Shadow Posted on 12/06/2013 7:48:15 AM PST by DanMiller
This is a repeat of earlier posts about the loss of our best friend, Shadow. It's been seven years. We continue to miss her greatly and always will.
Shadow
Baby Shadow
Shadow was a beautiful, intelligent and playful Akita. We named her Shadow because she followed us like a shadow. We bought her as a young pup and, like most young pups, she enjoyed chewing on furniture and otherwise being mischievous to show her displeasure when we left her alone for a few hours.
Shadow greets Sizler
As she matured, Shadow taught our other pups and young horses how to play. When our pup Honey got pregnant before we had been able to have her fixed, Shadow ignored the pups for a time; then, one morning I saw the pups lying in a semicircle facing her in our yard. Also lying down and facing them, Shadow was gesticulating with her front paws and had to be telling them something, to which they were obviously quite attentive. When one of our mares gave birth, Shadow greeted the foal before Jeanie and I got there. The foal, only a few hours old, displayed no fear of Shadow; neither did her mother, Pimienta.
Shadow had full run of our finca and enjoyed "helping" to train our horses. She and Daisey took turns chasing each other while I worked with Daisey. It was a distraction, but a welcome one.
Here is a photo of Shadow whispering something to Sugar, Daisey's foal. They also enjoyed taking turns chasing each other around the fields.
Shadow was very athletic. Our own house at the finca had not been built then and so we lived in a rental house about six KM away. Shadow and I would go there almost daily. Sometimes she got in the car to go with me but often she preferred to run after the car for the first three KM or so -- always focussed on following the car and never distracted by other other dogs or anything else. When she got tired, she would happily get in the car to go the rest of the way with me. Upon arrival, she would leap from the car and mark various trees with her hind leg raised -- very much like a male dog. I never figured out why she did that but began calling her "Girlie Dog."
Shadow at the creek
Shadow also loved to play in the creek and that was her downfall. She managed to escape our rental house one night and didn't return until morning. She had apparently gone to play in a nearby creek where snakes gather at night to hunt. She was her usual happy self and greeted us by jumping almost as she always did, but she was limping because something had happened to her left hind leg. She deteriorated until her next and last night, seven years ago today when, at 2:06 a.m., she ceased to breathe and her heart stopped. She died despite the best efforts of a friend, a veterinarian, who had come twice to check on her and had then spent the last night on our sofa so that she could be there to help.
Shadow had been bitten by a snake, known here in Panamá as an Eques, or Xs, a close relative of the fer de lance, whose venom attacks the muscles that control respiration, heart action and other functions. We buried her at her favorite place on our finca, just outside a thatch roofed shelter where we had often gone to rest after working with the horses. Flowering bushes mark her grave. I always wave to her when I pass close to her grave, several times each day.
Here is a memorial I wrote to her:
To Shadow – (February 9, 2003 – December 6, 2006) -- You were our teacher, our best friend, and our constant companion. In your short time with us, you gave us unlimited and unconditional love. You tried to teach us how to give it as well. We tried, and hope that we were able to give you ours. You tried to give us your unlimited enthusiasm for life. We love you and miss you beyond words, and always will.
6 week old Princess
Sunshine at about 6 weeks
The day we buried Shadow, we visited the kind lady who had bred Shadow and had sold her to us. We had heard that it is a bad idea to acquire another pup soon after the death of one we had much loved but things didn't work out that way. We all hugged and cried a bit about Shadow and then she gave us one of Shadow's half sisters, from the same mother but by a "finca dog" (a mut). She had a regal bearing, even as a pup, so we named her Princess. She has lived up to her name and resembles Shadow in many, but not all, respects. Loving and quite athletic, she lacks much of Shadow's great playfulness; she is more "serious." We asked the lady to let us know when she had another pure Akita and when she did, we bought her. In memory of Shadow, we named her Sunshine. Sunshine also resembles Shadow in many respects, particularly in her playfulness and loving sense of humor.
Our three dogs now
Here is a photo taken a year ago of our three dogs. Ruff, one of Honey's pups, is on the right; he moved his head but then he often does things like that. We named him Ruff because, when I asked him to tell me his name, he said "Ruff." He is exceptionally sweet and gentle. Princess is in the middle staring at you -- she always looks us directly in the eye -- and Sunshine is on the left. Blind in one eye, she doesn't stare a lot but manages to navigate around the house and the finca quite well.
All three pups sleep on their own mattresses in our bedroom and, when the Sun appears, they gently awaken us to the new day. Ruff comes and asks to be patted on the head, Princess kisses us on the face and Sunshine mouths the bedspread (or a convenient arm) as though she were dealing with fleas on it but in reality is pretending to try to remove the bedspread (but not the convenient arm).
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Princess has decided that I need a care giver, and she tries to fill that role. As I have aged, it has become a bit difficult to walk even short distances. Going down stairs is particularly uncomfortable, but I generally need to walk to Jeanie's adjacent art studio to activate our internet connection. That involves doing down two steps. Princess one day noticed my difficulty and positioned herself to my left, so that I could lean on her shoulder. She now does that daily. Often, she positions herself outside the studio, on the terrace, to wait until I am about to descend the two steps from there, and then again positions herself to help me.
Sunshine's sight continues to deteriorate but her playfulness persists. Ruff remains Ruff, never changing: loving, devoted, playful and happy.
Nice post.
Dan, I couldn’t have said it better.
“Dogs’ lives are short, too short, but you know that going in. You know the pain is coming, you’re going to lose a dog, and there’s going to be great anguish, so you live fully in the moment with her, never fail to share her joy or delight in her innocence, because you can’t support the illusion that a dog can be your lifelong companion. There’s such beauty in the hard honesty of that, in accepting and giving love while always aware it comes with an unbearable price. Maybe loving dogs is a way we do penance for all the other illusions we allow ourselves and for the mistakes we make because of those illusions.” from The Darkest Evening of the Year by Dean Koontz
Great post. Thanks.
Shadow was a gem. You were lucky to have her. That picture of Sunshine as a puppy is so cute it hurts.
Great post. It’s always tough to lose a dog; even more so when you lose one at a young age.
I can feel that she's not sick anymore and is at peace and joy - just waiting for us to arrive someday.
By the edge of a woods, at the foot of a hill,
Is a lush, green meadow where time stands still.
Where the friends of man and woman do run,
When their time on earth is over and done.
=== SNIP ===
The sadness they felt while they were apart,
Has turned into joy once more in each heart.
They embrace with a love that will last forever,
And then, side-by-side, they cross over… together.
Beautiful dogs, all of them. God bless you! RIP Shadow!
I lost my beautiful dog 8 weeks ago and the pain is still raw. Thank you for the post.
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