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I’m an attractive, heterosexual woman who wants no-strings-attached sex. Where do I find [tr]
Slate ^ | April 9, 2019 | Stoya

Posted on 04/10/2019 10:18:45 AM PDT by C19fan

Dear How to Do It,

I am a single woman in her early 30s. I’m attractive and have never had issues attracting a partner. But after a series of disappointing relationships, each around a year, I’m just not in a mood to engage emotionally with men right now. The thing is, I have a high sex drive, and I can’t fully satisfy myself on my own—though believe me, I try. The cliché is that this should be an easy problem to fix: Plenty of men want to have sex with a woman with no strings, right? Here are my limitations: In the past, when I’ve had hookup buddies, I like them, but it never really is just sex—we inevitably get to know each other better and then I end up getting entangled with him, whether I want to or not. I also am not really into sex parties or the poly scene; for better or worse, I like the intimacy of one-on-one connections, even if all I want is sex right now.

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TOPICS: Weird Stuff
KEYWORDS: pua; redpill; sex; slutwalk
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To: C19fan

Someone chain down Laz!


81 posted on 04/10/2019 11:07:21 AM PDT by Zathras
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To: C19fan
Only if you prefer men who don't really care about you.

82 posted on 04/10/2019 11:07:36 AM PDT by BitWielder1 (I'd rather have Unequal Wealth than Equal Poverty.)
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To: C19fan

So she asking to find a man stupid enough to sexually involve himself with a strange woman in the era of Me Too? Thanks, but no thanks. The feminists have brought this on themselves.


83 posted on 04/10/2019 11:08:52 AM PDT by Mr. Mohasky (Common sense in a world lacking any, will be perceived & construed as an extreme point of view.)
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To: FatherofFive
Any woman can get all the sex she wants. Go to any bar on a Friday night. Dress exposing breasts and legs, and sit alone at the bar. She’ll need a flyswatter to flick off the ones she doesn’t find attractive.

That depends on her appearance, her hygiene, her age, her behavior, and whether she wants something specific which might be rare.

Some women want things they can't get for free (sometimes can't get legally at all) and they generally wind up hiring someone.

Not all John's are male.

84 posted on 04/10/2019 11:09:29 AM PDT by MrEdd (Caveat Emptor)
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To: hal ogen

More likely Huma who is tired of dragging Hillary around.


85 posted on 04/10/2019 11:09:57 AM PDT by Zathras
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To: tunedin
Plenty of men want to have sex with a woman with no strings, right? Here are my limitations:
Why would anyone read the article passed that sentence?
86 posted on 04/10/2019 11:11:34 AM PDT by SanchoP (Why does DC hate Americans so much ?)
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To: C19fan
Didn't they make a movie about this subject?
87 posted on 04/10/2019 11:12:56 AM PDT by Cecily
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To: C19fan

PROSTITUTION. So why does this goofball ask?


88 posted on 04/10/2019 11:13:28 AM PDT by dforest (Just shut up Obama. Maybe everyone should just shut up!)
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To: detective

Sounds like a post-op tranny.


89 posted on 04/10/2019 11:13:45 AM PDT by MrEdd (Caveat Emptor)
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To: gaijin

Because their ancient impulses tell them that now I have a provider and a mate I don’t want to jeopardize the prime directive(bearing a child) and his previous demonstrations of his virility and strength might attract other females(competition) or he’ll wander off with one them so I must ground him to me.


90 posted on 04/10/2019 11:15:24 AM PDT by jmacusa ("The more numerous the laws the more corrupt the government''.)
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To: central_va

I’m serious here:
For those looking for mature women, this is the biggest pickup place in AZ.
The women do the shopping.

https://phoenix.bluemartinilounge.com/


91 posted on 04/10/2019 11:17:34 AM PDT by Zathras
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To: C19fan

She’s probably hit the wall and is passed her use-by date. No smart man will write a check against that.


92 posted on 04/10/2019 11:19:26 AM PDT by wastedyears (The left would kill every single one of us and our families if they knew they could get away with it)
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To: C19fan

Become a paid prostitute or porn star, get something back other than disease and heart break.


93 posted on 04/10/2019 11:20:26 AM PDT by Midwesterner53
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To: C19fan

I’ll need to see a picture of her boat.


94 posted on 04/10/2019 11:20:29 AM PDT by Blogatron (Brought to you by The American Frog Council; "Frog - The other green meat.")
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To: C19fan

95 posted on 04/10/2019 11:20:58 AM PDT by RightGeek (FUBO and the donkey you rode in on)
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To: Lazamataz

Lady, have I got the guy for you!


96 posted on 04/10/2019 11:22:47 AM PDT by Gamecock (In church today, we so often find we meet only the same old world, not Christ and His Kingdom. AS)
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To: Red Badger
She wants to have it ‘both ways’, sex and romance but no commitments

Maybe she's really a guy.

97 posted on 04/10/2019 11:24:44 AM PDT by Go Gordon (I gave my dog Grady a last name - Trump - because he loves tweets.)
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To: dp0622

“I’LL BRING THE CHAMPAGNE AND SOY SAUCE!!!”

You never went to “The Factory” on a Saturday night? Back in the day, that was our spot to hook up with women. I forgot the name of the notel-motel we used to check into.


98 posted on 04/10/2019 11:25:13 AM PDT by EQAndyBuzz (Trump is the best project/program/portfolio manager in the world!!!!)
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To: jmacusa

Your theory really makes sense.


99 posted on 04/10/2019 11:25:32 AM PDT by gaijin
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To: C19fan

She’d find what she’s looking for if she just stood out on the street corner and offered to give her sex away.

She’s as loose as a goose and doesn’t want to admit it.

Sleeping with her would be as dangerous as playing Russian Roulette with STDs.


100 posted on 04/10/2019 11:27:19 AM PDT by Notthereyet (NotThereYet)
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