Posted on 01/15/2024 9:51:55 AM PST by SeekAndFind
“Let them alone: they be blind leaders of the blind. And if the blind lead the bling, both shall fall into the ditch.”
While scanning the news this morning, I came across a “Dear Abby” type column, in which a 29-year-old woman asked the “expert” about whether or not she needed to stop sleeping with men on the first date in order to find a husband with whom she could start a family; the conflicted woman had reached out after a friend had suggested that perhaps her inability to find a man pursuing her as a wife was because of her willingness to jump in the sack at every perceived “connection.” Here’s her initial inquiry, from the article:
I’m a 29-year-old woman and I’ve been dating for most of my 20s in the hope of finding a husband to have a family with.
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However, my friend says that the reason I’m not finding a husband is because I’m too sexually available – she says I need to ‘keep the men wanting more’ and not sleep with them until at least 10 dates in. Surely this is an old-fashioned way of thinking? It’s 2024 after all!
Yes, it is 2024 after all, where feminism has reached a new level of chaos and nonsense, but still… I, like any reasonable person, expected a gentle “yes” from the so-called relationship “expert,” so I was genuinely shocked to read that the advice this young woman received actually encouraged her lifestyle choices of easy-riding (with the “expert” even referring to the suggestion that she wait for sex as “old-fashioned” and “misogynistic”), and I was quickly reminded of how unreasonable people can be, especially when these people are neo-feminists.
(Excerpt) Read more at americanthinker.com ...
“Paper towel”, use once, throw in trash.
RE: I was surprised to see that Dear Abby still exists
Actually, it wasn’t Dear Abby. The article said it was a “Dear Abby Type Column”.
but then they'll complain yrs later that she drinks, uses drugs, is profane and not motherly....
if you lay down with dogs, you get fleas....
garbage in garbage out.....
people generally get what they deserve ....
You mean men don’t want a woman who has had 100’s of sex partners and multiple abortions for a wife?
Who knew?
while still single I had priorities and values but I let one cute girl with no real moral values get to me. it was great for a while...until she found out that I was a rush fan. she ranted, raved, threw things then gave me an ultimatum. sometimes I miss her. no truer words were ever spoken than “all women are bi. you just have to figure out if they’re bisexual or bipolar”.
I take it she never heard of that old saying - “Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free”.
All that feminism has done is make society awash with “free milk”.
Thanks “ladies”!
Behind all this are the filthy hands of Kinsey and the whole panoply of psychologists. The destructive influence of these frauds on society is immeasurable. These clowns are the ones who invented open marriage and gender disporia mutilation and other evil “therapies”.
Anyone with half a brain knows that infidelity ruins relationships. This has been known for thousands of years and is recognized by every successful culture. Some crap degree from some corrupt college doesn’t confer any special knowledge about human behavior to the practitioners. If you’ve ever met them you know that they are the craziest of all.
Oh. Well, she certainly coined the term.
And why feed the cow ten times before milking instead of just once?
SWF looking for life companion..
Loves long walks on the beach
Quiet time by the fireplace
Fine dining
Romantic evenings listening to mood music
Ladies book clubs
Climate change and anti-racism protests
Hates dogs, guns, tobacco, cars, gas powered tools, John Wayne
Denocrat voter
Call or text ......
That’s a whole lot of them.
Women destroying their lives for some false belief system.
Loving wife that stays home with children is slavery.
60 hours in cubicle is freedom.
P.S. I miss Looney Tunes
I’m stealing that!
There’s no copyright…
At least you can get rid of fleas.
She needs to listen to her friend. 😏
True. And why do they call it a one night stand, when there is no standing involved?
“I’m a 29-year-old woman and I’ve been dating for most of my 20s in the hope of finding a husband to have a family with.”
Dear 29-year-old woman,
Your lifestyle choices have drastically reduced your chances of ever having the successful marriage and family you desire.
The financially-established, older men who were interested in marrying you and having children with you, that you rejected in your early adult years, have since moved on to marry less-experienced, marriage-minded young women.
It’s not entirely too late for you, but you’re going to have to be willing to settle for someone less than perfect. Or, remain single permanently.
Consider seeking help for sex addiction. A woman or a man who has sex on a first date is not serious about a lifelong, monogamous marriage that is open to children. If you want the outcome of being married and raising children you must abandon the easy sex behavior. These are incompatible.
Yes because good men enjoy using other guys used condoms. And being cuckolded to finance kids that aren’t theirs.
It’s so simple. “Once a slut always a slut.”
Friend of mine found out with his 3rd wife. She kept being a slut after they married.
What man wants that?
Today’s women are truly STUPID!
Women telling other women what they want to hear. How novel....and without any curiosity about asking men what THEY value, as though it doesn’t count - because women think they get to decide. Wrong!
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