Posted on 02/07/2017 4:38:00 AM PST by 2ndDivisionVet
Burning passions over Donald Trump's presidency are taking a personal toll on both sides of the political divide. For Gayle McCormick, it is particularly wrenching: she has separated from her husband of 22 years.
The retired California prison guard, a self-described "Democrat leaning toward socialist," was stunned when her husband casually mentioned during a lunch with friends last year that he planned to vote for Trump a revelation she described as a "deal breaker."
"It totally undid me that he could vote for Trump," said McCormick, 73, who had not thought of leaving the conservative Republican before but felt "betrayed" by his support for Trump.
"I felt like I had been fooling myself," she said. "It opened up areas between us I had not faced before. I realized how far I had gone in my life to accept things I would have never accepted when I was younger."
Three months after the most divisive election in modern U.S. politics fractured families and upended relationships, a number of Americans say the emotional wounds are as raw as ever and show few signs of healing....
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Young people (which this prison guard wasn’t 22 years ago) are often apolitical. The year I got married, 1980, I believed the MSM about Reagan. I stayed home as I couldn’t vote for 444 days/ oil crisis Carter. 4 years later I voted proudly for Reagan. The wife and I didn’t discuss politics then. Over the years she moved towards the left and I moved toward the right. Now we have to avoid politics at home. It keeps our 36 year marriage alive to NOT discuss politics.
Two thoughts that I live by which I took from Glen Cook's "Garrett" series of books:
1. Never sleep with a woman who is crazier than you.
2. You should be sociable with unpredictable and dangerous people. For that matter, you should do that with anybody that you don't know. You should only be rude to friends you're sure won't slice you into cold cuts; that's what manners are for.
Congratulations, he’s better off without her.
“Id ditch my husband is a heartbeat if he ever voted for a liberal...”
Ditto.
They’ve got to be weeded out immediately when the dating starts, if possible. Big problem, though, if political ideology changes mid-marriage.
They're ALL mental. Every single one of 'em. Period. Full Stop.
Then Calexit will not be a happy day for her and her friends, now will it?
Notice that they tell the story from HER viewpoint. It could just as easily have read “I was astonished that this woman I thought I knew, who I trusted, would vote for a vice-ridden, corrupt, demonic witch like Hillary Clinton. It made me question her whole morality, and wonder if her worldview wasn’t shaped more by delusion than reality.”
If she’s 73 now, they got married when she was 51.
They both look like aliens.
“Such things happen in civil wars.”
Those exact thoughts came to me as I was listening to a couple of my lefty in-laws bragging about buying weapons last year. Will I be forced to defend myself against these thugs? Scary.
A Conservative Republican married to a skanky “Democrat leaning toward Socialist”.
He should have just used her for sex and never married her.
I have never, ever in my 4 decades of adulthood thought I could live under the same roof as a lib. How couples do that is beyond me. I think that guy lost a lot of dead weight.
Good grief! Sounds like that guy finally got a reprieve!
If this snippet is any indication, she has atrocious taste in tchotchkes and really enjoys drinking. Her wig is for a woman 30 years younger too.
I guess I beat the rush. I dumped all my liberal “friends” about 20 years ago during or after the Clinton catastrophe of 1992-2000.
So I don’t need to dump any over Trump. They are all long gone. No regrets. I don’t miss a single one of the brain-diseased commies.
I have no liberal friends.
I've often wondered the same thing myself, or at least how they managed to keep staying in the marriage as one became more conservative and the other drifted further into the liberal/socialist realm. I have several friends that are like that. I mean I can see getting into the marriage when both are younger and politics were a less important part of a relationship that was driven more by hormones than logic. 8>)
Oh, and how can being around convicted criminals for decades allow anyone to remain a liberal and leaning socialist???
Now that's a very good question. I believe the answer is that it is quite likely that a lot of criminals are likeable in many aspects, because a lot of them are probably con artists. They know how to get people to like them which protects them from being exposed, and often times offer assistance. Liberals/socialists are always susceptible to these types of personalities. Some conservatives are as well.
Not, "Until I might find something better" or "Until she does something politically that I disagree with". "Until Death Do Us Part" was what I remember.
Leaving a marriage over something as trivial and transient as politics? Pathetic.
She'll always have her cats.
Through patient point/counterpoint discussions, I have turned a number of “soft” liberals to the Dark Side. Revealing information the MSM intentionally withholds from their “reporting” usually cements the deal. Hardcore leftists, on the other hand, don’t care about the truth no matter what.
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