[LN2Campy]

RE: that POST # 254

Sometimes a marriage can be SEXLESS, but the partners still have a high regard for one another and raise the children well. Should the man (who still needs and wants sex, but just ISN'T EVER going to get it again from the MRS.) just toss the marriage on that one ground, or, with the consent of his wife, DISCREETLY get a girl on the side????

[discostu]

Marriage is a contract. If you kept "forsaking all others" in your vows then that's the deal you signed up for and if you can't stick it out then you should end it. In another post on this thread I get pretty vocal about the train wreck that happens in a child's mind when the parents stay together "for the kids". It'll be even worse if you're sneaking around. The kids will know, they always find out, and they learn from your example, if the example you set is one filled with lies and deceit the kid will learn to be a sneaky. I know someone that was raised by a man with deep dark secrets (not philandery but in the same league), now the kid can't be trusted, to borrow a line from The Duke, if he tells you that night is dark and day is light you should go outside and check.

[Hillary's Lovely Legs]

with the consent of his wife, DISCREETLY get a girl on the side????

That's no girl, that's a whore.