Posted on 09/28/2018 10:13:07 AM PDT by Rustybucket
An unpopular read on Ms. Cristine Blasey Ford, and how she dealt with Kavanaugh.
If you have ever (not just you, but anybody) dealt with a person, male or female, that has had life long abuse, life long counseling, you recognize immediately that your dealing with an expert on the subject, they have played the counseling game for so long, that they know the script.
They are experts at evasion. Compound that with the fact that she dedicated her life and career to psychology, and in fact became a teacher and professor in the field, tells the reader important facts about the person who represses this memory for 35+ years.
She is a control freak who thinks nobody knows or can tell her how to fix or deal with her problem, so begins a life long study in healing herself.
Of course, this is doomed to failure, but a compulsive personality will never admit that. They use charm, and wit, victim hood, and deflection like a seasoned pro, to get what they want. Living with a person like this is an untenable situation. You want to help, but nothing you do is good enough, as their value is to remain a victim, to them.
What is gained by dealing with, and resolving a trauma to this kind of person? Nothing.
If that were to happen, it would create a huge hole in their lives that would have to be filled with reality, and actual healing.
An obsessive, compulsive person is also a controlling person. They control the people around them, the narrative, the drama. This is so damaging not just to the person, but to those around them. The result is that they have distant friends. Those who can tolerate being around them for short periods of time, but do not want to be brought into the drama, as most people are not equipped to deal with it on a permanent basis.
Next, add a PHD to the mix, and she becomes an authority on the subject, she knows the patter, she knows the buzz words, she can easily lay low the less educated, and I saw in her testimony hints of disdain, or outright rejection for those who would question her story line.
When confronted with the overwhelming contradicting evidence of those who were supposedly there, she impeached the witnesses, or minimize them, or made convincing reasons why they answered as they did.
What you get to the outsider is a true victim, who deserves your sympathy, with the feeling that something happened to this person, but it seems they have the wrong aggressor. You don’t know why, and feel that somehow your a bad person for feeling that way. It part of their game. And unless you have lived it, you see no defense that would be acceptable to others.
She is a permanent professional victim. I don’t know if she is still married, but I did not see a husband, I have not seen supporting children, and most importantly the friends I have seen talking on YouTube fall right into the category I have described, distant, concerned, but not overly involved.
You cannot win with a person who does not care about winning, her entire support structure, is in large part herself. I would have felt sorry for her plight, except that I know this kind of person, and that would have required me to buy into her drama, been there, done that, and I will never again live thru it again.
As for how Kavanaugh dealt with her personally, he had no other choice but to acknowledge her pain, and use evidence to protect himself. At no point was she, IMO, seeking healing, or an end to her self imposed torment. I feel sorry for her in that regard.
Her grandma likely died of embarrassment.
It sounds like she moved around rather than stayed in one place (i.e. her parent’s) during the weeks she was in the DC area. In fact, she admits she was staying at the airport hotel when doing the polygraph. Who wouldn’t be staying with the family during grandma’s furneral?
As far as I know, her husband has only give on interview that’s been published. Otherwise, he’s been invisible. Kavanaugh walked in and out with his spouse. That didn’t happen with Ford. If at all wise, Mr. Ford was at his attorney’s office preparing divorce and child custody papers.
If at all wise, Mr. Ford was at his attorney’s office preparing divorce and child custody papers.
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Cali community property means he could get half of the nearly $500K gofund accounts, which are probably still growing.
And who knows all the members’ deep dark secrets and access to their business and personal dealings? The club’s president.
Who was President of the Country Club?
I’ve dealt with a family member who is a habitual liar. They do indeed suck the life out of you. Thankfully, because I refused to continue to play the game, they took themselves out of my life. Huge life changing burden off my shoulders.
That should give him motivation.
Well now, seems two funds, redditters have found a few others, have raise $700k plus.
From ABCnews.go.com
More than $700,000 has been donated to Dr. Christine Blasey Ford through a number of GoFundMe campaigns set up on her behalf.
At least two GoFundMe sites associated with Ford’s name were set up earlier this month to help support Ford as she traveled to Washington, D.C. to testify before the Senate Judiciary Committee.
Who wants to be a millionaire?
Money Laundering from the dems?
Not discussed here, yet, is their real estate holdings on two homes, netting over 5 million dollars. Oh, and the house that has two front doors she talked about? Its a rental property that she does not live in. I would love a link to her husbands interview.
You selected a good way to escape, if you do not play with a succubus, they tend to go away.
You know, this is all info that comes from shlubs like us using the internet. If we could find that why can’t the GOP Senators or their staffers? Moles?
We’ve seen photos of Feinstein pinning Murkowski against the wall with Murkowski cowering, looking like the shylocks strong arm man has come to collect the vig.
FFFFFn-Flake wandering into corridor caucuses with Dems playing the Paul Ryan game of catch me FFFFFme.
A Reckoning is going to come...can’t come soon enough.
Excellent point, but, they have to deal with corroborative, evidence, hard copy, vetting witnesses, rejecting unsubstantiated moles, etc. Business licensing had to go thru FOIA scrutiny, all takes time, costs money, needs permission, some need warrants to be admissible evidence. A lot harder to get usable evidence. General Google info and reporting on FR with links is not necessarily admissible evidence.
The info we share paints with a broad brush and is for our use. It could be a roadmap for FBI info, but I am sure they know about this stuff. NCIS sure does, wouldn’t you love the tech they show on TV...LOL
I keep hearing she has a degree in psychology, but not much information on what she actually did or what she has published .
Has any reporters checked the data base of professional journals to see what she has published? most academic professors working at universities are expected to publish to keep their jobs
Its all right here
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Christine_Blasey_Ford
Alot is not there, but most is available. She had co-authored several books. She is in bed with morning after birth control pill manufacturers, and works for them as a consultant. It is a medicine that is also used for medicating psych patients. Interesting reading.
Hell, the info about the houses and huge mortagages comes straight from public records, as does much of the rest. Investigation means you check all leads with the most obvious and pertinent ones first...especially those that go to motive, not nebulous 6 part telegraph, I heard from .. Who heard from... Who know some one who....
Then again, corrupt FLEOs...’nuf said.
Ford's PhD ThesisMeasuring Young Children's
Coping Responses to
Interpersonal Conflict
Did you write this? Excellent analysis.
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