Can’t blame the men. Between women giving it up to a man because he said, “hi” and the courts taking him to the cleaners and making him financially responsible for children that weren’t his, because the wife had them with somebody else.
Why would a man marry?
the biggest turner is losing 50% of your wealth after getting married then divorced and your wife contributed little or nothing to it
Like I said before on another thread, women used to trade sex for love and a lifetime of caring and commitment, now they trade it for a meal, a drink, or just to kill a few hours. They don’t understand how brutally strong the male sex drive is. many will get it when and where they can in today’s society.
In my mother’s times, the women had a scheme...If none of them had sex before marriage then the guy would marry his girlfriend and really cherish sex with her. Plus, there would be not other place to get it. That scheme worked well.
Then feminism came about...and I cant count anymore the number of girls I know who were devastated that they slept with a guy and he didn’t call them back or they had an abortion and it tormented them for life.
I wont do it (again). Seen too many guys burned by the system.
I wont do it (again). Seen too many guys burned by the system.
Now concerning the things whereof ye wrote unto me: It is good for a man not to touch a woman. Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband. Let the husband render unto the wife due benevolence: and likewise also the wife unto the husband. The wife hath not power of her own body, but the husband: and likewise also the husband hath not power of his own body, but the wife. Defraud ye not one the other, except it be with consent for a time, that ye may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again, that Satan tempt you not for your incontinency. But I speak this by permission, and not of commandment. For I would that all men were even as I myself. But every man hath his proper gift of God, one after this manner, and another after that. I say therefore to the unmarried and widows, it is good for them if they abide even as I. But if they cannot contain, let them marry: for it is better to marry than to burn.
Exactly.
Just find a woman you hate and buy her a house.
I think you really have to commit to something much higher than your own feelings, which are, after all, fleeing, or your own self-interest, individually considered.
I am blessed to be in a happy marriage with a wonderful husband, but I don't want to come off as "triumphal' towards those who are less fortunate. I can just say that the mercy of God has kept us together, We both agreed sincerely at the outset that divorce would not even be a possibility: so we're motivated to live in peace and to work things out. And we have enjoyed a true love and trust worth living for. You have to commit to God and to your children.
Exactly. Men are only making rational choices, and opting out. The institution has been so watered down. Plus the laws that were once meant to protect women have gone completely overboard and saddled men with burdens and obligations they should not be responsible for. So if they have second thoughts about entering into a legal contract where they forfeit half of their income and property, why blame them?
To help defend Western civilization.
The homosexuals and their temporary islamist allies are winning.
B-I-N-G-O