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Dating After Divorce: Venturing into The Dark Abyss
www.elitestv.com ^ | Dr. Hu Fleming

Posted on 10/01/2005 7:36:14 AM PDT by teldon30

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To: scott7278
LOL!

Great graphics, that's a keeper.

I think by now we have lost all the contributing females, and some guys are perpetually clueless.

Yes, that is both ironic and hilarious.

301 posted on 10/02/2005 7:10:08 PM PDT by Publius6961 (Liberal level playing field: If the Islamics win we are their slaves..if we win they are our equals.)
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To: day10

It was 14 months after my husband's death when I met Disaster #1. For the first 12 months after he died, I was a zombie and could not think about anything. Then I seemed to wake up and tried to make a life. I think I was too vulnerable at that time and too afraid of being alone. Otherwise, I don't think I would have been taken in by that man. Hopefully, I am wiser now, but I have not dated in a year. I really did not have very good experiences dating. Also, I have never really gotten through my grieving I guess.


302 posted on 10/02/2005 7:17:26 PM PDT by Goodgirlinred ( GoodGirlInRed Four More Years!!!!!)
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To: SweetCaroline
....if only men would realize this is one of the most important lessons they could learn but, sadly they don't/can't/won't!

Over the years I've noticed that the problem is people from different galaxies agreeing on common usage of words.

The difference between "looking" and "staring" for some of the most exotic denizens is non-existent!

Usually a seeing-eye dog and dark glasses in not an option!

303 posted on 10/02/2005 7:18:47 PM PDT by Publius6961 (Liberal level playing field: If the Islamics win we are their slaves..if we win they are our equals.)
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To: motormouth
LOL! Harm dragged me all over the doggie training area. I ended up on my stomach being dragged around so much that I hurt my back. The teacher could not even handle my baby. He is 3 years older now (turns four this month) so he is much better behaved. Now, he just pulls me around without dragging me to the ground. ;)
304 posted on 10/02/2005 7:25:28 PM PDT by Goodgirlinred ( GoodGirlInRed Four More Years!!!!!)
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To: LaineyDee
...it's just that the most of the eligible bachelors around here ...seem to be liberals.

Pardon me for appearing dense, but. Eligible for what?

305 posted on 10/02/2005 7:53:26 PM PDT by Publius6961 (Liberal level playing field: If the Islamics win we are their slaves..if we win they are our equals.)
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To: PaulaB
Uh oh...

Why do I get the impression you fine ladies are about to derail the thread again?
Albeit it in a different and alien direction?

306 posted on 10/02/2005 7:56:28 PM PDT by Publius6961 (Liberal level playing field: If the Islamics win we are their slaves..if we win they are our equals.)
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To: Goodgirlinred

First, Im so sorry for your loss.


I hope he continues to mellow with age for you!!! LOL

Bella drags me around all the time too, but its better than when she tries to hop on me...She's quite the Alpha!

MM


307 posted on 10/02/2005 8:00:21 PM PDT by motormouth (Good Grief!!!!!)
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To: Dashing Dasher
He told me that I wasn't smart enough to understand.

The ultimate response of the terminally stupid, of both sexes (all three?).
'Xcept they are not aware they're stupid.

308 posted on 10/02/2005 8:01:11 PM PDT by Publius6961 (Liberal level playing field: If the Islamics win we are their slaves..if we win they are our equals.)
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To: Goodgirlinred
Don't expect a woman to try to change you. We are smarter than that. :)

LOL!
That is hilarious.

You are hereby officially inducted as a permanent member of the Hans Christian Andersen Society...

309 posted on 10/02/2005 8:06:20 PM PDT by Publius6961 (Liberal level playing field: If the Islamics win we are their slaves..if we win they are our equals.)
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To: Publius6961
Pardon me for appearing dense, but. Eligible for what?

As you stated on a earlier post there are different reasons that different people have for dating

As for myself I date, or shall I say I would like to date,as a means of finding a mate, however I am not blind to a good friendship being the outcome, but that's not the purpose

And I can think of a couple things more fun for a Saturday night than posting!

310 posted on 10/02/2005 8:08:46 PM PDT by apackof2 (There's two theories to arguin' with a woman. Neither one works. Will Rogers)
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To: Goodgirlinred
The first guy I dated after my husband died was just interested in my money. I found that out just in the nick of time.

Differing is a good and healthy thing, but my red flag went up immediately.
How did the perp know you had the money to be "interested in" to begin with? Please don't say "appearances".

311 posted on 10/02/2005 8:13:44 PM PDT by Publius6961 (Liberal level playing field: If the Islamics win we are their slaves..if we win they are our equals.)
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To: motormouth
ROFL!!!
Stay cocky...and you'll stay single ;o)

Oh my word, Ms. MM.
Do I detect an underlying belief that the desire to date and the desire to remain single are absolutely and permanently mutually exclusive?

I think this is an important question, specially for those who have gone through the experiences that Fierce Allegiance and Goodgirlinred have described.

312 posted on 10/02/2005 8:26:52 PM PDT by Publius6961 (Liberal level playing field: If the Islamics win we are their slaves..if we win they are our equals.)
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To: Goodgirlinred
Yes, and luckily you got rid of the other rat!

OUCH!
Perhaps you're being unnecessarily harsh.
The poor guy may have been 600 miles away!

313 posted on 10/02/2005 8:33:41 PM PDT by Publius6961 (Liberal level playing field: If the Islamics win we are their slaves..if we win they are our equals.)
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To: Goodgirlinred
Oh, and Harm and I flunked out of doggie school. :(

Why am I not surprised?

314 posted on 10/02/2005 8:35:26 PM PDT by Publius6961 (Liberal level playing field: If the Islamics win we are their slaves..if we win they are our equals.)
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To: Publius6961

What you detect is my desire to.....Okay, Im telling you this why??? ROFL

MM


315 posted on 10/02/2005 8:50:32 PM PDT by motormouth (Good Grief!!!!!)
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To: Publius6961
Pardon me for appearing dense, but. Eligible for what?

Oh... me and the gals were chatting about our dating woes. It seems all the men I meet here (where I live) that are bachelors.....tend to be liberals.

316 posted on 10/02/2005 8:51:38 PM PDT by LaineyDee (Don't mess with Texas wimmen!)
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To: Goodgirlinred

I am also a widow (17 months along) and was just curious about your experience. God bless you and I am sorry for your loss.


317 posted on 10/02/2005 8:52:21 PM PDT by day10 (Rules cannot substitute for character.)
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To: LaineyDee
LOL!
No need to take it personally.

We are just having a calm friendly discussion here.
Right?
.. right?...

318 posted on 10/02/2005 8:54:04 PM PDT by Publius6961 (Liberal level playing field: If the Islamics win we are their slaves..if we win they are our equals.)
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To: Publius6961

Of course! Besides....my neurotic tendencies are safely tucked away. *smirk*


319 posted on 10/02/2005 8:56:39 PM PDT by LaineyDee (Don't mess with Texas wimmen!)
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To: motormouth
Yikes!

Remind me never to...
Never mind!

320 posted on 10/02/2005 8:57:35 PM PDT by Publius6961 (Liberal level playing field: If the Islamics win we are their slaves..if we win they are our equals.)
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