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I tend to find that the more guys 'look' for women, the less likely they are to find one.

I've heard many people say this. For many years, I tried to practice it. I now no longer believe it. I think that guys who are "playing the game" for the sake of playing the game are often more successful than guys who truly want to find someone worthwhile. In one sense, they aren't really "looking," but they are going through all of the steps of finding.

What type of things do you enjoy doing for fun?

I've traditionally enjoyed outdoor activities, but I had a problem with the heat in my kayak last year. I've found that the incident has put a pretty big dent in my physical confidence. Right now, I'm having a great deal of fun keeping snakes as pets. I've wanted a pet snake for as long as I can remember. I always put that desire aside because I thought it would be a little too much to ask a woman to adapt to pet snakes. Last year was when I finally decided that I'd never find someone, so I've been giving myself to this new hobby quite a bit.

Bill

I think you have to be aggressive when you meet them, I was referring more to the 'bar going' crowd who seek gals.

Didn't know you were a paddler?? I'm not one for heat/humidity either. I'd prefer frostbite to sunburn.

What type of snakes do you have? I had a Colombian Boa as an undergrad.

Right you like reptiles there must be plenty of women who do.

You say that you are not particularly looking for a Christian lady, why not look at joining a local club or organization which are into reptiles or snakes it may surprise you to find women there to.

As a women I have never held a snake - never had the opportunity but would love to but I am fascinated by them and always visit the reptile house at zoos and see plenty of women there to.

Many women handlers and feeders are apparent as well.

On the other hand my dad has a horror like his mother did of them both my mum and me did not.

Also do not think you have to be the macho successful type to get women to like you often women like a vulnerable man. What they really like is someone who is comfortable in their own skin whether this is the successful sporty type or the more vulnerable not so successful man but someone who can cope with this and does not feel they need to always be striving to look good.