Posted on 11/16/2013 5:37:57 AM PST by ClaytonP
I can tell you this as a 50 something survivor of multiple divorces.
It’s all about control. They change the rules to control you-you play the game and they own you. You don’t play the game and they will make your very existence hell until they tire of you, then you get tossed aside like trash after they have extracted every available penny from you
That’s why they identify with Dummycrats so well. The goal is the same.
You will also hear that they are all nuts. It’s true. The depths of the crazy vary and it can stay latent/dormant for a long time, but in the end, it will unleash on you. And you will stand there in confused amazement, wondering where the whirlwind came from.
Candy Is dandy, But liquor Is quicker
1) In their 20s, shallow, eager to have fun, they make fun of guys who get serious, they want to party all the time at someone else's expense.
2) In their 30s, complaining about guys, complaining about being alone, miserable all the time -- but eager to go out drinking with the girls and have "fun".
3) Over 40, and alone. Bitter about how much men suck. Men just don't appreciate what a fine catch they are.
3) Over 40, and divorced. Bitter about that stupid marriage they had in their 20s and how it ruined their life -- they could have had fun, fun, fun but that loser ruined everything for them.
Of course, not all men are prizes — some of us can’t even count to 4!
Sorry ladies ... but the modern American women and what passes for values these days makes renting much more painless and less expensive than buying. Thank providence that I found the expectational Mrs Clamper.
5D, you may have some experienced years on me but our experiences would seem to provide stark evidence.
God Bless Al Bundy.
Men are with drawing today because women today are abusing their power in the relationship. Many of them are on drugs to keep their emotions stable and they keep changing the goals and expectations of the partnership on the young males due to their mood swings. Men don’t stay around for that.
"Men grow cold as girls get old;
But diamonds are a girl's best friend"
"Diamonds are a Girl's Best Friend" - T-Bone Burnett
The catz just don't care. ;)
/johnny
You’re thy guy that rebuilds transmissions in his bath tub. You may go in peace.
It’s all quite simple, really. In our modern society, feminization and socialism have devalued (and, in some cases, pathologized), the traditional contribution of a male to a committed relationship. There is also the increased sexualization of women (ala Sandra Fluke) to the point where it is difficult for many men to find women who haven’t already had a couple of kids with other men. As a result, marriage, can have more disadvantages than advantages for a man and many men are simply “going Galt” in the relationship world.
Ding ding ding! We have a winner.
I think we now see why American men search overseas for their wives.
Not just our experience-I have watched it through 30 years of Military and Police experience-friends and acquaintances that lived in pure hell no matter how hard they tried to do the right thing.
Crushed husks of men with no money and their souls sucked away.
They say no one understands women. If you remember the Nuts part and the rule change, you’ll understand.
Truer words were never spoken.I commiserate with you my friend.I now tell every young man that the two most important words in the English language are Pre Nup.
The problem here in the USA is that women are the sole source provider of legal ‘tang’. In other, more civilized countries, this not the case. The USA is anti male.
Well, that was as goofy a screed as any I have ever waded through.
All that mumbo jumbo, and the topic of children is never broached. Its critical regarding the never marrying contingent.
So, then, this whole article was an attempt to justify why older men want to date younger women... lol. Nice try.
Note: Men wanted to date (and marry) younger women before feminism, too. ;-) Older men want to date younger women because they find them more physically attractive. Women are valued for their attractiveness. Men are valued for security and stability. (And I say that as an "older" woman.)
And the real reason men today don't want to bother with courtship: Why buy a cow when so many other cows are giving away the milk for free?
Am I wrong here? Or, isn't that just the reality of it all?
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