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To: fatima; NanaDory8; Starstruck; Pathfinder; BlessedBeGod; JoeFromSidney; LUV W; ...
Considering what I have gone through and with more upcoming surgery, I guess it is not unusual to think about death. I once wrote an whole screenplay about death titled "A Funeral for Paulie." It had Paulie leaving a CD of songs he wanted played at his funeral that told his life. And as the songs played flashbacks told the story of Paulie's life.

I ever did the same thing back some fifteen, twenty years ago when I underwent my first serious surgery. I was just at the age my Father had died, so I was sure it was my time, but I didn't go. So as it seems, neither Paulie's nor my CDs got played.

For the best, I guess, as no one wants to sit through 90 minutes of songs. So as if to boil it down to one, if there has to be a song played at my funeral or memorial, I would want it to be "The Rainbow Connection" as the lyrics hit the spot as I see it this day:

“Why are there so many
songs about rainbows
And what's on the other side?
Rainbows are visions,
but only illusions
And rainbows have
nothing to hide
So we've been told,
and some choose to believe it
I know they're wrong,
wait and see
Someday we'll find it,
the rainbow connection
The lovers, the dreamers,
and me

“Who said that every wish
would be heard and answered
When wished on the morning star?
Somebody thought of that,
and someone believed it
Look what it's done so far
What's so amazing
that keeps us stargazing
And what do we think we might see?
Someday we'll find it,
the rainbow connection
The lovers, the dreamers,
and me

“All of us under its spell
We know that it's probably magic

“Have you been half asleep,
and have you heard voices?
I've heard them calling my name
Is this the sweet sound
that calls the young sailors?
The voice might be one and the same
I've heard it too many times to ignore it
It's something that I'm supposed to be
Someday we'll find it,
the rainbow connection
The lovers, the dreamers,
and me--

From Youtube is the video if you had rather hear it at https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jS5fTzMP_mg

210 posted on 05/10/2020 3:20:19 PM PDT by Bender2 ("I've got a twisted sense of humor, and everything amuses me." RAH Beyond this Horizon)
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To: Bender2

Been wondering how you were doing. You are still in my prayers every day, right after my kids and just before my preacher.

Don’t be giving up on us, now. Keep drinking those milkshakes or whatever and stay strong.


211 posted on 05/10/2020 3:35:13 PM PDT by Cincinnatus.45-70 (What do DemocRats enjoy more than a truckload of dead babies? Unloading them with a pitchfork!)
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To: Bender2

Thanks Bender2...I’m still cheering, and praying for you every day.


212 posted on 05/10/2020 3:45:59 PM PDT by mass55th ("Courage is being scared to death, but saddling up anyway." ~~ John Wayne)
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To: Bender2

Praying for you, Bender2!


214 posted on 05/10/2020 3:55:42 PM PDT by left that other site (If you do not stand firm in your faith, you will not stand at all. (Isaiah 7:9))
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To: Bender2
Now more than 18 months since my diagnosis. It wasn't good. Ureteral Cancer, one to two years. The cancer had spread to my lung, liver, and lymph nodes. I was hooked up with Sloan's expert for this sort of thing. I had six rounds of chemo which ended about 14 months ago. It eliminated all of the metastases. A week from Monday I'm scheduled for surgery to eliminate the original cancerous growth.

ML/NJ

215 posted on 05/10/2020 4:40:04 PM PDT by ml/nj
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To: Bender2

A Special Performance of “Rainbow Connection” from Kermit the Frog | The Muppets
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jS5fTzMP_mg


216 posted on 05/10/2020 6:04:09 PM PDT by fatima (Free Hugs Today :))
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To: Bender2
Always loved that song too. Hugs and love to you. Prayers up to.❤🙏❤
218 posted on 05/10/2020 6:14:14 PM PDT by TianaHighrider (God bless President Trump)
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To: Bender2

You are going through the worst with Chemo right now.I BELIeVE YOU CAN MAKE IT.(((((Hugs))))
It’s here Friend-He gave up.
Eric Clapton, Luciano Pavarotti, East London Gospel Choir - Holy Mother (Live)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x9uYu4R2nk8


219 posted on 05/10/2020 6:14:52 PM PDT by fatima (Free Hugs Today :))
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To: Bender2

That’s a good selection, and it may strike a chord in others’ hearts and minds as they hear it here and then.

A few years ago I was asked to help a deceased friend’s brother with the funeral planning. A number of songs were played before the funeral as people arrived. They weren’t loud or intrusive. For those in the foyer gathering, greeting, consoling and grieving, it faded into the background. And for those sitting quietly in the chapel it provided something relevant of the friend to consider.

But as I hear those some of those songs now and again I still think of that day.

Stay strong.


220 posted on 05/10/2020 6:15:16 PM PDT by a fool in paradise (Joe Biden- "First thing I'd do is repeal those Trump tax cuts." (May 4th, 2019))
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To: Bender2

I know that song! It is beautiful, and of course, Kermit sang it :) Big Muppet show fans here at Tatt’s house.
Might you be willing to share a few of the other titles - if you have a few minutes, and a good internet connection ;)

Prayers lifting for more rainbows, and more people to appreciate them.
Tatt


221 posted on 05/10/2020 6:48:08 PM PDT by thesearethetimes... (Had I brought Christ with me, the outcome would have been different. Dr.Eric Cunningham)
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To: Bender2

I am still praying for you. God’s blessings


222 posted on 05/10/2020 8:29:38 PM PDT by Glennb51
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To: Bender2

Lord Jesus Christ, be with Thy servant in the hour of his trial.

In the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Ghost, amen.


223 posted on 05/11/2020 5:53:54 AM PDT by annalex (fear them not)
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To: Bender2
🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
224 posted on 05/11/2020 6:09:27 AM PDT by big'ol_freeper (If your opponent is of choleric temper, irritate him. ~ Sun Tzu)
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To: Bender2

“Lala Land” did very well, I think your screenplay could have worked.


226 posted on 05/13/2020 4:40:19 PM PDT by Impy (I have no virtue to signal.)
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