Posted on 02/10/2019 6:56:27 PM PST by EdnaMode
Oh, God, another Asian girl/white boy couple, I groan, dropping my fiancés hand.
He hates it when I do this. So do I, really. I know its unkind and self-loathing, but every time I see another couple of our racial makeup, a little part of me sinks. We live in San Francisco, so this dip is as common as the hills. In these moments, I wish we were anything else ― that he were my gay best friend or we were startup co-founders, that he were Asian and I were white, that we were exquisitely ambiguous races, or that I could sink like my feelings into the sidewalk, be a little worm, and date whomever I want without considering social perception.
Shame is neither the wisest nor most mature part of oneself, but it still has a voice. Stop it you guys! my shame wants to say to these other couples. Cant you see the more of us there are, the worse it looks?
It meaning the prevalent trend of Asian women seeming to end up with white men. It meaning the perpetuation of Asian fetish.
The first time I heard the term Asian fetish, I was the only Chinese kid in a tiny school. Other students in my class had been pairing up to date since fifth grade, exchanging love notes and making each other Alanis Morissette mixtapes. I waited for my Jagged Little Pill cassette, but nothing came in fifth grade. Or sixth. Or seventh. Or eighth.
(Excerpt) Read more at huffingtonpost.com ...
Yes. I date a pretty, young Chinese girl who graduated from Cornell for a shot time. She blamed her periods of insane rage on PMS. I’m quite sure she was bipolar. She took pleasure in denouncing my faults. Being a Reaganite was a big one. When not crazed, she was quite pleasant.
Although she prided herself on being a liberal feminist, her parents owned a sweat shop in Brooklyn. She saw nothing wrong with it.
Why did the relationship persist for a while? The food and sex was good.
Asians can be extremely racist.
PuffingtonHost.
“1. They keep themselves fit
2. They generally look younger than they are
3. They are smart, hard working and well behaved
4. They generally avoid the Feminist nonsense
5. They know how to treat a man”
All true although the author seems badly broken.
I just said that!
...because you listened to your wife...
All true although the author seems badly broken.
I think it is definitely true for those “off the boat” after their formative years. If they were born and/or largely raised in the US, all bets are off.
At least as far as I was able to get before I retched.
This is journalism?
This is what passes as reality for damned dumb ass liberals?
Sucks to be progressive.
So am I. She voted for DU30 too. Two things I can say about most Philippine women, that I think does not apply to other Asian women, is they generally dont care about looks and age differences. I will not say how much younger my wife is, just that she is younger. Eat your hearts out brothers. 😁👍 They are usually content to be a woman, and let the man be a man, and value family above all. However, if anyone thinks they are submissive and allow a man to walk all over them, they have probably never had a Filipina. 😆
Looks like he lost...
I’m not sure anybody’s mentioned the biggest put-off: Never mind the culture of color (white for him, whatever they assign her these days): SanFran is by far off-putting.
I did read a study about inter racial dating one time years and years ago. It had to do with muscle mass of the women. Men want women softer than they are and women want men stronger. Black women have too much, so black men will look at white women, white men turn to Asian women. Black women and Asian men being at the opposite ends of that spectrum were less attractive to members of other races and thus were less likely to date inter racially
Extreme feminism is driving men andv women farther apart. But, male dominance is also prevalent. All energy chooses the path of least resistance electricity, hydraulics, pneumatic, or love. One must insure they keep the conductors in good repair and maintain a go barrier of isolation from outside damage.
Hot Latin blood don't hold a candle to a pissed off Filipina asawa.
As much as it upsets me, I cannot break her of walking behind me in my blind spot at Walmart ... just something about her, I guess.
And one more ... she outworks most men one on one and a few twofers.
If you are going to marry an Asian woman DO NOT marry one raised in the USA.
If that's her fiance..and he agreed to pose for this picture knowing about this article...her apron strings won't allow him to get far. He's toast and he doesn't even know it.
True bro. I have learned one thing, however. Make sure you get a dependable guy, if you get your house renovated. 👍
White Man needs to disengage from “Asian” woman.
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