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Why Our Family Doesnt Do Halloween
Charting Course ^ | 10/18/2014 | Steve Berman

Posted on 10/29/2014 6:06:11 PM PDT by lifeofgrace

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Every year, my family and I face the same dilemma.  The last time either of us participated in Halloween has to be at least 10 years ago.  We have made a decision to abstain from Halloween celebrations, including all the TV specials, candy, and trick-or-treat associated with it.  I’m not against dressing up in costumes, or candy, or fun.  I and my wife simply oppose the values that go along with Halloween—the celebration of darkness, horror, fear, and mayhem.

I wrote a rather long piece about Halloween and why we believe what we believe, and posted it on my blog in three parts (it’s almost 4,000 words)…scroll to the bottom of this post for the inks.  I got quite a bit of feedback on the blog and on social media, most of it negative.  Here’s the general theme of the comments:  Halloween is fun, therefore my being against Halloween is being against fun. The conclusion: if I am against Halloween fun, then I must be against all kinds of fun and therefore no fun to be around.

That’s a leap across a logical crevice too wide for me to safely arrive at the conclusion.

To be clear: Halloween is fun. In my posts, I never said it wasn't. So is gambling, sex with strangers, getting drunk (not necessarily being drunk), telling filthy jokes, swearing every other word, and lighting bags of dog poop on your worst enemy's doorstep then ringing the doorbell.

There are all kinds of fun, and each kind of fun has consequences. Fun has a price. Halloween celebrates darkness, death, fear, and mayhem. Those things might be fun to some, and in our culture which has been so inoculated to these values they seem harmless.

Every 'R' rated movie features all the kinds of fun I listed above, and though we might find them abhorrent when we put ourselves in the picture, we accept them perfectly well when others are doing it on the big screen. Our kids grow up baptized in this stuff, so Halloween seems like quaint good old fashioned fun in comparison.

If you separate yourself from the 'R' (and even 'PG13') rated culture, it takes a while for the garbage to wash off, and even longer for the smell to go away. But once there, you see how far we've slipped into the mound of filth every day.

Halloween is fun, alright, but if you take a step back and look at what values we're teaching our kids, you'll see how ruinous our path is. The only option is to turn around. I love fun. I love good clean fun. The beach, the sun, picnics in the mountains, going to the mall, even going to movies. But most movies are too debased for me to sit through. You might say that's because I'm a fun-hating prude, but I say it's because I've had a chance to wash the stink off me for a while, and if you don't realize it, you may be so surrounded by that stench that you can't even smell it anymore.

Halloween ruins children. It's not the only thing that ruins children, and in fact it's pretty minor compared with the tidal wave of filth in which most of us wallow. Sometimes it's more effective to look at the quaint little bad habits than the life-controlling ones, because it's easier to break those little bad habits, and so it is with Halloween.

Many churches replace the Halloween celebration with their own “trunk or treat” or “harvest festival”.  As an evangelistic tool, it’s great to reach people for Christ in any way possible, including through popular culture.  I am on the fence (but leaning against) the church taking a non-Christian celebration that stands in opposition to Biblical values and replacing it with a look-alike (candy, dressing up, bats and pumpkins) but also introducing the Gospel.  Many times it pulls the faithful into the world more than it draws the unchurched to Christ.

For those who simply can’t step away from Halloween, I respect your opinion, and hope you can respect mine.  Here’s the links to the original series.

Part 1

Part 2

Part 3


TOPICS: Religion; Society
KEYWORDS: halloween; testy
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For all the trolls...two days before Halloween. Enjoy.
1 posted on 10/29/2014 6:06:11 PM PDT by lifeofgrace
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To: lifeofgrace

Wouldn’t a church celebrating the mentioned “harvest festival” be rather, well, pagan?


2 posted on 10/29/2014 6:08:48 PM PDT by goodwithagun (My gun has killed fewer people than Ted Kennedy's car.)
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To: lifeofgrace

Gag on a gnat, swallow a camel


3 posted on 10/29/2014 6:09:37 PM PDT by AppyPappy
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To: lifeofgrace

They look forward to not celebrating it, every year.


4 posted on 10/29/2014 6:12:28 PM PDT by Born to Conserve
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To: lifeofgrace

Lots of churches provide a Halloween-like alternative in a Christian setting. This guy could have developed constructive alternatives for his family in far less time than it took to write this screed.


5 posted on 10/29/2014 6:13:56 PM PDT by bigbob (The best way to get a bad law repealed is to enforce it strictly. Abraham Lincoln)
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To: lifeofgrace

Berman makes the false assumption that in order to enjoy or celebrate Halloween you must enjoy or celebrate darkness, mayhem, the demonic, etc. Keep your Halloween more Monster Mash than Friday the 13th (better yet, keep it All Saints oriented), and you’ll be fine.


