Posted on 08/24/2021 4:43:39 PM PDT by Scarpetta
My husband of 20 years got the "vax" in order to travel for work. He was not resistant to the jab. In fact, he gladly took it. He has repeatedly told me I'm foolish for not getting the shot. I am heathly and hale and have weighed my options. I will not take it ... ever.
He told me to not mention the mandatory vaccine being foisted on military personnel in a letter to my son in basic training at Fort Benning. I told him to go eff himself. I can't stay married to a man this weak minded.
I can't believe I am with a man who is telling me to watch what I write to our son. I can't believe he thinks this "vax" is legit. I will dissolve this marriage before I let anyone stick a needle in my body.
Why do you think any of us care?
Agree. I am not vaxxed and have no intention of doing so in the near future, especially since I found out last week I have a ton on antibodies. My wife got vaccinated two months ago. That was her choice and I said nothing.
It is disturbing he evidently won’t let her inform the son on the mandate.
My husband and I are among the small group of those who got divorced and then remarried to each other.
Last night, during an argument over the souvied (or however you spell it) chicken (which I did not like because I do not like that souvied food, it just does not seem cooked to me) he said that he was leaving me.
I said, just tell me one thing: are you taking the souvie with you?
Hang in there, per my beloved mother-in-law, the first 35 years are the hardest!
Quick, buy more insurance!!!!!!!!
Charming as usual.
The world is well rid of you, hg. You suck and have sucked for a very long time.
This crap should help
If my job mandates me to take this “jab”, my wife may leave me if I refuse. But I will refuse.
If this is the only reason for you thinking about divorce, I think I’d echo the advice given here, that vaxxing, in and of itself, is not proper grounds for divorce. That said, I suspect that there is more to this, than just vaxxing or not vaxxing. I’d bet, you have far more issues which are eating away at you. The best advice I can give is see a lawyer, plan to set aside money for a nasty divorce, and seperate your finances as much as is practical. An amicable divorce will likely cause you to have to bite your tongue at times, and even give things up that you feel are yours, but a nasty divorce can cost way north of $100,000 in legal fees. Keeping it amicable is a value that you will not regret, particularly where you have a son together.
I’d suggest couples counseling, and see if the relationship can be saved. A good couples counselor can help keep things amicable if there must be a divorce. If he won’t see a couples counselor with you, go alone.
“Not a good enough reason for divorce.”
Think it’s her decision. If her husband is stupid enough to try to censor her in any communication with their son, he deserves it.
We have enough censorship and suppression of truth as it is. Why suffer with it at home?
Your husband will be dead soon enough. Problem solved.
Is that what happened to you? Your comment was so real like.
Yes I would divorce over it,however if you are having unprotected sex he may have already given you shed vax
His telling me not to write about certain topics to our son?
Do it. The vid vaxx will eventually turn him into a zombie.
I am anti-shot (it doesn’t qualify as a true vaccine, at least not the ones currently available).
If my wife secretly got the shot things would be cold. I would accept that she did it. She cannot force me to do such a thing, so that is not an issue.
There are people who I know that are just as conservative as I am, as religious, and in general more virtuous. They believe the wrong sources, some are naive, some are getting pressured. My Canadian wife is facing the very real possibility of never being able to see her mother again (neither will take a shot).
I am not going to write off 25% of my otherwise conservative friends, including the President (not a personal friend, of course, but you know...)
Nothing stops you from informing your son about Ft. Benning. He is a grown man and deserves the information if he hasn’t gotten it himself already.
In sickness and in health, till death do you part. Weakness is related to health. There’d be very few marriages left if any one act of stubborn stupidity dissolved a union. (things like adultery and heroin addiction can be single acts, but are far more grave, and attack the corpus of the union)
I will not get the shot, but I don’t think it’s worth divorcing over.
They are going to force your son to get it.
If you do not want it, do not get it.
All of us that don’t will have obstacles thrown in our way, though.
And this has what to do with you and your husbands beef?
Being single sucks at times. One income household, am responsible for ALL bills, house, yard, maintenance, rehab instead of home when I have surgery because I live alone, can’t reach the ceiling lights to change the bulbs, etc. etc. Don’t divorce. He’s needed.
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