What happens when the woman of your dreams is a nightmare?

Apr 23, 2008 | By Lazamataz

[Malacoda]

Oh, Laz. I am so, so sorry. I'll keep you in my prayers.

And I agree with the above -- count your blessings that she did not drag you back into the horror of active addiction.

[Lazamataz]

Now all the suicide pics make sense. Hang in there brother, Jesus Christ saves, if you let Him.

[Dick Vomer]

[gathersnomoss]

Good, now save yourself. Please. Look at it this way, you are a very lucky man. This is the beginning of a fantastic life. Don’t look back.

[Lazamataz]

[Antoninus]

Good gosh, Laz. What a horrible story.

My theory of life has always been, if you truly want to be a good person, surround yourself with better people.

This poor soul is clearly a train wreck. Aside from calling child protective services and having her thrown in jail where she might clean up, here's nothing more you can do than pray for her.

I'll pray for her--and you--too.

May Almighty God bless and strengthen you.

[Lazamataz]

I love you. Marry me.

[Fishrrman]

“A friend of mine is compiling a list of “get to know you” questions that he’s having his sons and daughters discuss with any future mate before they get emotionally committed. Sounds like a good strategy, in conjunction with group settings for meeting people”

Perhaps your friend might be willing to disclose those questions from his work-in-progress?

I’d like to see what they are....

- John

[Antoninus]

I hate drugs. And I say we should continue the fight. Is it expensive? Hell, yeah. But a far sight cheaper than building hospitals and prisons for the millions of new addicts that we would have if we abandoned our principles and let the pushers win.

I agree 100%. Easier access to drugs will lead to thousands if not millions of more cases exactly like this one.

Drugs are of the devil and addiction is a prelude to hell.

[Tatze]

Hey Laz, long time no chat.

Things were going so well for you when we were at WTP. Sorry this had to happen. On the bright side, you got out before she took you down with her.

[stevio]

Riiiiight.

[Moonman62]

You could be married to a good, conservative, level-headed spouse one day, and wake up months later and discover they’ve become a moonbat.

I think this usually happens when a new friend shows up. And then you never know when the time bomb is going to go off. As Rodney used to say, my problem is I can't relax.

[El Cid]

Prayers for you and for your friend.

We are all basket cases, and prone to fall into the abyss of sin and destruction.
We need to read Genesis 3 about our first parents, and understand that we've all inherited the disease that they fell into -- but magnified and mutated over the generations:
'Eve saw that it was good for food, pleasant to the eye, and something to be desired to make one wise...' and her husband Adam went along and chose to follow 'mankind' rather than God'. So yes, we all have a tendency to look at something from its outside appearances and imagine that it'll be really good for us. We all are attracted by the things that sparkle. We all want to go our own ways - and not the path which God has shown us. We all feel the tug of the world - and don't walk in the light of God's Word.
But we have to remember that even though Adam and Eve had disobeyed, and thus had justly received the condemnation of death and banishment from the Garden - God remembered them: 'Unto Adam and his wife, the Lord God made coats of skins, and clothed them'...He did not leave them alone.
We are all sinners - come to Jesus just as you are and rest on Him. He is our covering, and He'll gladly cover our sins by His Righteousness.
He'll get you through the storms of life.

Romans 5
1 Therefore being justified by faith, we have peace with God through our Lord Jesus Christ:
2 By whom also we have access by faith into this grace wherein we stand, and rejoice in hope of the glory of God.
3 And not only so, but we glory in tribulations also: knowing that tribulation worketh patience;
4 And patience, experience; and experience, hope:
5 And hope maketh not ashamed; because the love of God is shed abroad in our hearts by the Holy Ghost which is given unto us.
6 For when we were yet without strength, in due time Christ died for the ungodly.

[Fawn]

Wow. I never ever saw a serious post in a thread from you! ....and you post this? I think there is hope for you yet! lol

I also think you need to run as far away from her as possible....before she sucks you in again....because I think you are capable of it. Just learn and run. You can't help her.

[ßuddaßudd]

Laz, she wasn’t meant to be......
Go and dont look back.

[pandoraou812]

Rule #1 - NEVER, EVER DATE A SINGLE MOTHER!!!!!!

Repeat - NEVER, EVER DATE A SINGLE MOTHER!!!!!!

>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> Thats really nasty. My husband took on 5 of my children. 3 were mine & 2 I was raising. They were all teenagers & he stepped right in & helped me. When we were both 41 yrs old we were blessed with our own daughter. Sure we had ups & downs but all of my children love their father & their stepfather. Shaking my head at you! I know many fine men who are able to marry single moms & have no problem at all.

[Lazamataz]

Yup, I remember those days. I wasn't doing quite as well as advertised, but I started doing VERY well thereafter. It was after WT that I met Karen. She seemed great. She was, however, insane.

So, I killed her. She's in the trunk of my car now, never to trouble another soul.

Don' t mess with the Laz.

[cjshapi]

When you say a little sex do you mean something like this?

[Lazamataz]

[Lazamataz]

Midgets. Clowns. Orange Marmalade. Scuba Fins. Trapese Bars.

Our sex-life ROCKS.