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Woman mistaken for transgender harassed in Walmart bathroom
newstimes.com ^ | May 16, 2016 | Matt DeRienzo

Posted on 05/28/2016 10:21:49 AM PDT by Morgana

DANBURY - Aimee Toms was washing her hands in the women’s bathroom at Walmart in Danbury Friday when a stranger approached her and said, “You’re disgusting!” and “You don’t belong here!”

After momentary confusion, she realized that the woman next to her thought - because of her pixie-style haircut and baseball cap - that she was transgender.

Besides being a pretty normal choice of style for women, Toms’ has a short haircut because she recently donated hair - for the third time - to a program that makes wigs for child cancer patients.

“I’ve had people call me all sorts of names for having short hair. I’ve had people call me a boy, I’ve had people call me a dyke, I’ve had people call me gay.” Toms said. “I’m grateful that that woman only called me disgusting and didn’t physically attack me … I was a victim of transphobia today as a cisgender female because my hair is short.”

Toms said she was supportive of transgender rights before Friday’s Walmart experience. She is close friends with several transgender people, including someone she went to high school with who went from prom queen to identifying as a male.

She thought her video would be seen only by friends and family, and was surprised to soon be getting messages of support from people “all across the country.”

(Excerpt) Read more at newstimes.com ...


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KEYWORDS: cisgender; connecticut; fraud; homosexualagenda; ntsa; unisex; walmart
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To: BookmanTheJanitor

So genders are isomers?


21 posted on 05/28/2016 10:36:24 AM PDT by NonValueAdded (JFK Wanted To Send Man To Moon - Obama Wants To Send Man To Ladies Room)
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To: Dilbert San Diego

There are some women, even if wearing a dress and high heels, that might be mistaken for a man dressing as a woman. This is the problem with this bathroom policing stuff. Who is going to check and how?

I don’t know how to get past this problem.


22 posted on 05/28/2016 10:36:27 AM PDT by Lorianne
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To: Morgana

What people are witnessing is a social revolution in that those that were outcasts(criminals, perverts etc.)and those who did not even belong to white Western European Society(i.e. blacks and Asians, etc.) are now elevated into positions of authority. Naturally such people will seek to impose their “greatest goods”upon the rest of us-(who are moving into the status of conquered people.)


23 posted on 05/28/2016 10:37:25 AM PDT by AEMILIUS PAULUS
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To: Dilbert San Diego

This girl goes out of her way to have a boyish or mannish appearance


A real case of needing to read the excerpt before posting.

“Toms’ has a short haircut because she recently donated hair - for the third time - to a program that makes wigs for child cancer patients. “


24 posted on 05/28/2016 10:38:03 AM PDT by sparklite2 ( "The white man is the Jew of Liberal Fascism." -Jonah Goldberg)
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To: Morgana

"....here come the lawyers"

25 posted on 05/28/2016 10:38:10 AM PDT by Doogle (( USAF.68-73..8th TFW Ubon Thailand..never store a threat you should have eliminated))
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To: SkyDancer
No, like her! reporter helen thomas photo: Helen Thomas ahhhhwtf.jpg
26 posted on 05/28/2016 10:39:19 AM PDT by Morgana ( Always a bit of truth in dark humor.)
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To: Tax-chick

Photo needed to determine “Cisgender”.


27 posted on 05/28/2016 10:40:29 AM PDT by gigster (Cogito, Ergo, Ronaldus Magnus headsConservatus)
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To: Lorianne

I don’t know how to get past this problem.


Looks like we’ll have to fine tune our gaydars.
I think most of us could spot a guy going female,
but a female going guy is harder. Victor Victoria
comes to mind.


28 posted on 05/28/2016 10:40:50 AM PDT by sparklite2 ( "The white man is the Jew of Liberal Fascism." -Jonah Goldberg)
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To: SoCal Pubbie; Morgana

Correct. Actually comes from chemistry terms relating to the shape of organic compound isomers.


29 posted on 05/28/2016 10:42:14 AM PDT by Olog-hai
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To: Tax-chick

I am mystified too. I have had very short hair (think Judith Dench style) for 25yrs. I have only ever gotten compliments and/or requests for the name of my hair stylist.

I have never been called names or been mistaken for a man. I also live in levis and t-shirts.

Lots of people jumping on the victim wagon.


30 posted on 05/28/2016 10:42:33 AM PDT by Duchess47 ("One day I will leave this world and dream myself to Reality" Crazy Horse)
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To: Morgana

Eeek!


31 posted on 05/28/2016 10:44:10 AM PDT by SkyDancer ("They Say That Nobody's Perfect But Yet Here I Am")
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To: sparklite2

““Toms’ has a short haircut because she recently donated hair - for the third time - to a program that makes wigs for child cancer patients. “”

I know a lot of people who have done this. They’ve never once had this problem however.

I know a lot of women who have very short hair and have never been called what she said she was called in the bathroom at walmart.

Personally I think this whole thing is another hoax.


32 posted on 05/28/2016 10:44:42 AM PDT by Morgana ( Always a bit of truth in dark humor.)
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To: sparklite2

Sure, if you believe that excuse.


33 posted on 05/28/2016 10:44:50 AM PDT by Olog-hai
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To: gigster

34 posted on 05/28/2016 10:45:36 AM PDT by Olog-hai
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To: Morgana
Sooooooo why does she not just say “I’m a girl”? Why this whole cisgender nonsense?

"Cisgender" means you identify with the gender you were born as and you are sexually attracted to the opposite sex.

It is what we used to call "normal" but we can't say "normal" anymore because this implies that everyone else is abnormal.

Ain't newspeak fun!

35 posted on 05/28/2016 10:45:44 AM PDT by Drew68
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To: gigster

36 posted on 05/28/2016 10:46:55 AM PDT by Right Brother
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To: Drew68

“It is what we used to call “normal” but we can’t say “normal” anymore because this implies that everyone else is abnormal.”

Okay thank you!! Still there is something NOT NORMAL about her.


37 posted on 05/28/2016 10:47:02 AM PDT by Morgana ( Always a bit of truth in dark humor.)
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To: Morgana
She is close friends with several transgender people

Of course she is.

Dollars to donuts this event never happened.

38 posted on 05/28/2016 10:47:04 AM PDT by Drew68
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To: Dilbert San Diego

A hip transgender activist who shops at Walmart? And she just happened to use the restroom at the same time as another woman who is at the opposite end of the political spectrum and who is in your face confrontational?

Please. This is faker than fake.


39 posted on 05/28/2016 10:47:23 AM PDT by NorthstarMom (God says debt is a curse and children are a blessing, yet we apply for loans and prevent pregnancy.)
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To: Morgana

Walmart? Um . . . This is a dog licks its own walnuts story.


40 posted on 05/28/2016 10:48:48 AM PDT by StAntKnee (Add your own danged sarc tag)
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