Posted on 08/24/2021 4:43:39 PM PDT by Scarpetta
My husband of 20 years got the "vax" in order to travel for work. He was not resistant to the jab. In fact, he gladly took it. He has repeatedly told me I'm foolish for not getting the shot. I am heathly and hale and have weighed my options. I will not take it ... ever.
He told me to not mention the mandatory vaccine being foisted on military personnel in a letter to my son in basic training at Fort Benning. I told him to go eff himself. I can't stay married to a man this weak minded.
I can't believe I am with a man who is telling me to watch what I write to our son. I can't believe he thinks this "vax" is legit. I will dissolve this marriage before I let anyone stick a needle in my body.
LOL
Exceptions to a rule do negate the rule.
The fact is this is the real world and the risks are real and the consequence of getting scammed and ruined for men in marriage are very, ver real and very very high.
80% of divoces initiated by women. That is real. Half of all first marriages end in divorce, and its progressively higher for 2nd and 3rd mariages. That is real. Men generally are not anyones concern in divorce prceedings. That is real. Alimony and chld support turn men into literal indentured servants that can be sent to prison for nonpayment, debtors prison. That is real. If they were still married but just unemployed/broke, they would not face prison. That insanity is real.
The risks to men are extremely real. Your marriage not ending in her divorcing you is 50/50, a coin flip. Taking into account what the statistics are about something is common sense and crucial to proper risk assessment to make sound decisions, especially when such negative conseuquences are resevered for you as a man.
Sounds like there are bigger issues than a shot in the arm.
You think none of the other recruits have parents,? He’ll find out. If he’s in, it may be too late to do anything about it anyway. He may be vaxxed before basic ends.
Please find a way to calm down. Can you see the good in him in other areas of life? Please be patient, as God is patient with the dark or stubborn parts of your character. Your husband is a work in progress, as are you. Forgive him, or work towards it. Can you imagine trying to explain to your son that you are breaking up the family over this? It is so not worth it. You need to show him that adults can cope with each other and with adverse circumstances. Because someday he may have a spouse and a son, himself.
Saying a prayer for you now.
Ignore him. Do want you want and write what you want .
I don’t agree with a lot of things my wife thinks, but I can’t leave her.
She knows too much.
Especially where my money is…
“You should yield to your husband, listen to him and pray for him to lead you and guide your family”
No man who would expect the woman he promised to love AND protect to take a demonstrably dangerous vaccine is worth an ounce of warm spit.
“You should yield to your husband, listen to him and pray for him to lead you and guide your family.”
In a perfect world, in a Christian home where both are wholly and equally submitted to Christ, that works. That’s about 10% of marriages. If her commitment to God is greater than his, if her knowledge of Scripture is greater than his, if he’s actively working against a Christian home, the whole “yield” thing isn’t going to happen. (I wouldn’t yield to a drunken sot, or a bum who refused to work, or an abuser.) Definitely pray for him.
I notice that she never said he DEMANDS that she get the clot shot, so he’s got that going for him.
But dictating what she may or may not discuss with her own son is pretty bad.
Considering divorce at this moment (unless there’s abuse or unfaithfulness) is premature. God could turn things around for the country, and this whole vaccine issue could be just a bad memory a year from now. Rash decisions now might be regrets in the not-too-distant future.
Or how would you like to live as wife number two or three or more like the Mormons?
Do what is best for you.
Yield to you’r Husband? WOW
He told you to censor information to your own son? Seems you married a cowardly liberal monster.
Yield to the husband??? lol. Happy wife happy life.
My wife is licensed healthcare. They demanded the death jab...she resigned! F’em! She has a new job already in Florida. Loads of people are resigning from idiot liberal companies making medical directives. I supported her 100 %.
“One might suggest that you enter counseling and try to work things out, without taking the jab yourself.”
Counseling is available to the non-vaxxed until it’s not.
The left could not have come up with a better tactic to divide the nation.
The Civil War was brother against brother sometimes.
This is now sunk to spouse against spouse and FReeper against FReeper in less than six months.
The unvaxed are the new Jews and it’s 1936.
Trust The Science? CDC Counts People Dying Within 14 Days Of Jab As “Unvaccinated”
August 24, 2021
https://freerepublic.com/focus/f-news/3988547/posts
Just so we're clear - if the jab kills you within 14 days, the pro-vaxxers get to use that as propaganda. 
Exactly.
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