Posted on 05/11/2017 10:02:05 PM PDT by BJ1
At the end of the day, most men just want a woman who’s nice. “Nice,” to a man, means being soft, gentle and kind. It means asking your husband how his day was and really listening. It means doing something nice for him with no expectation of getting something in return—you know, the way you did when you were dating. But wait a minute, you say. Don’t women want the same thing? A man who’s nice? Not exactly. Most women do want a man who’s kind, but that’s not the same as nice. Ask any guy you know, and he’ll likely give you example after example of women they know who said they wanted a nice guy but in reality wanted a bad boy. That’s because just as most men are attracted to femininity, or softness, most women are attracted to masculinity. And masculinity is hard. Gruff. Take charge. So, where are you on the nice scale? If you’re not an inherently nice person, believe me I get it. I think I’m pretty nice, but that isn’t the first word one would think of to describe me. The truth is, I’ve had to exercise my nice muscle. Now Playing Author shares marriage advice for 'alpha females' Never autoplay videos I’ve had to learn how to be be nice. A lot of women think they’re nice because they act nice. But acting nice and being nice are two different things. Being nice means you think of others before you think about yourself. (And yes, there’s such thing as being too nice and putting your needs last; but I’m not talking about that.) It means you’re attune to the needs of others and incorporate those needs into the equation. Most husbands have no desire to lord over their wives....
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You don’t understand the concept.
“You don’t understand the concept.”
What concept?
I think you missed mine, too. Recieving Christ makes us a new creation - a creation that eventually matures enough to understand that this life is not about us, but about how we treat others.
But I’m sincerely glad that you have found someone you are able to love and be happy with. Blessings.
If you could comprehend what you read, you would be able to tell that I told you in the post that I identified with the CHARACTER, not the man. Andy Griffith the man is a disappointing liberal.
Go rain on someone else’s parade, I’ve got plenty of umbrellas, including the two outstanding sons I raised due to understanding how to treat them - in part, due to Andy TAYLOR.
That’s an alpha male.
Sounds like an NBA male. :)
It took you 2 weeks to reply?
Other things to do. Haven’t logged in for quite a while.
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