:53 AM PDT by GingisK
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To: EEGator; WeaslesRippedMyFlesh

I’m out of the workforce now, thank God. When I worked with lefties in the past, they were always a little afraid of me. I made sure of that. Sometimes it was humorous to watch them getting ready to break bad news regarding a project. I was always very subtle, never a threat, never a comment. It is surprising what can be accomplished with mere attitude and casual mention of having been in the army.


15 posted on 07/23/2023 5:21:25 AM PDT by GingisK
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To: GingisK

Plenty of hot chicks that aren’t tall.
Reese Witherspoon, Emilia Clarke, Emma Watson, Shakira.

It’s kind of funny. I looked up hot short actresses, and at least half were dumpster fires…
There’s very few normal, stable women that are famous.
Guys might be as crazy, but I don’t care and I doubt it…


16 posted on 07/23/2023 5:23:45 AM PDT by EEGator
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To: GingisK

Lol…


17 posted on 07/23/2023 5:24:19 AM PDT by EEGator
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To: WeaslesRippedMyFlesh
There is no more vicious and unscrupulous creature in the workplace than the childless career minded woman.

Even worse in political power. Childless Andrea Merkel fatally wounded Germany by forcefully importing millions of Muslim and African migrants.

18 posted on 07/23/2023 5:39:39 AM PDT by montag813
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To: karpov
A big reason for the decline of marriage is that modern women just aren’t worth it. Overweight, tatted up strumpets who yell “I can’t find a good man!” when her three crotch goblins are running amok. Well tubby, what have you done to earn one.

SMV of many people is greatly overrated.

19 posted on 07/23/2023 5:55:30 AM PDT by nonliberal (Z.)
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To: karpov

Feminism was invented by a man just like the pill.


20 posted on 07/23/2023 6:05:41 AM PDT by bray (You can tell who the Commies fear.)
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