6 posted on 10/29/2014 6:14:43 PM PDT by Wyrd bi ful ard (Asperges me, Domine, hyssopo et mundabor, Lavabis me, et super nivem dealbabor.)
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To: lifeofgrace
Halloween celebrates darkness, death, fear, and mayhem.

Oh, bull cr@p.

When my kids were young we had great times at our church's harvest carnivals and then canvassed the local neighborhoods for as much sweet loot as they could gather.

It depends on whether the Christian parents have their priorities right and just let their kids have fun once in awhile.

To the best of my knowledge neither one of my adult kids are satanists.

7 posted on 10/29/2014 6:16:07 PM PDT by PROCON (Ask Yourself This..Are You More Likely to be Infected or Beheaded Today Than You Were 6 Years Ago?)
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To: lifeofgrace
I carve a pumpkin puking and give out candy to the half dozen kids who make it to my doorbell, but that's about it. My 10-year-old son doesn't do Halloween.


8 posted on 10/29/2014 6:18:10 PM PDT by Hoodat (Article 4, Section 4)
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To: lifeofgrace
Halloween celebrates darkness, death, fear, and mayhem.

Somebodies confusing Halloween with the Demoncratic Party

9 posted on 10/29/2014 6:19:06 PM PDT by RckyRaCoCo (Shall Not Be Infringed)
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To: lifeofgrace

I ignore haloween as best I can.


10 posted on 10/29/2014 6:19:48 PM PDT by MeshugeMikey ("Never, Never, Never, Give Up," Winston Churchill)
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To: bigbob

When I was a kid, my church suckered me into canvassing for UNICEF while we trick-or-treated. That by itself was pure evil.


11 posted on 10/29/2014 6:20:22 PM PDT by Hoodat (Article 4, Section 4)
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To: RckyRaCoCo
somebodies=somebody's

It's been a long day

12 posted on 10/29/2014 6:21:17 PM PDT by RckyRaCoCo (Shall Not Be Infringed)
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To: Hoodat

UN-anything is evil


13 posted on 10/29/2014 6:21:37 PM PDT by GeronL (Vote for Conservatives not for Republicans)
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To: Hoodat

“When I was a kid, my church suckered me into canvassing for UNICEF while we trick-or-treated. That by itself was pure evil.”

Comment of the day!


14 posted on 10/29/2014 6:23:25 PM PDT by MNDude
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To: lifeofgrace

I live in a nice quiet neighborhood with a bunch of 2nd generation (grand)kids. They’re all well behaved. I enjoy participating in trick~or~treat to see the joy on the little kids faces. When that goes away so will I.


15 posted on 10/29/2014 6:23:36 PM PDT by rockrr (Everything is different now...)
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To: goodwithagun

I respect a person thinking through the issue and following their own conscience.

As for the harvest festivals, I have no opinion on that. When I was growing up my church would throw a big halloween party. It was fun, but not because it was a halloween party, just a party. But conscience clicked in years later and they started having harvest festivals.

The only think I really like about halloween is the candy. I can have that anytime. So I can live without it.


16 posted on 10/29/2014 6:24:06 PM PDT by The Ghost of FReepers Past (Woe unto them that call evil good, and good evil; that put darkness for light..... Isaiah 5:20)
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To: lifeofgrace

You bore me.


17 posted on 10/29/2014 6:24:35 PM PDT by Harmless Teddy Bear (Proud Infidel, Gun Nut, Religious Fanatic and Freedom Fiend)
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To: lifeofgrace

Now we have people here telling us to stop celebrating Halloween. What’s next?


18 posted on 10/29/2014 6:25:17 PM PDT by ExCTCitizen (I'm ExCTCitizen and I approve this reply. If it does offend Libs, I'm NOT sorry...)
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To: Wyrd bið ful aræd

My mom made my kids Indian costumes this year, complete with a little gown for our papoose. My son will carry his wooden long gun, and our daughter will carry her Brave bow. The baby will carry her teething ring. Lol, the only thing eeeeevil about these costumes is how deliciously un-PC they are!


19 posted on 10/29/2014 6:25:32 PM PDT by goodwithagun (My gun has killed fewer people than Ted Kennedy's car.)
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To: PROCON
Halloween celebrates darkness, death, fear, and mayhem.


20 posted on 10/29/2014 6:26:34 PM PDT by Gasshog (DemoKKKrats: Leaders of the Free Stuff World)
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