Posted on 02/16/2018 11:31:46 AM PST by nickcarraway
Man transitions back from being a woman after changing his mind several months later and moves in with ex wife and her new partner
A father-of-two who transitioned to be a woman after eight years of marriage is transitioning back to being a man after just seven months.
James Cohen, 36, told his wife, Eirian, 36, that he wanted to become a woman after claiming hed hidden his gender secret since he was a child.
But James, who is now known as Jim by family and friends after ditching his female name, Kara, has thrown out his blonde wig, dresses and high heels.
Despite the couples marriage ending as a result of Jimmys first transition, Eirian has stood by him every step of the way and claims the pair are now best friends.
Jim, who now has short brown hair and a beard, has recently moved to Portugal with Eirian and now lives with his two daughters and her new partner.
The pair, from Leeds, who have been subjected to online bullies are now trying to educate those who do not understand gender identity issues.
Eirian said: It was a huge shock when James told me he wanted to be known as Kara.
Wed forked out privately for him to have hormone treatment straight away so it was a shock when seven months later he told me that he no longer wanted to look like a woman.
He decided in July last year that he didnt want to appear female any longer.
Jim stopped wearing his blonde wig, dresses and heels and instead grew a beard. But I did my best to support him, after all we had eight happy years of marriage and two daughters, Electra, seven, and Seren, eight, together.
Our girls had accepted that their daddy was turning a woman, weve explained everything to them in a way they understand.
They dont mind if he had a beard or wears a dress, kids arent born with prejudices, thats something they learn.
I have done nothing but support Jim from the start and despite being confused myself at first, I have accepted his recent transition and have started calling him Jim.
Jim is now the happiest he has ever been, he has no regrets about transitioning into a woman and feels lighter for having explored his feminine side after keeping it repressed for all those years.
Ive had online trolls accusing us of lying about Jim being trans because he know has short hair and a beard but what they dont realise is that people can be gender fluid, we never let them get to us anyway.
We receive so many positive messages and my businesses are doing really well.
Mental illness here.
There’s a wonderfully descripting word for what’s missing in most of these peoples lives...STANDARDS
Make it up as you go along morality is destined for sadness and failure
Effing horrible.
IOW, insane people are still insane.
Moves in W/ Ex & Her Partner
100% crazy.
Those poor little girls.
Oh, those poor little girls. Prayers.
Bob Rivers had no idea how prescient he'd be when this song came out.
Doc, I know its late tonight but please return my call ASAP. You see, I want my penis back. Call any time. Thanks.
And society celebrates this sickest form of mental illness.
Nonsense. They would simply agree with anything in order to please their parents.
He is still ‘lit up’. Over focused on his feelings of each and every moment.
What kind of man are these girls going to date in the future?
Cue that old song by The Loving Spoonful:
“Did you ever have to make up your mind?”
It’s just selfishness.
Probably a Moslem.
Think of those little girls and their understanding of “gender fluidity.” Ugh.
Very perceptive. You’re probably right.
Sharia; when you want zero ambiguity.
Well said.
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