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Black People, White People: Dazed and confused.
ThyBlackMan ^ | May 14, 2023 | Staff

Posted on 05/15/2023 8:31:21 AM PDT by where's_the_Outrage?

I received a text message while I was driving home last week. I sent a quick reply while I was at a stoplight, but then received another message. I was near a country club, so I decided to pull into its parking lot rather than text and drive. (I act responsibly every now and then.)

As I texted, I noticed that a young man, who was obviously an employee, drive by in a golf cart. After seeing me, he swung his cart around and parked perhaps 10 feet behind me. He was looking down initially, appearing to type something into his phone. We made eye contact after a few seconds.......

Still seething, I turned around and headed back to the club so that I could confront the manager. I arrived, hurriedly exited my car, and headed towards the entrance. A total of three young men, all of whom were white, were parked in golf carts near the entrance. I was going to rush past them on my mission to give the manager a piece of my mind. I would also tell him (certainly it would be a white man) that I would never consider becoming a member of that club. (It would have been a moot point; I don’t like golf.)

At that point, everything changed.

The young man with whom I had made eye contact said, “Sir, do you need a ride back to the course.” In an instant, I realized that he had not profiled me. Neither had he taken down my license plate number to report me as “suspicious”. He had been merely killing time on his phone while waiting to see if I needed his assistance. I thanked him, and somewhat sheepishly responded that I was heading inside.

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TOPICS: Chit/Chat; Society
KEYWORDS: blackculture; notaboutyou; notracism; predominantly; profilingwhites; racism; woke
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A lot of blacks believe everything is about race, and with the leftists doing everything they can to create strife, it will not change.

From what I see blacks can mostly freely enter dominate white area (e.g. Trump rally) and have no issues, but I avoid dominate black areas.

1 posted on 05/15/2023 8:31:21 AM PDT by where's_the_Outrage?
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To: where's_the_Outrage?

No kidding! Blacks can go pretty much anywhere. Whites, not so much. My sympathy is over.


2 posted on 05/15/2023 8:34:47 AM PDT by bk1000 (Banned from Breitbart)
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So I’m NOT going to think, I’ll just react emotionally and assumed everything is racism because that is how I have been programmed since birth.

TYPICAL....I wonder if the gets worked up if his fast food order is wrong??


3 posted on 05/15/2023 8:36:46 AM PDT by BigFreakinToad (Biden whispered "Don't Jump")
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To: where's_the_Outrage?
A lot of blacks believe everything is about race, and with the leftists doing everything they can to create strife, it will not change.

Copy that. Every little thing that goes wrong is always put down to racism.

Sometimes even black people can be a$$holes and be treated as such, not because of the color of their skin, but because of the content of their character.

4 posted on 05/15/2023 8:36:49 AM PDT by Yo-Yo (Is the /Sarc tag really necessary? Pray for President Biden: Psalm 109:8)
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The democrats have deliberately and intentionally racheted up hatred and suspicion among blacks for whites, and among Hispanics for “Anglos.” Then the dems taught them to blame their failures on Whitey or those Anglos, absolving them of any responsibility for their actions.


5 posted on 05/15/2023 8:38:44 AM PDT by I want the USA back (The media is the most subversive and harmful institution on the planet. Tied with democrat party.)
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Copy that. Every little thing that goes wrong is always put down to racism.

Or Climate Change.

6 posted on 05/15/2023 8:41:04 AM PDT by dfwgator (Endut! Hoch Hech!)
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Or Orange Man Bad!


7 posted on 05/15/2023 8:43:16 AM PDT by rktman (Destroy America from within? Check! WTH? Enlisted USN 1967 to end up with this💩? 🚫💉)
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To: where's_the_Outrage?
While African Americans are not faced with overt racism on a daily basis, the compounded interest of our lived experience takes a physiological, psychic, emotional, and spiritual toll on us. Much of being Black in America (and in other predominantly white places) involves the perpetual possibility of racial slights

He should try being a white kid at a majority black public high school. Or maybe a white person on the Subway in Brooklyn late at night. Or a suburban white woman driving through the South side of Chicago with a flat tire on a Saturday evening.

The exact same possibilities exist - only much higher.

8 posted on 05/15/2023 8:44:10 AM PDT by PGR88
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I believe that the preponderance of racism in our country comes from black people and that most of those blacks reside in our large cities.


9 posted on 05/15/2023 8:45:42 AM PDT by lakecumberlandvet (Appeasement never works.)
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To: I want the USA back

The democrats have deliberately and intentionally racheted up hatred and suspicion among blacks for whites, and among Hispanics for “Anglos.” Then the dems taught them to blame their failures on Whitey or those Anglos, absolving them of any responsibility for their actions.


^^ THAT ^^


10 posted on 05/15/2023 8:46:09 AM PDT by Jane Long (What we were told was a conspiracy theory in ‘20 is now fact. Land of the sheep, home of the knaves)
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Some people walk around with a huge chip on their shoulder and every time it vibrates it is not because they are moving, it is because someone has it in for them.

Are there people out there that have it in for them? Maybe. But do not jump to that as your first conclusion.

To be frank, most people do not care about you at all.

11 posted on 05/15/2023 8:47:55 AM PDT by Harmless Teddy Bear (Follow the money. Even if it leads you to someplace horrible it will still lead you to the truth.)
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Larry is right I don’t understand. I don’t live on the knife’s edge always looking to be offended. I don’t live my life looking through a racial lens. But I do know that Larry can feel safe anywhere he goes if the area is predominantly white. I can’t feel the same way in areas heavily populated by blacks.


12 posted on 05/15/2023 8:49:44 AM PDT by redangus
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The younger generation, for all of their foibles, are not as racist as those prior. They do not see race. (unless they are black and you are a white person driving through the ‘hood)


13 posted on 05/15/2023 8:52:25 AM PDT by madison10
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So, he acts like a racist at worst and a bigot at best, but it's STILL not his fault: "Racial trauma is so insidious that it claims not just the combatants; it voraciously gorges on innocent bystanders, belching and regurgitating them into collateral damage."
14 posted on 05/15/2023 8:54:27 AM PDT by Retrofitted
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. . . professional recognition cannot fully insulate us from the damning, numbing, constant waterboarding of racism.

I am tired.

Spot on. The worst thing that can usually happen to a black person going into a predominately white area is that they might get "profiled."

For the reverse, the white person has a reasonable chance of not leaving without being threatened, robbed, molested or even killed.

I'll take the indignity of being "profiled" any day.

15 posted on 05/15/2023 8:54:31 AM PDT by Vigilanteman (The politicized state destroys aspects of civil society, human kindness and private charity.)
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While African Americans are not faced with overt racism on a daily basis, the compounded interest of our lived experience takes a physiological, psychic, emotional, and spiritual toll on us. Much of being Black in America (and in other predominantly white places) involves the perpetual possibility of racial slights...

In other words, those who believe "racism" is always a possibility, will always find it...

16 posted on 05/15/2023 8:55:06 AM PDT by Common Sense 101
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The younger generation, for all of their foibles, are not as racist as those prior.

That is absolutely true. In fact, I will say anti-racism and pro "diversity" has been so hammered into young kids' brains, there's a sort of reverse-racism in effect - many white people under 35 view blacks as a preferred, protected and anointed race.

17 posted on 05/15/2023 8:59:16 AM PDT by PGR88
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“...blame their failures on Whitey...”

Well, Jao, who is nearly as white as a sheet, IS a large part of their problems.


18 posted on 05/15/2023 9:01:56 AM PDT by Paladin2
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“avoid dominate black areas”

It was a real unintended benefit when pretty much every mid to large city now all a have MLK boulevards........an area White folks know for sure to steer clear of if atcall possible.......no telling how many lives have been saved. 😏


19 posted on 05/15/2023 9:02:04 AM PDT by V_TWIN (America...so great even the people that hate it refuse to leave!)
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“..We made eye contact after a few seconds.....
Still seething,..”

I understand the point you’re making, and it’s a helpful reminder not to presume too much too quickly or always jump to the same conclusions.
But, there seems as though a small piece of the story is missing.
...made eye contact... (then suddenly) Still seething.


20 posted on 05/15/2023 9:07:14 AM PDT by lee martell
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